Sex, Science, and Sildenafil: Real Solutions for Women’s Pleasure

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It’s 2025. We have self-driving cars, and instant delivery of anything you want…
But when it comes to women’s sexual pleasure?
We’re still catching up.

This week on the Shameless Care Podcast, Robert and Anna dive deep into a topic that’s long been ignored, misunderstood, or brushed off: medications that enhance sexual arousal and pleasure for women.

We’re not talking about some sketchy “pink pill” nonsense or weird Goop-sponsored yoni eggs. We’re talking real pharmacology, real blood flow, and real results — backed by peer-reviewed science and real-world feedback.

🧴 First up:
Shamelessly Aroused — our topical sildenafil cream designed specifically for women. It increases blood flow to the clitoral and vulvar tissue, enhancing sensitivity and responsiveness. For some women, it’s life-changing. For others, it’s subtle but noticeable. And for a few, it doesn’t do much — because that’s how individualized arousal is.

💊 Then we spill the details on our newest formula:
A sublingual troche combining 5 mg tadalafil (aka “the weekend pill”) with 100 IU of oxytocin, the bonding hormone. It’s sex-positive pharmacology at its finest — giving your brain and your body what they both crave. Think better lubrication, stronger contractions, heightened desire, and more connected intimacy.
No sugar pills. No snake oil. Just medicine.

💬 Along the way, we cover:
• Why topical meds are different from oral ones
• The real science behind “female Viagra” — and why that’s a misleading term
• What oxytocin actually does in the brain and body
• Why so many women have been left out of sexual medicine conversations
• The problem with pretending that arousal is all mental — and the truth about what turns women on

✨ This isn’t about fixing something “broken.” It’s about expanding what’s possible. Pleasure isn’t a luxury — it’s health. And we’re here for it.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected, distracted, or just not that into it — this episode is for you. If you’ve ever thought, “I know my body can do more, I just don’t know how to get there” — buckle up.

Sexual health is health. Period.
And we’re finally giving women’s pleasure the pharmacological respect it deserves.