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June 28, 2020 58 mins

Kristy and Angie discuss the pervasive anti-black racism in society and in the Asian-diaspora community. We throw away our original episode 4 plans to talk about and sit with a heavy subject that brings us a lot of discomfort.

Highlights

  • Outdated stereotypes about the black community and in our own community 
  • Reading lyrics from Akala, a British rapper, journalist, author, activist and poet 
  • Going to Vancouver's downtown eastside to retrieve a phone 

Takeaway

  • Violence is not the root of racism, it's a symptom of a system that needs to change 
  • We may not eradicate racism in our lifetime but we can accept that we are all racist and confront our own implicit biases as a step in the right direction 
  • Talk through your discomfort around difficult subjects with friends and family members to grow together 

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