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(00:00):
The truth is that. You don't have to hustle in a
toxic masculine way in order to be successful, in fact.
I think the greatest success. Comes from this method.
That I feel like I have. Curated and created and
clarified. And I'm calling this the bloom
method because I'm like, this ishow you are going to bloom into
(00:21):
your most vibrant. Successful self without.
Burning yourself out without literally hating yourself into
discipline. Without.
Giving up on yourself because. You're.
Paralyzed by getting it wrong. Or because you're so exhausted
because you keep. Pushing and pushing and pushing
and not working with the. Natural cycles of your life.
(00:47):
What is up, guys? I'm Kayla Rose, of course.
If you know me, you know I'm thehost of skinny dipping.
The. Podcast where we talk.
About the intersectionality of mental health and spirituality.
And today I'm so incredibly excited.
This is the season of reclaimingwholeness, so.
This is actually the last. Episode of this season we've
talked about reclaiming wholeness we've talked about
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anxiety we've. Talked about joy.
We've talked about flow. State and today we're talking
about something that I need to talk about in order to claim
every single part of myself and that is entrepreneurship
because. I believe that I.
Am put on this planet to honestly be a businesswoman and
be an entrepreneur like I am. Life path.
(01:28):
AI love. Playing with the material realm,
the 3D realm in. Order to create art.
And create success and create. Results.
I think it's. An incredibly fun game to play
and I have been an entrepreneur.For. 12 years now and I've
learned so many things along theway and I think I'm just doing
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things so differently than so many other people and I'm also
just constantly discovering how.To really serve.
My entrepreneurship and my spiritual entrepreneurship in
the. Best way possible and I've
created these six pillars of the.
Bloom method to show. You.
(02:11):
How you can also apply these different techniques, reframes
and mindset shifts so that you can.
Be a successful. Entrepreneur without having to
fall into a system that. Expects you to burn.
Yourself out in order. To be successful.
And also, who also expects you to only be?
(02:32):
Proud of yourself. If you're reaching a certain.
Level of visibility. Or a certain level of.
Success I personally. Feel like I'm doing things in a
different way and I wanted to put it into words and into a
method. For you guys so these.
Are going to be. The six pillars of the.
Blue method so that you can create the businesses that you
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want to create. You can create the art you want
to create. You can create the financial
abundance that you want to create in life without having to
do it in this old world. Archetype way that is.
Rooted in the toxic masculine that says hustle and you'll be
successful, right? Hustle and you'll be successful.
(03:13):
Burn yourself out to the ground if you want to make it.
It's just so old school. And it's not the way that we're
stepping into currently in this new Age of Aquarius and the way
the world is going like. We are all collectively.
Learning that that no longer functions for us and for our
(03:34):
bodies and for our nervous systems, and we need to do
things in a new way. But it's like, what is the new
way? And I always remind myself, I'm
giving myself so much grace and understanding because I'm like,
nobody is teaching me how to do this.
I am just discovering it throughtrial and error.
And that's why I wanted to shareit with you guys today.
So I'm Kayla, this is skinny to bang.
(03:55):
Let's strip down and dive. In make sure also.
To join the community if you want to do a 30 day soft because
I think a huge part of entrepreneurship that I'm not
going to talk about today is taking care of yourself and
being devoted to your habits andrituals that make you feel like.
You're. I want to say.
(04:15):
High as self but. I'm trying to remove that
language a little. Bit for me like high.
Vibrational, low vibrational, because I think every experience
that we have doesn't need to be deemed bad or good.
Or high or low. Because in fact, the experience
that we're receiving in the current moment is the exact
experience that we need in orderto learn the lessons that we
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need to learn moving forward forour greatest fulfillment, for
our greatest success in the future.
So not your highest vibrational self, but I think just like your
most aligned. Self, that's what the rituals.
And habits do for you and the 30day soft.
Would be a. Perfect place to begin.
It's my. Birthday this week, so we're
taking a couple weeks off. I'm going to see my friends in
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Kauai. I'm so incredibly excited.
We're bopping over. Yeah, my birthday is March 22nd.
So I'm so excited. I'm on the cusp of Pisces and
Aries, and, you know, it's such an important part of who I am
because Aries, you know, is. The starter they love to start.
Fires in the best way. Possible like the fire of life,
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the fire of. Creation, the fire of business,
the fire of entrepreneurship. We love to get things going.
And because I'm on the cusp of Aries and Pisces, for me the
Pisces brings in this. Spiritual aspect.
This aspect. Where I know.
That the path. To my greatest success is in
direct correlation with my path.Do the deepest.
Fulfillment, you know, my spiritual journey and my
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business journey and my entrepreneurship journey for me
go hand in hand. I'm so excited.
To tell you about these pillars,but I just.
Wanted to let you guys know you can still join the 30 day soft.
We're doing like a second-half winner who is going to win my
favorite Oracle deck, and I think this is just.
Going to be really special because.
You don't have to do. The full 30 days.
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And I want you to know that you don't have to.
Show up perfectly. You just have to show up.
And that is enough. So join to win the giveaway.
Join the community. It's popping in there.
People are sharing so much. Go check it out.
Let's dive in. Why the?
Fuck am I. Qualified to talk about this?
I have been. A creator before I did.
Social media, and I want you to know you can be a creator too,
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without social media. I did photography and that's how
I got my start in business and entrepreneurship when I was 17.
I'm about to turn 26. My math may be a little off on
the years, but that was my firstbusiness and it was incredibly.
Successful. I, you know, started.
Charging like $100.00 an hour ended up moving within like a
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year. To $500.
An hour, people were paying it, I was saving money, I was making
bank, I was working often and then I started doing social
media That started oing off. I have done a UGC business where
I create content for other companies.
That has done well for me. I have done my podcast camp and
social media mentorship. That has gone super well.
(07:07):
I've done 4 rounds and now actually.
As of today, we're going to talkabout it halfway through the
episode, but as of today, you. Can join podcast camp literally
at any time. I've also started my business of
doing a community and membershipand I've been exploring that for
a couple years and I finally feel like I have it down with
the relaunch. It's been going really well.
So overall I am just the queen of always starting new endeavors
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and not everything is worked out, not going to lie, but most
things have. Worked out.
Pretty well and I feel. Like I just have.
This knack for entrepreneurship,and I want to share with you the
mindsets that I personally use that I feel like.
Have shaped who I. Am as a creator who I am as a
businesswoman. I really want this to be an
episode of rebranding being a businesswoman and rebranding
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entrepreneurship for just this new generation that is doing
things differently. That's what this episode is.
Fucking about. And the truth is, all of this
information, I might tell it to you today and it might take six
months for it to truly soak intoyour body and process and be
implemented. That is totally OK.
(08:16):
Know that these are new neural pathways being created in your
brain literally when you're learning something like
entrepreneurship is literally a skill.
Business is literally a skill when you're learning through the
process of trial and error, or learning through mentorships or
listening to. Podcasts or YouTube videos?
You have to understand these arenew ways of thinking and your
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brain is actually creating new neural pathways.
So at first you might see something, you might get it, but
you might not fully understand it or embody it.
And that's. Totally OK through practice.
You will create new neural pathways in your brain and
eventually these. Pillars will.
