Reddit Sex Questions & Naughty in New Orleans: Judging, Swapping, and Swabbing

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This week on the Shameless Care Podcast, Robert and Anna are answering the internet’s most chaotic, panicked, and occasionally heartwarming questions about sex, STIs, and non-monogamy—pulled straight from Reddit.

We’re also getting ready for Naughty in New Orleans, the country’s largest lifestyle convention. That means we’re talking about how to stay safe, stay hot, and stay honest in spaces where consent, chemistry, and communication matter more than ever.

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🧠 In this episode:

1. Should you change condoms between partners during an orgy?
Yes. But we explain why, how, and how to not kill the mood while doing it.

2. “I’ve been monogamous for a year and just tested positive for trichomoniasis. Did my partner cheat?”
Maybe. Maybe not. We break down the science, timelines, and how to have that conversation without turning it into a full-blown betrayal spiral.

3. A guy received oral sex from a sex worker, took 12 HIV tests, and is still panicking.
We talk about anxiety vs. risk, what oral sex actually carries in terms of HIV danger (spoiler: very little), and how to stop spiraling when you’ve already tested negative repeatedly.

4. “I just found out I have chlamydia and I’m in a new relationship… but I haven’t been tested in over a year. Could it be from my ex?”
The chlamydia mystery timeline! How long it can hang around (rarely), and what’s actually more likely. Also: why crying over your first STI is totally normal—and what happens next.

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🍍 Plus: Naughty in New Orleans

Heading to Naughty in NOLA? So are we. We talk etiquette, testing strategy, how to avoid “forced friendliness,” and what it’s like to attend the world’s biggest swinger takeover.

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💬 Real Talk

We answer real questions with science, sarcasm, and a deep belief in shame-free healthcare. If you’ve ever Googled something at 2 a.m. and thought, “Is this normal?”—this episode is for you.

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🎯 Who this episode is for:
•Anyone who’s had sex… ever
•CNM couples who want to play safe and smart
•People confused by STI testing myths
•Reddit lurkers who never post but read it all
•Anyone attending Naughty in New Orleans
•Sex nerds, healthcare skeptics, and the “curious but cautious” crowd

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