Ep. 32: How to Put People at Ease (ft. Abby Adams)

In this episode of Silent Service, Will Diesel sits down with Abby Adams, a childcare worker, future pediatrician, and friend from his Jesuit Volunteer Corps days. Abby shares her journey of service in Spokane, what it means to build trust with kids and teens, and why being at ease with yourself is the first step to helping others feel comfortable.

Midway through, Matt DiMauro joins for a short but meaningful segment, offering a mentor’s perspective on enthusiasm, consistency, and connection. Together, the conversation explores community, mentorship, and the power of listening with insights that will resonate with parents, teachers, and anyone who wants to help others feel truly seen and understood.

0:00 – Meet Abby: Service, vision, and heart for others
3:00 – Spokane stories and the freedom to start fresh
6:00 – Life after service and friendships that change
9:00 – From princess dreams to a doctor’s calling
12:00 – Lessons from the clinic and EMT frontlines
15:00 – Youth group struggles and earning trust
18:00 – Breakthrough moments with teens
21:00 – Matt steps in: mentorship and family wisdom
24:00 – Big dreams: medical school and beyond
27:00 – Career lessons and the power of mentors
30:00 – Middle school, uniforms, and growing up
33:00 – Parenting insights and unconditional love
36:00 – Positivity, presence, and connection
39:00 – Why being at ease with yourself matters
42:00 – Final reflections and Hemingway’s wisdom

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