Be your new way of thinking, butjust along the way.
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Please give yourself grace. Please give yourself grace.
And know that it might take time, because the truth is that
society trained us. To be a cog.
In the machine because it. Is better for a lot of the.
People who are in power, you know, the people who are making
the decisions. For society collectively over.
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Time it is more useful to them to.
Teach people how to do what theysay versus teach.
People how to empower themselvesin.
Order to do what we. Are meant to do, if that makes
sense. It is so much.
Easier to just put cogs. In the machine and have people
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work for. You so all these people.
Can make so much money and the truth is that within the school
system. That we were raised literally,
this is what this is what has. Happened.
We weren't trained how to be financially abundant and free.
We were taught how to. Fit into the machine and to do.
What we are told, so it is up tous to.
Unprogram and reprogram this and.
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Realize that we need to. Learn how to be empowered so
that we can. Create what we are.
What we want to create and the truth is with business and
entrepreneurship, How do you know if a business.
Idea is a good idea. Create what you wish existed.
That is the fucking life hack ofthe century.
What you feel like younger? You needed make that.
(10:24):
That is how you create. A business and a product from
such an incredible place of deepintegrity and that's what I want
to see from you guys creating that's like this you know new
generation spiritual entrepreneurship for me is
people creating based on their gifts and realizing that your
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wounding is your wisdom and whenever you had a problem with.
Probably other people have a. Problem with too and if you.
Heal it for yourself. Or you find a solution.
For it a product A. Creation a business A maybe?
You yourself or the business like I am for me.
You have to understand that thisis.
The way the world is. Going and if we can tap into it,
(11:07):
it's going to be fucking magic. So where all my entrepreneurship
girlies? At also if.
I sound out of breath. It's really fucking hot.
I'm recording my car. It's midday, it's sunny, it's
beautiful. If you're watching the.
Video on Spotify. Hi, I love you if.
You're on Apple Podcast or any other platform.
You're hearing my voice. Just know if I sound a little.
(11:30):
Out of breath. It's because it's hot.
It's fuck. I need to take.
A sip of water. Do you have your water?
I finally got. A Yeti for Christmas.
My boyfriend got it for me and Iswear to God since I've had my
emotional. Support Yeti I have.
Drinking so much more. Water like it is literally.
The best thing in the world I. Realized I had headaches midday.
(11:53):
Because I wasn't drinking enoughwater.
So this is your reminder. Drink fucking water.
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Form of dopamine and escapism. The first pillar is cyclical.
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Creation. So we are creating in this
cyclical nature rather than thiscontinual nature that right now,
as as I've seen on the Internet and just with businesses,
society expects us. To always be.
Creating and producing and doingand the truth.
Is that is just? Not fucking sustainable.
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Like it is not sustainable. And that's where we are in
burnout. Or we're in paralysis.
We don't even want to. Start because we realize.
Oh my God, if I start this I'm going to have to like produce
non-stop and that overwhelm can.Create this self sabotage block.
Within us. And it's like, OK, let's just
cancel that and realize you don't have to be a fucking
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machine. Producing, producing, creating,
creating, sharing, sharing. It's OK to work in a cyclical
nature. That's actually better for you.
And this cyclical nature for me as a woman with a menstrual.
Cycle, it's going to be different for everybody, but.
With me, who's tuned up to my menstrual cycle, to my cycle I.
Really do. Work with my cycle when I'm
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working and doing entrepreneurship, so there's.
Multiple facets to the cyclical nature.
There's the literal cycle. Sinking of yourself and the moon
and your own, you know, menstrual cycle, if that's
something that you even. Have but also there's.
Different cyclical natures. There's the seasons of the year
and how that can affect your business.
There's, you know, seasons of life, you know, seasons of life
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and like, is it a push season oris it a rest season?
And then there's also like, justthe natural.
Cycle of creation which? I think goes step one.
Ideas first like step 0. Is like being in nothingness.
Because as you make the effort. To create more nothingness.
It opens more space for the creative energy.
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Life force to flow. Through you and give you the
ideas that you need and then we move to kind of phase one, which
is ideas which lines up. Directly with your follicular
phase into. Your menstrual cycle because.
Follicular phase is the best. Time for idea generation and
ideating. Anything so, but it doesn't even
have to match. Up with your cycle, just with
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any. Creation.
It goes nothingness. To the idea to the actual like.
Creation and doing part, you know, which can be done, you
know, in your ovulating phase ifyou're connecting it to your
menstrual cycle. And then you have the sharing
part where you share, where you launch, where you show people,
and that's a whole different. Phase.
Where you're in a completely different mindset and a
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completely different energy. And then you go back to the
resting phase and the nothingness phase.
And this phase is so incredibly important for you to rest and
rejuvenate and make. Space for the ideas.
And make space for the creationsthat are meant to flow.
Through you because you have. To understand babe, that when
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you have an idea, it chose you. Like it literally chose you.
It literally was. Downloaded into your brain and
downloaded. Through this creative life
force. Stream pouring into you.
Because it believes that you arecapable of.
Creating it. Because a higher power.
The oneness, the love around us.Believes that you are POS
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Believes that you are capable ofcreating.
This idea, that's why it popped into your head.
So respect your fucking ideas and allow there to be space for
nothingness cuz then you can move through the natural.
Cycles of like. OK, I have the idea.
I have the creation and then I share and then you know, and
then I rest again. And then there's also the
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cyclical nature of push and pull, seasons of life.
Like sometimes in life, it's going to be time.
For. A push season, you're like, I
really want to create this and Ireally want it now and I need to
use this momentum and genuinely feeling into that, not because.
You feel like you have to, but because.
You want to because the momentumis fire the creative.
Life force, the juices are. Firing and honoring that and
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diving into it and then knowing there's.
Also seasons where you. Really deeply need rest, and you
really need to be in nothingnessand boredom and then in the
cyclical nature. There's also literally the
literal seasons of the year so. Springtime right now coming up,
spring equinox is going to be the perfect time to plant seeds
where summer is going to be a very energetic time, a social
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time, or if you're on the opposite hemisphere matching,
you know, your creations just naturally you don't even have
to. Purposely do it, but just.
Becoming aware that it's very natural and your body likes it
to match what you're doing to the seasons where winter.
If it's cold is a really great. Not even if it's cold.
I live in Hawaii and I still feel like winter is an inward
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time of reflection. I'm usually not as social.
I usually spend more time with myself.
I'm usually kind of like concocting plans, but not really
moving forward where spring is more like, OK, these are my
seeds that I'm planting and if you can work in the cyclical.
Way your. Approach to entrepreneurship and
business and just life and creation and art in general will
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change. The second pillar is going to be
about being leads to doing. OK, so the first one.
Was cyclical. Creation.
We want to make sure we're creating in a cyclical nature,
whether that's what the seasons.Or cycle or just.
Listening to our intuitive nature.
Of what? This season of life is asking of
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us just listening to that. The second pillar is going to be
that being leads to doing. What do I mean by that?
I mean that you need those moments of nothingness.
Just simply being is what you need in order to have the most
successful, brilliant, expansiveideas come through in.
Order to do this you have to actually create.
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Space and the only. Way to create space is to stop.
