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July 16, 2024 27 mins

88 - Conversations and Questions With Doubters

Greg Koukl’s book, “Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions.” is a guide for anyone looking to engage in meaningful conversations about faith, particularly with challenging individuals. Koukl’s approach combines knowledge, wisdom, and character, emphasizing respectful dialogue and thoughtful questioning.

The Essence of Tactical Wisdom: Koukl explains the importance of embodying the virtues of the kingdom while discussing faith. It’s not just about having knowledge but also about how we present and live that knowledge.

Strategy vs. Tactics: Understanding the difference between strategy (big picture) and tactics (specific actions) is crucial. Koukl provides insights on positioning oneself effectively in conversations.

The Columbo Tactic: Inspired by the TV detective, this tactic involves asking simple, non-threatening questions to uncover deeper truths. Questions like, “What do you mean by that?” or “How did you come to that conclusion?” help engage others in thoughtful dialogue.

Putting a Stone in Someone’s Shoe: Koukl’s goal is to leave others with something to ponder, encouraging further reflection rather than immediate conversion. This approach helps foster ongoing contemplation and growth.

Practical Applications: Koukl offers practical responses to common objections, such as the reliability of the Bible and the Big Bang theory. His method involves respectful questioning that prompts deeper thinking.

Takeaways:

Engage with Character and Respect: Effective conversations about faith require not only knowledge but also integrity and respect. This approach fosters genuine dialogue.

Ask Thoughtful Questions: Simple, non-threatening questions can lead to deeper understanding and uncover assumptions. This method helps engage others without confrontation.
Leave a Lasting Impression: Aim to plant seeds of thought rather than seeking immediate conversion. Offering insights that stick with others can encourage ongoing reflection and growth

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