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July 28, 2025 24 mins

In this solo episode, I’m finally spilling the tea on my past dating life! The awkward first dates, emotional red flags, and the unexpected lessons that shaped the way I love today. You guys know I’ve talked about being married and divorced, maybe even having a crush or two… but you haven’t heard the full story... until now!
I’m sharing everything from a guy who pretended to be his twin (yes, really), to the moments that made me rethink my deal breakers and non-negotiables. We’re talking emotional availability, spiritual alignment, hygiene, therapy, masculinity, and the kind of love that makes you feel calm.

💬 In this episode:
 – My most cringeworthy dates and why I gave second (and third) chances
 – My top deal breakers (bad hygiene and no belief in God make the list)
 – What emotional availability really looks like in a man
 – Healthy masculinity vs. toxic control and how to tell the difference
 – Why intentional effort > expensive gestures
 – What “green flags” look like for me now
If you’re navigating dating in your 20s or 30s, I hope this episode gives you some clarity, some laughs, and a reminder that it’s okay to want more. You deserve a love that feels safe, steady, and aligned with who you are!
✨ Let me know: What’s YOUR biggest deal breaker in dating?
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