Fucking doing. And stop thinking that your
productivity and your ability todo over and over again every
single day is a reflection of your success.
Because it's not. It's really not.
The most successful? People that I know, know.
How to rest? They know how to enjoy life.
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They know how to prioritize themselves.
And the truth is, that's the only time that I can actually.
Feel the. Fruits of my labor is when I
allow myself. To be.
Rather than constantly doing so the second pillar is being
rather than doing because. You have to allow yourself.
To simply be without doing. To be in a state of clarity in
order to. Receive the ideas that are.
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Meant to come through you #3 We do celebration over sales here
and this is like a marketing technique as well as just a way
of being an entrepreneurship but.
Instead of being like buy this for me like instead the energy
is Oh my gosh this has helped meso much.
I want to share it with you. It's this helped this?
Person so much, I need to share it with you.
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This is something I'm celebrating because it's
working, because it works and I'm proud of that and coming
from that energy of celebration over salesy.
Is the best way to actually. Create more financial abundance
in your business, create more success in your business and
also just feel so strong in yourintegrity around what it is that
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you are creating. So celebration over sales is
pillar three, Pillar 4 is. Showing up lost rather than.
Not showing up at all. Because the truth is.
When we want to show up so perfectly and we don't want to
launch, we don't want to create until we know all the
information, that's when we end up in this analysis.
Paralysis. And the only way to.
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Kill this paralysis is to take. Uncertain action.
Uncertain action. Leads to you breaking this.
Paralysis and actually creating momentum.
Because the truth is, you won't know until you do it.
Everybody else could have done it.
You could have done all the research you could have done all
the learning that you could havedone from anybody else.
And of course. That helps.
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Do your research. Duh.
That's important, but don't get.Stuck there.
Don't get stuck in the. Paralysis because the truth.
Is. You won't know how it works for
you until you do it. For you.
So you just have to be. Willing to show up imperfectly
and do the trial and error. Because that is the fun.
Way to do business is to dance with life and be like I'm OK
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making mistakes. That is the only way to be
successful. Is to be OK?
With making mistakes, that is pillar 4.
Pillar 5 you have to. Take the middle way.
You have to be equally obsessed with what you're creating,
especially. In a new business, you.
Have to be so obsessed and also.Completely detached, especially
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in the beginning in the 1st. Couple years like if?
You want to make something successful?
You. Do have to be obsessed with it?
You do. Have to sort on sort sort of
like grind and hustle. And that's why I want to give
you this cyclical framework, because I'm not saying don't.
Work hard you have to work hard you.
Have to be willing to. Be obsessed with what you're.
Creating like. You just have to be.
And you also. You have to be detached.
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From the expectations because itmight take six months a.
Year 2 years three years for youto.
Even see. The fruits of your labor.
That's why it's. Okay to have another job at the
same time that supports you financially so that you can work
on your dreams. In my personal opinion, that's
why I was. So grateful for photography.
When I was doing the. Podcast because I was like.
I needed that support so I wasn't like so desperate because
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that energy of desperation, likemy creation has to make me money
like that is going to create some blockages.
So definitely having like some financial support elsewhere for
me really personally worked. But I want you to take the
middle way. You have to be willing to dance
between detached and obsessed. You have to be.
So obsessed with what you're. Creating.
That's the only way to make it succeed.
Because if you're obsessed. You won't give up even when you
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don't see results and the people.
Who are successful are the. People who understand that you
will not. See results right away that.
Doesn't mean it's not working. Just because you're not seeing
results right away doesn't mean that it's not going to work,
that it's not going to be. Successful because it will, but
you have to. Fucking keep going, and the only
difference between the people that make it and the people that
don't, I've said this before, but I'll say it again, is the
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people that keep going versus the people.
That give up before they see the.
Fruits of their labor. And it's like please fucking
keep going. If you believe in something,
please fucking keep going. Please keep sharing.
Please don't think you're annoying anybody by sharing,
posting, putting it out. There.
You're not. You're not.
You're creating something that people need and that's the
mindset shift that you need to make and reframe and begin to
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reframe your mind to understand that new neural pathway that
people need this. You're doing a favor for people,
and you need to. Be obsessed with the work that
you're. Doing and how the and how you're
helping people and in that obsession you won't give up even
when things get hard or even when you don't see the results
right away. Like my assistant, she's going
to listen to this, but she was like, can we look at my
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Instagram? Like I'm not sure things are
performing because I'm mentoringher.
Well, she's also my assistant because that's just how I want
to do business is also in this very giving, loving way where
when one of us. Is lifted up.
All of us are lifted up. That is the world of.
Business and entrepreneurship that I personally fucking want
to see, especially with women, but with everybody and.
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I was telling her I was like. Girl we don't need to.
Your content is amazing like. We don't need to look at your IG
like. You just need to know you only
really rebranded like two monthsago.
Like 8 weeks ago like. That's not long enough to see
results sometimes, and you have to be willing to keep going.
Before you see the results. But I promise, if you keep
going, it will fucking happen. It really will.
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It really will. It does.
Every single time. Every single.
Creator says it. I think I saw.
This TikTok and this girl said you think that?
It's luck that I blew up, but I actually just.
Posted 100 times more than you and it's like true, these people
didn't give up even when. Their views were so.
Fucking low, you know, when theyweren't getting any eyes and
that's how you have. To be obsessed.
With what you're doing before getting the attention for it,
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before getting the visibility for it, and that's how you
become. Successful because other people
will give up before you do. And at the same time.
You have to be detached and you have to also be.
Detached from the outcome. And you want to be obsessed and
you want to be dedicated and devoted, but you don't want to
be burning yourself out and not listening to your intuition and
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not listening to the cycles of your body and the cycles of the
season and. You have to trust that
everything in your. Business is going to happen in
the perfect time. It had to happen at this time
because. ABC had to happen before for
this to. Happen.
You know what I mean? Like when I.
Recorded at Spotify, I had. To have so many things happen to
(26:01):
lead up to that moment and it couldn't have happened.
Earlier because I wouldn't. Have been ready and I wouldn't
have had the tools that I neededto step into my power in that
moment. It is the most exciting day ever
because I am officially relaunching podcast camp.
So if you guys don't know, I've done 4 rounds of live podcast
camps. I've gotten responses from
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people literally saying verbatim, this is the best money
that I've ever spent. And I'm like, I did jam pack
this. So it's not just for podcasting,
but it's for growing on social media.
It's for identifying your brand.It's for monetize making money,
selling, creating offers so thatyou can really, you know, make
money past just social media, past just the podcast by
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creating your community, creating your empire.
And if you have that dream and it's planted in your heart for a
reason, I genuinely believe likethere is a reason for it.
It's because it is meant for you.
I I'm fucking serious and I wanted to make podcast camp
available at every single moment.
So that wherever you're at. You don't have to like show up
to the live dates. You can just start literally
(27:06):
now, literally whenever. This is the moment to plant
seeds. I really believe that springtime
spring equinox is so incredibly important for planting these
seeds. So podcast Camp has three live
replays of the most recent podcast camp for 2025 that I did
back in January. So it's going to be the full
three day transformative experience paired with extra
(27:29):
videos to help you really get clarity.
