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October 27, 2022 23 mins

How far are you willing to go to create the passionate marriage you want? Are you ready to try anything? If you’re like many of my clients, you’re willing to do whatever it takes to create a connected, turned-on relationship. And I believe you can do it. Unfortunately, there’s no silver bullet that will resolve your conflicts and create closeness. You may have already tried many different strategies but still don’t see the desired results. In today’s episode, I’m going to talk about some of the solutions you can try in your quest to have the kind of love and sex in your marriage that you want.


In this episode, you’ll hear about:

  • Different types of strategies you might try when you want more from your marriage
  • The resources and tools my clients or I have used in each of the categories
  • Common issues that arise with each of these strategies
  • What to do when you feel like you’ve tried everything

And more. 

E.g. Join the conversation by listening, then share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Conscious Couples' Circle on Mighty Networks.


“We have to believe in something that we've never seen in order to bring it about and we have to push through the conventional wisdom of our time in order to create it”
-Michele Lisenbury Christensen

Hot Moments in This Episode:

  • “Fix us” solutions, vs “fix me” solutions (8:40)
  • Why you feel more responsible for the relationship (11:00)
  • Ways you may be distracting yourself from your deeper desires (14:45)
  • The revolution that you can join right now (20:00)

 Wherever you are on this ultimate journey of depth and devotion, and whatever your next step is, I wish you all the best. I want for you the love, sex, pleasure and intimacy with yourself, your partner and the divine that you want.

RESOURCES OR LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: (if applicable)

Toys in Babeland

Lelo.com

Laura Corn

David Deida

John Wineland

John Gottman, The Gottman Institute

Terry Real

Marshall Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication



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