Silver Divorce Podcast

If you are in the military or married to someone who is a service member and you are considering divorce, there are very unique aspects to a military divorce that you will want to know. Listen as David Smith, a retired US Air Force Dental Officer, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Certified QDRO Specialist, Military Divorce Financial Specialist, and founder of Sand Oak Divorce Solutions shares his expertise to help you avoid the...

Do you find yourself more anxious, stressed, perhaps becoming sick more frequently? There is a reason for that. It’s called Retired Husband Syndrome (RHS). Listen in as I share what RHS is and how you can manage not to lose your health and your sanity.

RHS is a real psychosomatic illness. It refers to a physical condition where wives experience stress, anxiety, or other health problems after their husbands retire and are home more o...

Divorce signifies the end of a marriage, a relationship, and a shared future, which can be deeply painful and evoke feelings of grief. Society does not always recognize that grief after divorce is real, causing many to keep their pain in the shadows. Listen as Tracy Nalory Fultz, a licensed clinical social worker, and owner of Heartfelt Needs Counseling and Caring Center helps walk us through healing, growth, and wholeness.

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More couples are divorcing after age 50 than ever before. Yet, there is another phenomenon on the rise: the Silent Divorce. Many married people experience this phase for years before deciding to divorce. Some never divorce for financial reasons or they still have children in the home, or because they think this is the way it has to be when you are older. Listen in as I talk about the growing awareness of the Silent Divorce Phenomen...

We're doing a podcast swap with the Empowered Career Woman Podcast! This episode is a departure from our normal format as we delve into the topic of how women can show up in the workplace, be seen, be heard, and receive the respect we deserve.

Dr. Veronica Anderson shares her enlightening and practical method for creating successful careers and fulfilling relationships. She also reveals the secret to getting and keeping the ...

If you are struggling with emotional pain from your divorce or even events in your past and are unable to move forward in your life, listen as Patrick Ward, a neuroplastician and founder of Healing Mindshift, shares how to release emotional pain by working with the subconscious mind to rewire the memories and beliefs that quietly shape how we feel, think, and show up in life. Patrick shares:

• How our past memories quietly shape o...

If your divorce was the result of the trauma of abuse or betrayal, you probably spent decades in a state of confusion and disconnection. Listen as Stephanie Blyler shares her work at Connections That Heal, and how she gently guides women to reconnect with themselves, with God, and with others in a safe community. She helps women move from second-guessing and self-doubt to grounded awareness and quiet confidence in a life after #div...

When your divorce is final and the assets are divided, you may not think about how to protect what you have. It is vital that you think about what you need to do to protect yourself and your estate in the future, no matter the size of your estate. Listen as Nancy Cogar, an attorney who focuses her practice on the vital areas of Elder Law, Estate and Long Term Care Planning, Trusts, and Probate discusses:

• How taking a proactive a...

The word “divorce” conjures up images of fierce court battles. Yet, in the United States, nearly 95% of divorces are settled out of court. There is a process that will not only save dollars, but has a better chance of preserving family relationships. In this episode, Brenda Bridges, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, mediator, Certified Divorce Coach, and author shares how to navigate one of life’s most difficult transitions wi...

In this episode, which is a replay of one of our earlier shows, Pat Owens, a Divorce Care facilitator, discusses the importance of putting boundaries in place during your divorce process and after,. Boundaries help to foster a sense of trust, safety, and respect both during the divorce process and after. It is important to stand in your power to protect your mental health and well-being. Some important aspects to creating boundarie...

There is no escaping menopause. Every woman will experience this life-changing event, with varying degrees of disruption to our lives. For many, they attribute menopause to the disintegration of their marriage. Listen in as nurse practitioner Laura Chastain discusses the effects of perimenopause and menopause on our bodies and relationships, and shares tips on how to communicate with your spouse and manage your symptoms.

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So many times, the focus is on the wife’s perspective. But what if we explored divorce from the husband’s perspective? What if we attempt to understand his emotions, his pain and motives? Listen as Dr. Bernadette Atanga, a physician, speaker, and leadership coach with more than 30 years of experience in Internal Medicine and Pediatrics with special interest in Emotional Health and Cultural and author of Beneath the Armor: 8 Practic...

If you were a stay at home mom or perhaps worked part time during marriage and are now faced with finding a job after your divorce, listen in as Maggie Carrington, a seasoned HR strategist and business advisor with more than 35 years of experience, and founder of HR Habitude and Candor & Courage At Work® shares her wisdom.

Reentering the job market after a long absence can present several challenges, including outdated skills, c...

Substance abuse is cited as the main factor in nearly 35 percent of divorces. Older adults are using opioids, alcohol, marijuana, and heroin at increasing rates. So much so, that it is being called the silent epidemic. Listen as Debbie Loudermilk, the Director of Outpatient Services for the Council for Alcohol and Drug Abuse Services, discusses why this is happening at increasing rates and who is most at risk.

Drug abuse among olde...

Understanding your options for the house when undergoing divorce is a significant challenge. Often, we make the decision on whether to keep or sell the house based on our emotions. Perhaps it is where the kids are living or where they grew up and you have a sentimental attachment, or maybe you are determined not to let your spouse keep it out of spite. The most important thing to know is there are major ramifications to your decisi...

Globally, nearly 1 in 3, or 30%, of women have been subjected to physical and/or sexual violence by an intimate partner.

Survivors of domestic violence struggle to voice their experiences in a way that can rise above the often overpowering narrative of their abusers.

The scale of the problem leaves many without support. Human counselors, while passionate and dedicated, could never meet the needs of so many. That’s why the co-founders...

The road to recovery after divorce is paved with stones and boulders. Because divorce is so common, society expects us to “suck it up” or “get over it” quickly. We think there is something wrong with us if we have not snapped back to our usual chirpy self within a few short months. Listen in as I share three common roadblocks to recovering after divorce.

In this solo episode of the Silver Divorce Podcast, I’ll discuss.:

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“And they can’t understand what hurts more - missing the other person or pretending not to.” One of the hardest emotions to manage when divorce is new and raw is a longing for our spouse. What we miss is, in reality, the person they once were. How do we begin to manage our emotions and memories and cope with loneliness? In this solo episode of the Silver Divorce Podcast, I’ll share.:

• Practical tips to set yourself up to eliminat...

In the US, about 75% of people who divorce remarry, with roughly half of those remarrying within five years. Yet, the divorce rate for second marriages is hovering around 60-67 percent, many say because we tend to marry the same type of person we divorced before taking time to heal and find someone who shares our same values. How do you find a love online that will be a life partner? Listen as Dr. Renee Gordon, an author of 11 book...