Shadow of Love Podcast

Shadow of Love Podcast

A modern conversation on love in the age of Tinder. Thought provoking and funny commentary on marriage and relationships. sol412.substack.com

Episodes

August 22, 2023 108 mins

Ernest and Holly discuss how bodies, requirements and expectations change with age and how that affects love and dating, and learn about our future gameshow, "Do you want to f**k with it?"



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Join us as we go to church with the Reverend Bishop Michelle Massie and she preaches on the importance of self-love and pampering!



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January 24, 2023 87 mins

We define 'feeling yourself', our worst sexual performances, and how to cultivate your own, powerful mojo.



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December 27, 2022 76 mins

We get into the nitty gritty of relationship history, what and when to share, the questions you should be asking, and the four words that make Ernest’s heart go pitter patter. It’s our last recorded podcast for 2022 and it’s dope!



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November 22, 2022 68 mins

We talk holiday dating, cuffing season, Hallmark movies and more!



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November 8, 2022 88 mins

We dish on our requirements, the horror of online dating apps, challenges of dating in your 40s, and our 'ideal dates'. 



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October 19, 2022 50 mins

Why is honesty important? How do you value honesty differently with age? What does it mean to be honest in a relationship context? Join us for a discussion about transparency and truth.



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September 27, 2022 56 mins

We're back, wrapping up hot days and hotter nights, catching up and discussing the magic of love in summertime as we move into autumn. Join us for our first episode of season two!



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May 24, 2022 76 mins

We talk with Gene about what he considers the two riches, the importance of balance, creative growth, Kennywood memories, and where Gene misses eating french fries. 



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May 10, 2022 95 mins

We go down the rabbit hole on love and art with the one and only Gene Stovall!


Find out what 3 things Gene bought at Allegheny Center Mall with his first theater paycheck, our top television sitcoms, and why Gene uses his voice as a turntable.  



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Ernest and Holly talk emotions, what changes when you decide to divorce, and practical ways to get through such a challenging time.



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April 12, 2022 95 mins

Ernest and Holly discuss the nuances of deciding when divorce might be necessary, how to cope with the notion of divorce, and how to prepare for divorce. 



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In this episode, we discuss what pop musician was really rockabilly, what R & B musician has increased the black population by 25%, and the movies that made Izzy decide to become a musician.



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We discuss our earliest love songs, the songs too painful to revisit, rugged music from the 80s, and who George Clinton asked to smoke a doobie with him.



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We discuss the challenges of keeping the flame of being a 'couple', the stranger game, the importance of protecting your peace, the three 'Rs' of coupling, and what zodiac sign the police told Ernest he can't date anymore. 



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January 18, 2022 70 mins

We chat with sexpert Ngozi about music and sensuality, relationships, and the difference between love vs lust.



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January 4, 2022 64 mins


We discuss soulmates, what Ernest would tell his past self, and why you should be careful who you f**k...



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We talk family traditions, our best/worst holidays, ways to embrace the holidays solo, our favorite Christmas movies, what characters in It's A Wonderful Life mimic modern day politicians, and our 'words' for the New Year. 



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Ernest and Holly discuss relationship 'red flags', how family influences how we interpret warning signs, and advice from a Michigan pimp.



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Ernest and Holly chat with Justin Strong, creator of the Shadow Lounge, about maintaining love while running a sexy business, and why he uses the '90' day rule with potential love interests. 


 
Justin Strong, Small Business & Nightlife Hospitality Consulting
www.justinstrong.net

 

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