If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting the sex, connection, or fulfillment you want ⚠️ - this conversation might blow something wide open for you.
🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this interview on Youtube.
In today’s episode, I interview Traver Boehm about the Nice Guy archetype — where it comes from, how it messes with your sex life, and what it really takes to reclaim your confidence, power, and desire as a man (and why WOMEN WANT THIS).
Traver doesn’t hold back. You'll hear raw personal stories, practical mindset shifts, and deep truths about what makes a man truly attractive — to women, to the world, and most importantly, to himself.
This is one of those episodes that might sting a little, especially if you see yourself in the patterns we’re talking about. But it’s also packed with insight, clarity, and actionable guidance that can help you start showing up with more honesty, sexual confidence, and grounded presence — starting now.
CONNECT WITH TRAVER:
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Kill the Nice Guy Course
🔸 Uncivilized Podcast
WORK WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)
🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025)
EPISODE TOPICS:
0:00 Intro
01:28 What the “Nice Guy” Archetype Actually Means
04:00 Why Being ‘Nice’ Doesn’t Get Your Needs Met
06:04 Traver’s Origin Story: Where Nice Guys Come From
11:59 Attachment VS Authenticity: The Conflict
16:14 Covert Contracts: The Hidden Deals That Sabotage Sex & Connection
20:26 The “No Women in the World” Thought Experiment
24:58 Story: Not Needing Anything Makes You Magnetic
32:50 Real vs. Fake Intimacy: What Happens When You Self-Source First
35:45 ACTION STEP: How to Make Your Life Amazing
40:54 Wants vs. Needs vs. Longings – A Reframe for Men
51:20 The Role of Brotherhood and Men’s Groups in Healing
01:06:57 Why Porn Hooks Nice Guys – And What It’s Really Doing to You
#menswork #mensmentalhealth #mensgroup
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