shift happens | personal growth, self-reflection, and stories that shift your perspective

shift happens | personal growth, self-reflection, and stories that shift your perspective

the name shift happens isn’t just "clever"… it’s intentional. because let’s be real: the only difference between “shift” and “sh!t” is one little letter. that “f” is your f — your focus, your fight, your follow-through. we all go through sh!t. the podcast is about what happens after that. do you stay stuck in the mess, or do you shift? that “f” is the choice. and this show is for people ready to make it. this podcast is the antidote to surface-level self-help and fake positivity that feels like empty promises and feel-good fluff. we don't do that here... we talk real growth, real mindset shifts, and the hard, uncomfortable stuff no one else will say out loud. you’ll get daily shift starters to hit you with perspective before your first cup of coffee, and weekly episodes that dig deep into identity, healing, chaos, and choosing growth when it’d be easier not to. i’m kayla — your tough love bestie, mom of 5, and the voice in your ear when you’re ready to stop blaming life’s chaos and start using it as momentum. life handed me some pretty sh!tty cards over the years and that’s exactly why i’m so passionate about helping other women deal with theirs.

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June 18, 2025 2 mins

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: are you making decisions based on what you want, or what you want to avoid?

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: what part of your past are you still letting run your present like a ghost?

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: what’s your plan... a move or just more mental gymnastics?

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: what if the "bad days" are just the price you pay for real change?

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: how many times are you gonna hit the same wall before you admit it’s you building it?

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think happily ever after just happens when you meet the right person? yeah… no.

in this episode, i sit down with marriage + intimacy coach monica tanner—host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast and author of Bad Marriage Advice—to unpack the truth about what actually keeps love alive. (hint: it’s not date nights or fancy vacations.)

we ta...

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: how often do you let feelings vote when only discipline should decide?

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: are you avoiding peace because you’ve only ever trusted the chaos?

▶️ listen in, reflect hard, and come ba...

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“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with a hard question then leave you with a reflection to get your mind moving and your life shifting.

💭 the question: what version of you do you keep pretending you’ve outgrown, but secretly still live as?

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⚠️ heads up: this episode was recorded for the new visual version now live on youtube, so you might hear sound effects or video-style pacing. but i wanted to make sure you could still catch it here in your normal spot.

“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with ...

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⚠️ heads up: this episode was recorded for the new visual version now live on youtube, so you might hear sound effects or video-style pacing. but i wanted to make sure you could still catch it here in your normal spot.

“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with ...

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what if the thing you're scared to do is the thing that sets you free? in this raw, honest convo, emily hardy shares her story of what happens after you start choosing yourself. we talk burnout, shame, chasing the spark, healing in real time, and why choosing yourself doesn’t make you selfish... it makes you free. this one’s for the moms, t...

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⚠️ heads up: this episode was recorded for the new visual version now live on youtube, so you might hear sound effects or video-style pacing. but i wanted to make sure you could still catch it here in your normal spot.

“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with ...

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⚠️ heads up: this episode was recorded for the new visual version now live on youtube, so you might hear sound effects or video-style pacing. but i wanted to make sure you could still catch it here in your normal spot.

“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with ...

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⚠️ heads up: this episode was recorded for the new visual version now live on youtube, so you might hear sound effects or video-style pacing. but i wanted to make sure you could still catch it here in your normal spot.

“shift starters” are your daily hit of tough love and truth. each day taps into a piece of the S.H.I.F.T. method, i hit you with ...

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mental health awareness month is cute and all, but let’s be honest...your brain doesn’t run on a calendar.

your anxiety doesn’t care what month it is. your burnout doesn’t wait for a campaign. your trauma doesn’t clock out on june 1st. this episode is your reminder that mental health is not a moment. not a hashtag. not a trend. it’s your daily re...

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she’s the only assistant principal in her building, and while she’s passionate about leadership and growth, the reality behind the role isn’t what most people expect. in this anonymous interview, we talk about the emotional toll of constant negativity, the weight of discipline, and the pressure to stay “professional” even when lines are crossed....

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shelby is a preventative mental health professional working in schools. she’s here to pull back the curtain on what’s really happening with today’s teens, why early intervention matters, and how the kids who “look fine” are often the ones slipping through the cracks. from her time as a behavior therapist to now running peer-led support groups ac...

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in today’s episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on a career most people think they understand, but really don’t.

meet alyssa, a speech-language pathologist who works primarily in early intervention. most people assume speech therapists just help kids pronounce their “s” and “r” sounds...but that’s barely scratching the surface. alyssa breaks d...

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May 22, 2025 25 mins

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most people don’t think about how mentally exhausting grooming dogs and cats really is. nicole dupont wasn’t even a dog person when she started, and it took her months to get the hang of it. she opens up about the pressure of safety, the constant unpredictability, and the reality of juggling pet parents’ expectations with animals that don’t sit ...

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