She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - Things We Assume Are Red Flags, But Maybe They Aren't - (SPTTOG) by Annie of The Banannie Diaries

You’ve heard it before: “That’s a red flag.” Maybe it was something small — like a text that came too fast (or too slow), a comment that felt off, or a moment that just didn’t sit right. But what if… it wasn’t a red flag at all?

In this episode of She’s Probably Talking to Other Guys, Annie invites you to zoom out and take a second look at the labels we place on people and situations — especially when it comes to dating, friendships, and navigating everyday life.

What we assume is a red flag might just be a misunderstanding, a difference in communication style, or even a projection of our own past experiences. And on the flip side? Some so-called “green flags” might deserve a little more scrutiny than we give them.

We’re picking apart the flag frenzy — both red and green. From playful debates to thoughtful reflection, Annie explores how assumptions take root, how context shapes our reactions, and why perspective really is everything. This isn’t about ignoring your intuition — it’s about developing a more intentional lens for how you interpret behavior, patterns, and people.

Throughout this episode, expect:
— Real-life examples that might make you rethink red and green flags
— A little devil’s advocate energy (just enough to stir the conversation)
— Gentle reminders that communication, context, and curiosity matter more than snap judgments

Whether you're single and dating, deep in your healing era, or just someone who loves calling out patterns — this one’s for you. Because the truth is, a lot of what we assume is based on fear, past experiences, or viral advice we never questioned.

🎧 Tune in, take what resonates, and leave what doesn’t. And hey — you might walk away seeing things a little differently. You won’t know unless you press play and give this episode a listen.