“Your reality is a result of your nervous system and how you see life. Let’s shift that and be the doms of our lives.” - Kimi
This conversation with Kimi Inch, The Creatrix of Erotic Leadership™, is one I’ve been dreaming about for over a year. Kimi is a renowned expert with 20+ years of experience in the realm of intimacy, conscious kink, and unlocking your body’s untapped erotic energy. Featured on prestigious platforms such as The Oprah Winfrey Network, SXSW, Princeton University, and Nightline, Kimi’s goal as a pro-Domme, Somatic Therapist, and Sex-Positive Edu-tainer is to provide a safe and pleasure-filled space for exploring parts of ourselves that we rarely dare to look at.
It’s been a heavy week, both individually and collectively, and after we wrapped, she thanked me for my vulnerability and said, “The world doesn’t need more smart… the world needs more heart.”
I invite you to explore, be open to what is possible, and press play to discover how conscious kink might weave more heart into your life, and thus, consequently, ripple into the lives of others.
Click here to watch the full episode on YouTube.
We Explore...
▶Being turned on by the taboo
▶Kink as a pathway to altered states of consciousness
▶Why pain can be of service (and how to alchemize it)
▶Ego death, surrender, & liberation in play
▶Archetypes, Eros vs. ego, and erotic leadership
▶Spanking, chakras, and awakening life force energy
▶Dirty talk, erotic language & using your voice
▶Aftercare & integration
▶How to get your man into his heart during sex
🕰️ Timestamps
02:30 What is Conscious Kink?
04:30 Being turned on by taboo & the thrill of aliveness
05:45 Heart-centered kink: connection over performance
07:30 Why kink scares people & the cultural stigma
09:00 Surrender, ego death, & liberation through play
11:00 Mistress Nina Payne: Kimi’s dominatrix persona
13:00 Archetypes, eros vs. ego, & reclaiming power
20:30 Balancing communication with mystery in play
23:00 Erotic leadership vs. dominance/submission
27:00 Pervertibles: turning everyday life into play
29:00 Spanking, kundalini, & chakra awakening
31:30 How to get a man into his heart during sex
33:00 Alchemizing pain into power & life transformation
35:00 Dirty talk, erotic language, & the power of words
40:00 Sacredness in transitions, aftercare, & integration
45:00 Closing the energetic loop + integration rituals
Connect with Kimi Inch
Website: andmorepresents.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/kimiinch/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimiinch
Upcoming Experiences:
Something More: Oct 16-19, LA
The Initiation: Nov 15, Austin
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