92. Modern Masculinity, Intentional Intimacy, & Choosing a ‘Good Enough’ Partner | A No BS Convo w/ Jordan Bowditch

“My relationship is the most important aspect of my life. Everything overflows from that. It is the most tangible way of communing with God & experiencing heaven on earth.” #goals

Men’s coach and intimacy guide Jordan Bowditch joins for a playfully sincere, no BS talk on modern masculinity, intentional intimacy, radical honesty, and choosing partnership in today’s world.

We get into how he and his wife keep passion alive after kids, navigating grief, their monogamish chapter, sex check-ins, and why scheduling intimacy is a game-changer. We also explore masculine/feminine dynamics, the “good enough partner” philosophy, and how faith and mysticism shape our outlook.

Jordan shares personal stories, realistic practices, and insights that make this one both grounded, playful, and valuable... great one for anyone navigating love, dating, sex, and commitment in a modern landscape.

Timestamps:
00:00 – Icebreaker: What’s turning Jordan on in life right now
02:00 – Fatherhood, aliveness, and marriage expansion
03:20 – Monogamish marriage and defining their container
07:00 – Weekly relationship check-ins & honest communication
10:00 – Scheduling sex and keeping intimacy intentional
13:00 – Building a sex dungeon (permission to play 😏)
18:00 – Relationship practices after kids
25:00 – Masculine/feminine dynamics and modern masculinity
39:00 – “Good enough love” and relationship clarity
44:00 – Deal-makers, deal-breakers, and choosing a partnership
48:00 – Shared vision & calling in committed love
50:00 – Faith, mysticism, and Jesus
56:00 – Jordan’s offerings & playful closing

Books Mentioned:
No More Mr Nice Guy - Dr. Robert Glover
The Way of The Superior Man - David Deida
Radical Honesty - Brad Blanton

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordanbowditch/
Website: https://www.universityofman.com/manmeet

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