For example, you'll get clarity on gear and just a full debrief
on that. Creating and selling offers,
auto DM, trial reels, Instagram growth hacks.
What else do we got there? There's honestly so much
there's. EFT tapping videos so you.
Can work on the mindset portion of being seen because for me I
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realized every time I clear a. Blockage.
Of being seen and being afraid to be seen.
What happens is immediately, like the next day, a video goes
viral. Like it is so inherently tied to
our spiritual journey, our entrepreneurial journey.
As I'm talking about today, so go.
Check it out. Podcast camp the 1st 50 people
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Who's bought Podcast Campus? Said that the value.
Just surpasses the amount that it costs.
So I'm incredibly proud of this program and I just want to help
others on their journey and there will be direct.
Support from me in emailing. So that you can, you know, get
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help. I love you guys, OK?
Go check it out. It's.
Going to be linked below. So just trust.
It's all unraveling literally inperfect fucking time.
I know it's annoying to hear that.
I know it's like everyone fucking says that, but I'm I'm
dead fucking. Serious.
Like it actually you actually have.
To have a certain set of skills and that's why it has to happen
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as a certain time, because you. Have to go through.
Certain things you. Have to trust that so.
Many strings are being pulled behind the scenes that you don't
even fucking see. Your spirit guides, your
ancestors, your past loved ones,your spirit team.
They are. Literally rooting for you and
pulling so many strings behind the scenes so that.
You can actually receive. What it is that you are meant to
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trust me on that one? So the 5th pillar.
Is being obsessed and detached. The final pillar is work
smarter, not harder. And this is a neural pathway,
people. Are taught that if you work
hard. You make more if you grind.
You'll be successful. We have to train your brain and
create these new neural pathwaysto understand that that is not.
True, that was literally a lie that was told.
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To keep the people in power and power.
To put you as. A cog in the system the.
Truth is, sometimes the less. Work I do, the more money I
make, if I create something and I sell it and I promote it and I
just go with the cyclical nature.
And in the meantime, I enjoy my life.
I live my joy, I get into flow state, I spend time with my
friends and my loved ones and myfamily, and I prioritize my
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health, my mental health. My spiritual health.
That is when I am the most abundant.
That's when money just boom, boom, boom.
Sales flow in, opportunities flow in because I am being
efficient with my time. I'm working like.
Three days a week. Spending a couple.
Hours a day. And then the rest of the time
that I'm not working, I'm tryingnot to think about all the.
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Things I have to do? On my never ending list and
instead I try to enjoy my. Life because the truth is.
An entrepreneur. The list will be never ending,
therefore. You have to be like.
I need to stop this right now and I need to prioritize my joy
and prioritize my health before getting this done because the
list is never ending so I can't get stuck in that trap.
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And you need to work smarter, not harder, and get more
efficient and. That's just.
Realizing that you can you know once your business starts to.
Grow. I got an assistant in October
like you can I even before I hadan assistant in the very
beginning of my journey like. I would hire people to do other.
Things and for me, you need to stop spreading yourself so thin
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and begin to what is the word that I'm looking for?
Come on spirit, you need to be able to delegate.
You need to be able to delegate and not think that you have to
do everything yourself. Work smarter, not harder.
When you're creating content foryour business, don't do
something that takes. Five hours.
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If it's not going to perform, literally do something that's
easy. Do something that's, we call it
low lift in social media. Do something that doesn't take
up that much time. But is really effective because
how do you sell? Things you focus on the results,
you focus on, your methodology, you focus on what you.
Have to offer that that. Person really needs and values
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so you honestly can create salesand create a business and you
don't have to think like everything has to be so hard.
In fact, the easier you can makeit for yourself, the more time
and space you will have to. Free up.
So that you can do other things for your business, so that you
can be even more successful and grow faster.
Because there are. So many different facets of
business. Right, because there's the
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growth, there's the product, there's the.
Creation there is the actual. Sales.
There's the upkeep. There are so many different
things, you know there's admin in tasks and you just need to.
Free up space, so work. Smarter, not harder.
Be efficient with your time and just start realizing like.
OK. You can go and work for $25.00
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an hour somewhere and that can feel like a good thing because
it's $25.00 an hour. Or you can create something from
your gifts, from your talent, from your expertise.
You can go get certified in a high value skill that can make
you $200.00 an hour, $500.00 an hour, $800.00 an hour.
And that's how you. Actually create wealth.
Is by monetizing skills and by monetizing, you know the.
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Value that you have to give and how?
You can help people and for example like if you have a.
Product. You make an e-book.
You sell it for 47 you. Sell it for $50. 100.
People buy it. That's 5. $1000 Think about it,
you only need to get 100. People to buy this $50 e-book?
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And all from the information that.
You have because you've. Done the research because you've
learned, because you've gone through this, because you're
wounding led to your wisdom, andthen all of a sudden that's
$5000. I want you to become like, start
thinking in these new ways, smarter, not harder, more
efficient, less time. You know, it's not less effort,
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it's the same amount of effort but less amount of time.
Start noticing. How can you help yourself?
Out. And I just hope.
This. Helps you in some way.
So first pillar cyclical creation second.
Pillar being leads to. Doing being nothingness ideas
come through, clarity comes through three celebration over
salesy. Be in your integrity.
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What do people need help with and help with that.
Your wounding is your wisdom. The 4th pillar is going to be
showing up lost versus not showing up at all.
Know that you can take uncertainaction and that.
Is what kills the paralysis. Pillar #5 be in the middle.
Way of obsessed. And detached at the same time.
And number six, work smarter, not harder.
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Work more efficiently baby, and start thinking in this.
High value skill way. How can you make the most amount
of money in the least amount of time this?
Is just a practice of. Training your brain to think in
this way. Fucking believe in you.
I know you can do that. I know if you lasted this long
on the episode, you know that this path is somehow meant for
you. Fucking trust in that.
I hope you're feeling. Chills, I hope you receive.
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Some confirmation today. Let's just put it out there,
Universe. Spirit guides for whoever is.
Listening give this person some kind of confirmation that they
need. OK, Please Spirit.
I'm begging. No, I'm not begging, I'm just
asking and we are willing to receive so pay attention and ask
for some sort of confirmation ifyou need it.
But I know some of you might notneed it.
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Some of you might just genuinelybe like Nah girl I feel it.
I feel it in my fucking bones. I love you guys so much.
Thanks for. Listening to this episode.
Thanks for listening to my ad onpodcast Cam.
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Like, literally. Not a single complaint.
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It's my birthday this week and I'm so incredibly.
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KK. You are inherently fucking
worthy and all of this entrepreneurship is amazing.
But remember, you don't have to do, be or achieve anything to
be. Worthy.
You already are. You already are.
You literally are. And I hope.
That this six pillar. Framework of the Blue Method can
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help you bloom into the brightest, most expansive,
entrepreneurial, businesswoman version of yourself.
OK. Bye, guys.
The truth is that. You don't have to hustle in a
toxic masculine way in order to be successful, in fact.
I think the greatest success. Comes from this method.
That I feel like I have. Curated and created and
clarified. And I'm calling this the bloom
method because I'm like, this ishow you are going to bloom into
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your most vibrant. Successful self without.
Burning yourself out without literally hating yourself into
discipline. Without.
