What if porn could actually deepen your intimacy, spark real connection, and help you reclaim your pleasure without shame?
In this rebellious and radically honest episode, I sit down with Lily Sparks, the visionary founder and CEO of Afterglow, an ethical porn platform created by women. We dive deep into what it means to be turned on with intention from busting the myths around porn addiction to navigating boundaries, fantasies, and the healing power of conscious erotic content.
We’re talking:
✨ Why ethical porn is a game-changer for relationships
🔥 How couples can use porn to enhance intimacy (not escape it)
💬 Consent, representation, & real communication
💥 Reclaiming your sexual narrative without shame, guilt, or apology
Whether you’re porn-curious or ready to start your pleasure revolution, this conversation is your permission slip to explore, express, and embrace your turn-on unapologetically.
Jump to the mic drop moments...
0:00 Introduction to Afterglow and Ethical Porn
8:26 Representation and Confidence in Sexuality
17:18 The Reality of Pornography and Consent
26:01 Behind the Scenes of Ethical Porn Production
38:31 The Reality of Pornography and Consent
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