In This Week in Pop-Culture we’re talking about Lizzo and.. whatever the hell his name is? Aries Spears? He did an interview where he said some heinous crap about her appearance and was wildly fatphobic. We break down the different ways that even the interviewer participates in this. We talk about the unique ways that fatphobia impacts women vs men and especially women of color.
Our listener question this week is from a woman who’s annoyed with her partner for making sex jokes and innuendo as a way to initiate sex. We talk about how to communicate better about this and we give lots of examples. We also play devil’s advocate a bit in trying to interpret the meaning behind the behavior to give a different perspective!
Then we have wins of the week! Cassie talks about their little sister’s hilarious terms and conditions for a threesome. Hailey is tapped out because we have extended family stressors this week.
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Aries Spears:
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Cassie:
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About the hosts:
Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC
Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.
Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN
Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.
IG: @sexateverysize
Email: sexateverysize@gmail.com
Cassie:
IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC
About the hosts:
Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC
Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.
Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN
Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.
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