Giving up on yourself because. You're.
Paralyzed by getting it wrong. Or because you're so exhausted
because you keep. Pushing and pushing and pushing
and not working with the. Natural cycles of your life.
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What is up, guys? I'm Kayla Rose, of course.
If you know me, you know I'm thehost of skinny dipping.
The. Podcast where we talk.
About the intersectionality of mental health and spirituality.
And today I'm so incredibly excited.
This is the season of reclaimingwholeness, so.
This is actually the last. Episode of this season we've
talked about reclaiming wholeness we've talked about
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anxiety we've. Talked about joy.
We've talked about flow. State and today we're talking
about something that I need to talk about in order to claim
every single part of myself and that is entrepreneurship
because. I believe that I.
Am put on this planet to honestly be a businesswoman and
be an entrepreneur like I am. Life path.
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AI love. Playing with the material realm,
the 3D realm in. Order to create art.
And create success and create. Results.
I think it's. An incredibly fun game to play
and I have been an entrepreneur.For. 12 years now and I've
learned so many things along theway and I think I'm just doing
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things so differently than so many other people and I'm also
just constantly discovering how.To really serve.
My entrepreneurship and my spiritual entrepreneurship in
the. Best way possible and I've
created these six pillars of the.
Bloom method to show. You.
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How you can also apply these different techniques, reframes
and mindset shifts so that you can.
Be a successful. Entrepreneur without having to
fall into a system that. Expects you to burn.
Yourself out in order. To be successful.
And also, who also expects you to only be?
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Proud of yourself. If you're reaching a certain.
Level of visibility. Or a certain level of.
Success I personally. Feel like I'm doing things in a
different way and I wanted to put it into words and into a
method. For you guys so these.
Are going to be. The six pillars of the.
Blue method so that you can create the businesses that you
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want to create. You can create the art you want
to create. You can create the financial
abundance that you want to create in life without having to
do it in this old world. Archetype way that is.
Rooted in the toxic masculine that says hustle and you'll be
successful, right? Hustle and you'll be successful.
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Burn yourself out to the ground if you want to make it.
It's just so old school. And it's not the way that we're
stepping into currently in this new Age of Aquarius and the way
the world is going like. We are all collectively.
Learning that that no longer functions for us and for our
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bodies and for our nervous systems, and we need to do
things in a new way. But it's like, what is the new
way? And I always remind myself, I'm
giving myself so much grace and understanding because I'm like,
nobody is teaching me how to do this.
I am just discovering it throughtrial and error.
And that's why I wanted to shareit with you guys today.
So I'm Kayla, this is skinny to bang.
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Let's strip down and dive. In make sure also.
To join the community if you want to do a 30 day soft because
I think a huge part of entrepreneurship that I'm not
going to talk about today is taking care of yourself and
being devoted to your habits andrituals that make you feel like.
You're. I want to say.
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High as self but. I'm trying to remove that
language a little. Bit for me like high.
Vibrational, low vibrational, because I think every experience
that we have doesn't need to be deemed bad or good.
Or high or low. Because in fact, the experience
that we're receiving in the current moment is the exact
experience that we need in orderto learn the lessons that we
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need to learn moving forward forour greatest fulfillment, for
our greatest success in the future.
So not your highest vibrational self, but I think just like your
most aligned. Self, that's what the rituals.
And habits do for you and the 30day soft.
Would be a. Perfect place to begin.
It's my. Birthday this week, so we're
taking a couple weeks off. I'm going to see my friends in
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Kauai. I'm so incredibly excited.
We're bopping over. Yeah, my birthday is March 22nd.
So I'm so excited. I'm on the cusp of Pisces and
Aries, and, you know, it's such an important part of who I am
because Aries, you know, is. The starter they love to start.
Fires in the best way. Possible like the fire of life,
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the fire of. Creation, the fire of business,
the fire of entrepreneurship. We love to get things going.
And because I'm on the cusp of Aries and Pisces, for me the
Pisces brings in this. Spiritual aspect.
This aspect. Where I know.
That the path. To my greatest success is in
direct correlation with my path.Do the deepest.
Fulfillment, you know, my spiritual journey and my
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business journey and my entrepreneurship journey for me
go hand in hand. I'm so excited.
To tell you about these pillars,but I just.
Wanted to let you guys know you can still join the 30 day soft.
We're doing like a second-half winner who is going to win my
favorite Oracle deck, and I think this is just.
Going to be really special because.
You don't have to do. The full 30 days.
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And I want you to know that you don't have to.
Show up perfectly. You just have to show up.
And that is enough. So join to win the giveaway.
Join the community. It's popping in there.
People are sharing so much. Go check it out.
Let's dive in. Why the?
Fuck am I. Qualified to talk about this?
I have been. A creator before I did.
Social media, and I want you to know you can be a creator too,
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without social media. I did photography and that's how
I got my start in business and entrepreneurship when I was 17.
I'm about to turn 26. My math may be a little off on
the years, but that was my firstbusiness and it was incredibly.
Successful. I, you know, started.
Charging like $100.00 an hour ended up moving within like a
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year. To $500.
An hour, people were paying it, I was saving money, I was making
bank, I was working often and then I started doing social
media That started oing off. I have done a UGC business where
I create content for other companies.
That has done well for me. I have done my podcast camp and
social media mentorship. That has gone super well.
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I've done 4 rounds and now actually.
As of today, we're going to talkabout it halfway through the
episode, but as of today, you. Can join podcast camp literally
at any time. I've also started my business of
doing a community and membershipand I've been exploring that for
a couple years and I finally feel like I have it down with
the relaunch. It's been going really well.
So overall I am just the queen of always starting new endeavors
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and not everything is worked out, not going to lie, but most
things have. Worked out.
Pretty well and I feel. Like I just have.
This knack for entrepreneurship,and I want to share with you the
mindsets that I personally use that I feel like.
Have shaped who I. Am as a creator who I am as a
businesswoman. I really want this to be an
episode of rebranding being a businesswoman and rebranding
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entrepreneurship for just this new generation that is doing
things differently. That's what this episode is.
Fucking about. And the truth is, all of this
information, I might tell it to you today and it might take six
months for it to truly soak intoyour body and process and be
implemented. That is totally OK.
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Know that these are new neural pathways being created in your
brain literally when you're learning something like
entrepreneurship is literally a skill.
Business is literally a skill when you're learning through the
process of trial and error, or learning through mentorships or
listening to. Podcasts or YouTube videos?
You have to understand these arenew ways of thinking and your
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brain is actually creating new neural pathways.
So at first you might see something, you might get it, but
you might not fully understand it or embody it.
And that's. Totally OK through practice.
You will create new neural pathways in your brain and
eventually these. Pillars will.
Be your new way of thinking, butjust along the way.
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Please give yourself grace. Please give yourself grace.
And know that it might take time, because the truth is that
society trained us. To be a cog.
In the machine because it. Is better for a lot of the.
People who are in power, you know, the people who are making
the decisions. For society collectively over.
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Time it is more useful to them to.
Teach people how to do what theysay versus teach.
People how to empower themselvesin.
Order to do what we. Are meant to do, if that makes
sense. It is so much.
Easier to just put cogs. In the machine and have people
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work for. You so all these people.
