In this conversation from the Archives, we revisit an episode with Dr Jennifer Finylason-Fife. TWe dive into the complexities of desire dynamics within marriage, particularly focusing on the roles of higher and lower desire spouses.
The discussion highlights the impact of predictability on desire, the importance of self-discovery, and the need for authenticity in relationships. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fyfe shares insights on how societal and cultural expectations shape women's experiences of desire and intimacy, emphasizing the significance of personal growth and self-awareness in fostering healthy relationships.
Learn more here https://finlayson-fife.com/
Takeaways
Desire dynamics in marriage often shift from high to low over time.
Predictability in marriage can stifle desire and intimacy.
Women often feel societal pressure to accommodate their partner's desires.
Self-discovery is crucial for understanding personal desires.
Authenticity in relationships fosters deeper connections.
Resentments can indicate unfulfilled desires that need addressing.
Propping up a partner's ego can harm both individuals in a relationship.
Intimate marriages require both partners to show up honestly.
Cultural narratives can shape our understanding of desire and intimacy.
Enjoy the show!
On the Xtended version …
Dr Jennifer and I discuss her research with LDS Women and sexuality and desire, as well as my research on the same topic with a conservative Christian population.
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