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December 19, 2024 15 mins

On this week’s episode of the podcast, we have a special bonus episode – thirteen of our top tips from experts on how to have a better sex life. We’ll cover things like how you can use responsive desire to feel aroused – and why taking time to build arousal is so important, how to bring variety into your sex life, advice on how to give and receive feedback with a sexual partner, and more. 

 

Our experts include: 

Dr Laurie Mintz: author, speaker, therapist and emeritus professor, whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives. 

Melody Thomas: creator and host of The Good Sex Project – a podcast about good sex, good relationships and how to have them.  

Dr Ian Kerner: licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sex therapist who works with individuals and couples on a range of relational issues that often lead to distress. 

Susan Bratton: intimacy expert to millions, who is known as an ‘orgasmanaut’ and is an advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. 

Damian Weatherald: disability advocate and inclusivity consultant, sex educator, and sex toy guru.   

Dr Jenn Gunsaullus: keynote speaker, sociologist, sex coach, and author of From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women. 

Suzanne Werder: nurse practitioner from the New Zealand Sexual Health Society. 

Hollie McNish: award-winning poet, writer and performer. 


Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro 

00:36 – How to use responsive desire to feel aroused 

01:25 – How to give and receive feedback with a sexual partner 

02:06 – Why it’s important to take time to build arousal 

03:15 – How to practice self-advocacy in non-sexual situations 

03:57 – Why you should embrace laughter in sexual experiences 

04:40 – How trying something new in bed can help build intimacy 

05:14 – How we can reframe the way we think about condoms 

05:48 – Use a hand massage to practice communication 

07:02 – Why it’s important to treat others how they want to be treated 

07:42 – Why you should be asking questions in bed 

09:03 – Why it’s important not to rush into sex 

10:54 – How to bring variety into your sex life 

13:33 – How to prioritise your own pleasure 

14:17 – Conclusion  


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