Can make so much money and the truth is that within the school
system. That we were raised literally,
this is what this is what has. Happened.
We weren't trained how to be financially abundant and free.
We were taught how to. Fit into the machine and to do.
What we are told, so it is up tous to.
Unprogram and reprogram this and.
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Realize that we need to. Learn how to be empowered so
that we can. Create what we are.
What we want to create and the truth is with business and
entrepreneurship, How do you know if a business.
Idea is a good idea. Create what you wish existed.
That is the fucking life hack ofthe century.
What you feel like younger? You needed make that.
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That is how you create. A business and a product from
such an incredible place of deepintegrity and that's what I want
to see from you guys creating that's like this you know new
generation spiritual entrepreneurship for me is
people creating based on their gifts and realizing that your
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wounding is your wisdom and whenever you had a problem with.
Probably other people have a. Problem with too and if you.
Heal it for yourself. Or you find a solution.
For it a product A. Creation a business A maybe?
You yourself or the business like I am for me.
You have to understand that thisis.
The way the world is. Going and if we can tap into it,
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it's going to be fucking magic. So where all my entrepreneurship
girlies? At also if.
I sound out of breath. It's really fucking hot.
I'm recording my car. It's midday, it's sunny, it's
beautiful. If you're watching the.
Video on Spotify. Hi, I love you if.
You're on Apple Podcast or any other platform.
You're hearing my voice. Just know if I sound a little.
(11:30):
Out of breath. It's because it's hot.
It's fuck. I need to take.
A sip of water. Do you have your water?
I finally got. A Yeti for Christmas.
My boyfriend got it for me and Iswear to God since I've had my
emotional. Support Yeti I have.
Drinking so much more. Water like it is literally.
The best thing in the world I. Realized I had headaches midday.
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Because I wasn't drinking enoughwater.
So this is your reminder. Drink fucking water.
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Creation. So we are creating in this
cyclical nature rather than thiscontinual nature that right now,
as as I've seen on the Internet and just with businesses,
society expects us. To always be.
Creating and producing and doingand the truth.
Is that is just? Not fucking sustainable.
(13:39):
Like it is not sustainable. And that's where we are in
burnout. Or we're in paralysis.
We don't even want to. Start because we realize.
Oh my God, if I start this I'm going to have to like produce
non-stop and that overwhelm can.Create this self sabotage block.
Within us. And it's like, OK, let's just
cancel that and realize you don't have to be a fucking
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machine. Producing, producing, creating,
creating, sharing, sharing. It's OK to work in a cyclical
nature. That's actually better for you.
And this cyclical nature for me as a woman with a menstrual.
Cycle, it's going to be different for everybody, but.
With me, who's tuned up to my menstrual cycle, to my cycle I.
Really do. Work with my cycle when I'm
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working and doing entrepreneurship, so there's.
Multiple facets to the cyclical nature.
There's the literal cycle. Sinking of yourself and the moon
and your own, you know, menstrual cycle, if that's
something that you even. Have but also there's.
Different cyclical natures. There's the seasons of the year
and how that can affect your business.
There's, you know, seasons of life, you know, seasons of life
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and like, is it a push season oris it a rest season?
And then there's also like, justthe natural.
Cycle of creation which? I think goes step one.
Ideas first like step 0. Is like being in nothingness.
Because as you make the effort. To create more nothingness.
It opens more space for the creative energy.
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Life force to flow. Through you and give you the
ideas that you need and then we move to kind of phase one, which
is ideas which lines up. Directly with your follicular
phase into. Your menstrual cycle because.
Follicular phase is the best. Time for idea generation and
ideating. Anything so, but it doesn't even
have to match. Up with your cycle, just with
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any. Creation.
It goes nothingness. To the idea to the actual like.
Creation and doing part, you know, which can be done, you
know, in your ovulating phase ifyou're connecting it to your
menstrual cycle. And then you have the sharing
part where you share, where you launch, where you show people,
and that's a whole different. Phase.
Where you're in a completely different mindset and a
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completely different energy. And then you go back to the
resting phase and the nothingness phase.
And this phase is so incredibly important for you to rest and
rejuvenate and make. Space for the ideas.
And make space for the creationsthat are meant to flow.
Through you because you have. To understand babe, that when
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you have an idea, it chose you. Like it literally chose you.
It literally was. Downloaded into your brain and
downloaded. Through this creative life
force. Stream pouring into you.
Because it believes that you arecapable of.
Creating it. Because a higher power.
The oneness, the love around us.Believes that you are POS
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Believes that you are capable ofcreating.
This idea, that's why it popped into your head.
So respect your fucking ideas and allow there to be space for
nothingness cuz then you can move through the natural.
Cycles of like. OK, I have the idea.
I have the creation and then I share and then you know, and
then I rest again. And then there's also the
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cyclical nature of push and pull, seasons of life.
Like sometimes in life, it's going to be time.
For. A push season, you're like, I
really want to create this and Ireally want it now and I need to
use this momentum and genuinely feeling into that, not because.
You feel like you have to, but because.
You want to because the momentumis fire the creative.
Life force, the juices are. Firing and honoring that and
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diving into it and then knowing there's.
Also seasons where you. Really deeply need rest, and you
really need to be in nothingnessand boredom and then in the
cyclical nature. There's also literally the
literal seasons of the year so. Springtime right now coming up,
spring equinox is going to be the perfect time to plant seeds
where summer is going to be a very energetic time, a social
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time, or if you're on the opposite hemisphere matching,
you know, your creations just naturally you don't even have
to. Purposely do it, but just.
Becoming aware that it's very natural and your body likes it
to match what you're doing to the seasons where winter.
If it's cold is a really great. Not even if it's cold.
I live in Hawaii and I still feel like winter is an inward
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time of reflection. I'm usually not as social.
I usually spend more time with myself.
I'm usually kind of like concocting plans, but not really
moving forward where spring is more like, OK, these are my
seeds that I'm planting and if you can work in the cyclical.
Way your. Approach to entrepreneurship and
business and just life and creation and art in general will
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change. The second pillar is going to be
about being leads to doing. OK, so the first one.
Was cyclical. Creation.
We want to make sure we're creating in a cyclical nature,
whether that's what the seasons.Or cycle or just.
Listening to our intuitive nature.
Of what? This season of life is asking of
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us just listening to that. The second pillar is going to be
that being leads to doing. What do I mean by that?
I mean that you need those moments of nothingness.
Just simply being is what you need in order to have the most
successful, brilliant, expansiveideas come through in.
Order to do this you have to actually create.
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Space and the only. Way to create space is to stop.
Fucking doing. And stop thinking that your
productivity and your ability todo over and over again every
single day is a reflection of your success.
Because it's not. It's really not.
The most successful? People that I know, know.
How to rest? They know how to enjoy life.
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They know how to prioritize themselves.
And the truth is, that's the only time that I can actually.
Feel the. Fruits of my labor is when I
allow myself. To be.
Rather than constantly doing so the second pillar is being
rather than doing because. You have to allow yourself.
To simply be without doing. To be in a state of clarity in
order to. Receive the ideas that are.
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Meant to come through you #3 We do celebration over sales here
and this is like a marketing technique as well as just a way
of being an entrepreneurship but.
Instead of being like buy this for me like instead the energy
is Oh my gosh this has helped meso much.
I want to share it with you. It's this helped this?
Person so much, I need to share it with you.
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This is something I'm celebrating because it's
working, because it works and I'm proud of that and coming
from that energy of celebration over salesy.
Is the best way to actually. Create more financial abundance
in your business, create more success in your business and
also just feel so strong in yourintegrity around what it is that
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you are creating. So celebration over sales is
pillar three, Pillar 4 is. Showing up lost rather than.
Not showing up at all. Because the truth is.
When we want to show up so perfectly and we don't want to
launch, we don't want to create until we know all the
information, that's when we end up in this analysis.
Paralysis. And the only way to.
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Kill this paralysis is to take. Uncertain action.
Uncertain action. Leads to you breaking this.
Paralysis and actually creating momentum.
Because the truth is, you won't know until you do it.
Everybody else could have done it.
You could have done all the research you could have done all
the learning that you could havedone from anybody else.
And of course. That helps.
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Do your research. Duh.
That's important, but don't get.Stuck there.
Don't get stuck in the. Paralysis because the truth.
Is. You won't know how it works for
you until you do it. For you.
So you just have to be. Willing to show up imperfectly
and do the trial and error. Because that is the fun.
Way to do business is to dance with life and be like I'm OK
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making mistakes. That is the only way to be
successful. Is to be OK?
With making mistakes, that is pillar 4.
Pillar 5 you have to. Take the middle way.
You have to be equally obsessed with what you're creating,
especially. In a new business, you.
Have to be so obsessed and also.Completely detached, especially
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in the beginning in the 1st. Couple years like if?
You want to make something successful?
You. Do have to be obsessed with it?
You do. Have to sort on sort sort of
like grind and hustle. And that's why I want to give
you this cyclical framework, because I'm not saying don't.
Work hard you have to work hard you.
Have to be willing to. Be obsessed with what you're.
Creating like. You just have to be.
And you also. You have to be detached.
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From the expectations because itmight take six months a.
Year 2 years three years for youto.
Even see. The fruits of your labor.
That's why it's. Okay to have another job at the
same time that supports you financially so that you can work
on your dreams. In my personal opinion, that's
why I was. So grateful for photography.
When I was doing the. Podcast because I was like.
I needed that support so I wasn't like so desperate because
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that energy of desperation, likemy creation has to make me money
like that is going to create some blockages.
So definitely having like some financial support elsewhere for
me really personally worked. But I want you to take the
middle way. You have to be willing to dance
between detached and obsessed. You have to be.
So obsessed with what you're. Creating.
That's the only way to make it succeed.
Because if you're obsessed. You won't give up even when you
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don't see results and the people.
Who are successful are the. People who understand that you
will not. See results right away that.
Doesn't mean it's not working. Just because you're not seeing
results right away doesn't mean that it's not going to work,
that it's not going to be. Successful because it will, but
you have to. Fucking keep going, and the only
difference between the people that make it and the people that
don't, I've said this before, but I'll say it again, is the
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people that keep going versus the people.
That give up before they see the.
Fruits of their labor. And it's like please fucking
keep going. If you believe in something,
please fucking keep going. Please keep sharing.
Please don't think you're annoying anybody by sharing,
posting, putting it out. There.
You're not. You're not.
You're creating something that people need and that's the
mindset shift that you need to make and reframe and begin to
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reframe your mind to understand that new neural pathway that
people need this. You're doing a favor for people,
and you need to. Be obsessed with the work that
you're. Doing and how the and how you're
helping people and in that obsession you won't give up even
when things get hard or even when you don't see the results
right away. Like my assistant, she's going
to listen to this, but she was like, can we look at my
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Instagram? Like I'm not sure things are
performing because I'm mentoringher.
Well, she's also my assistant because that's just how I want
to do business is also in this very giving, loving way where
when one of us. Is lifted up.
All of us are lifted up. That is the world of.
Business and entrepreneurship that I personally fucking want
to see, especially with women, but with everybody and.
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I was telling her I was like. Girl we don't need to.
Your content is amazing like. We don't need to look at your IG
like. You just need to know you only
really rebranded like two monthsago.
Like 8 weeks ago like. That's not long enough to see
results sometimes, and you have to be willing to keep going.
Before you see the results. But I promise, if you keep
going, it will fucking happen. It really will.
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It really will. It does.
Every single time. Every single.
Creator says it. I think I saw.
This TikTok and this girl said you think that?
It's luck that I blew up, but I actually just.
Posted 100 times more than you and it's like true, these people
didn't give up even when. Their views were so.
Fucking low, you know, when theyweren't getting any eyes and
that's how you have. To be obsessed.
With what you're doing before getting the attention for it,
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before getting the visibility for it, and that's how you
become. Successful because other people
will give up before you do. And at the same time.
You have to be detached and you have to also be.
Detached from the outcome. And you want to be obsessed and
you want to be dedicated and devoted, but you don't want to
be burning yourself out and not listening to your intuition and
(25:41):
not listening to the cycles of your body and the cycles of the
season and. You have to trust that
everything in your. Business is going to happen in
the perfect time. It had to happen at this time
because. ABC had to happen before for
this to. Happen.
You know what I mean? Like when I.
Recorded at Spotify, I had. To have so many things happen to
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lead up to that moment and it couldn't have happened.
Earlier because I wouldn't. Have been ready and I wouldn't
have had the tools that I neededto step into my power in that
moment. It is the most exciting day ever
because I am officially relaunching podcast camp.
So if you guys don't know, I've done 4 rounds of live podcast
camps. I've gotten responses from
(26:22):
people literally saying verbatim, this is the best money
that I've ever spent. And I'm like, I did jam pack
this. So it's not just for podcasting,
but it's for growing on social media.
It's for identifying your brand.It's for monetize making money,
selling, creating offers so thatyou can really, you know, make
money past just social media, past just the podcast by
(26:44):
creating your community, creating your empire.
And if you have that dream and it's planted in your heart for a
reason, I genuinely believe likethere is a reason for it.
It's because it is meant for you.
I I'm fucking serious and I wanted to make podcast camp
available at every single moment.
So that wherever you're at. You don't have to like show up
to the live dates. You can just start literally
(27:06):
now, literally whenever. This is the moment to plant
seeds. I really believe that springtime
spring equinox is so incredibly important for planting these
seeds. So podcast Camp has three live
replays of the most recent podcast camp for 2025 that I did
back in January. So it's going to be the full
three day transformative experience paired with extra
(27:29):
videos to help you really get clarity.
For example, you'll get clarity on gear and just a full debrief
on that. Creating and selling offers,
auto DM, trial reels, Instagram growth hacks.
What else do we got there? There's honestly so much
there's. EFT tapping videos so you.
Can work on the mindset portion of being seen because for me I
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realized every time I clear a. Blockage.
Of being seen and being afraid to be seen.
What happens is immediately, like the next day, a video goes
viral. Like it is so inherently tied to
our spiritual journey, our entrepreneurial journey.
As I'm talking about today, so go.
Check it out. Podcast camp the 1st 50 people
(28:11):
get a special pricing so. Go check that out everybody.
Who's bought Podcast Campus? Said that the value.
Just surpasses the amount that it costs.
So I'm incredibly proud of this program and I just want to help
others on their journey and there will be direct.
Support from me in emailing. So that you can, you know, get
(28:33):
help. I love you guys, OK?
Go check it out. It's.
Going to be linked below. So just trust.
It's all unraveling literally inperfect fucking time.
I know it's annoying to hear that.
I know it's like everyone fucking says that, but I'm I'm
dead fucking. Serious.
Like it actually you actually have.
To have a certain set of skills and that's why it has to happen
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as a certain time, because you. Have to go through.
Certain things you. Have to trust that so.
Many strings are being pulled behind the scenes that you don't
even fucking see. Your spirit guides, your
ancestors, your past loved ones,your spirit team.
They are. Literally rooting for you and
pulling so many strings behind the scenes so that.
You can actually receive. What it is that you are meant to
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trust me on that one? So the 5th pillar.
Is being obsessed and detached. The final pillar is work
smarter, not harder. And this is a neural pathway,
people. Are taught that if you work
hard. You make more if you grind.
You'll be successful. We have to train your brain and
create these new neural pathwaysto understand that that is not.
True, that was literally a lie that was told.
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To keep the people in power and power.
To put you as. A cog in the system the.
Truth is, sometimes the less. Work I do, the more money I
make, if I create something and I sell it and I promote it and I
just go with the cyclical nature.
And in the meantime, I enjoy my life.
I live my joy, I get into flow state, I spend time with my
friends and my loved ones and myfamily, and I prioritize my
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health, my mental health. My spiritual health.
That is when I am the most abundant.
That's when money just boom, boom, boom.
Sales flow in, opportunities flow in because I am being
efficient with my time. I'm working like.
Three days a week. Spending a couple.
Hours a day. And then the rest of the time
that I'm not working, I'm tryingnot to think about all the.
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Things I have to do? On my never ending list and
instead I try to enjoy my. Life because the truth is.
An entrepreneur. The list will be never ending,
therefore. You have to be like.
I need to stop this right now and I need to prioritize my joy
and prioritize my health before getting this done because the
list is never ending so I can't get stuck in that trap.
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And you need to work smarter, not harder, and get more
efficient and. That's just.
Realizing that you can you know once your business starts to.
Grow. I got an assistant in October
like you can I even before I hadan assistant in the very
beginning of my journey like. I would hire people to do other.
Things and for me, you need to stop spreading yourself so thin
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and begin to what is the word that I'm looking for?
Come on spirit, you need to be able to delegate.
You need to be able to delegate and not think that you have to
do everything yourself. Work smarter, not harder.
When you're creating content foryour business, don't do
something that takes. Five hours.
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If it's not going to perform, literally do something that's
easy. Do something that's, we call it
low lift in social media. Do something that doesn't take
up that much time. But is really effective because
how do you sell? Things you focus on the results,
you focus on, your methodology, you focus on what you.
Have to offer that that. Person really needs and values
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so you honestly can create salesand create a business and you
don't have to think like everything has to be so hard.
In fact, the easier you can makeit for yourself, the more time
and space you will have to. Free up.
So that you can do other things for your business, so that you
can be even more successful and grow faster.
Because there are. So many different facets of
business. Right, because there's the
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growth, there's the product, there's the.
Creation there is the actual. Sales.
There's the upkeep. There are so many different
things, you know there's admin in tasks and you just need to.
Free up space, so work. Smarter, not harder.
Be efficient with your time and just start realizing like.
OK. You can go and work for $25.00
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an hour somewhere and that can feel like a good thing because
it's $25.00 an hour. Or you can create something from
your gifts, from your talent, from your expertise.
You can go get certified in a high value skill that can make
you $200.00 an hour, $500.00 an hour, $800.00 an hour.
And that's how you. Actually create wealth.
Is by monetizing skills and by monetizing, you know the.
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Value that you have to give and how?
You can help people and for example like if you have a.
Product. You make an e-book.
You sell it for 47 you. Sell it for $50. 100.
People buy it. That's 5. $1000 Think about it,
you only need to get 100. People to buy this $50 e-book?
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And all from the information that.
You have because you've. Done the research because you've
learned, because you've gone through this, because you're
wounding led to your wisdom, andthen all of a sudden that's
$5000. I want you to become like, start
thinking in these new ways, smarter, not harder, more
efficient, less time. You know, it's not less effort,
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it's the same amount of effort but less amount of time.
Start noticing. How can you help yourself?
Out. And I just hope.
This. Helps you in some way.
So first pillar cyclical creation second.
Pillar being leads to. Doing being nothingness ideas
come through, clarity comes through three celebration over
salesy. Be in your integrity.
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What do people need help with and help with that.
Your wounding is your wisdom. The 4th pillar is going to be
showing up lost versus not showing up at all.
Know that you can take uncertainaction and that.
Is what kills the paralysis. Pillar #5 be in the middle.
Way of obsessed. And detached at the same time.
And number six, work smarter, not harder.
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Work more efficiently baby, and start thinking in this.
High value skill way. How can you make the most amount
of money in the least amount of time this?
Is just a practice of. Training your brain to think in
this way. Fucking believe in you.
I know you can do that. I know if you lasted this long
on the episode, you know that this path is somehow meant for
you. Fucking trust in that.
I hope you're feeling. Chills, I hope you receive.
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Some confirmation today. Let's just put it out there,
Universe. Spirit guides for whoever is.
Listening give this person some kind of confirmation that they
need. OK, Please Spirit.
I'm begging. No, I'm not begging, I'm just
asking and we are willing to receive so pay attention and ask
for some sort of confirmation ifyou need it.
But I know some of you might notneed it.
(34:56):
Some of you might just genuinelybe like Nah girl I feel it.
I feel it in my fucking bones. I love you guys so much.
Thanks for. Listening to this episode.
Thanks for listening to my ad onpodcast Cam.
Go check that. Out.
I'm really excited for everyone.To be able to access.
It at any time over 100 people have been in it.
Like, literally. Not a single complaint.
(35:16):
So much amazing feedback. I pour my whole heart and soul
into this program. I cannot wait for you guys to
check it out. I cannot wait to see you guys in
the Soul and Progress community.Make sure when you join the Soul
and Progress community to introduce yourself.
And it's my birthday. This week.
It's my birthday this week and I'm so incredibly.
Excited. I love you guys.
So much. Let me know what you think of
this. Episode, Share it with somebody
(35:37):
that you love. Copy the link, send it, it
really helps. Comment on the episode if you
can, leave a rating, leave a review.
It helps me so much and I'm justgoing to be.
So honest with that like. Shameless shameless self promo.
It really does help me share it on Instagram if you want tag me,
show me where you're listening. You know it always makes my
life. I'm so incredibly.
Grateful for you guys. I love you.
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We have some cute ass memes going on the Instagram too, so
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KK. You are inherently fucking
worthy and all of this entrepreneurship is amazing.
But remember, you don't have to do, be or achieve anything to
be. Worthy.
You already are. You already are.
You literally are. And I hope.
That this six pillar. Framework of the Blue Method can
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help you bloom into the brightest, most expansive,
entrepreneurial, businesswoman version of yourself.
OK. Bye, guys.
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