So Hard - A Sexuality Podcast for Men

So Hard - A Sexuality Podcast for Men

https://beacons.ai/justinavictoria Welcome to "So Hard," the podcast that gives guidance on all matters of the male heart, hosted by Justina Victoria, Psychosexual Expert for Men and Couples. This podcast aims to guide men on a journey of self-discovery, healing, strong mental health and fulfillment in love and life. We cover unique topics like the principles of seduction, elevated masturbation, nervous system regulation, unblending from destructive narratives, sexual anxieties, healing insecure attachment (anxious preoccupied, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant), meditation, elevated states of consciousness, masculine & feminine energy dynamics, spiritual sexuality (and everything in between! 😜), erectile dysfunction, sex & money, obstacles in dating & relationships and the issues that are unique to men. But we don't stop there. "So Hard" takes a bold step into the realm of manifestation for men (created by Justina), empowering you to shape your reality with the power of Quantum Physics. Explore the transformative potential of manifesting desires in relationships, career, and personal growth. Whether you're seeking healing, looking to redefine your relationships, or eager to understand the nuances of male sexuality, this podcast is here to guide you on a journey that's rewarding, fascinating, and, indeed, so damn hard. Welcome to a space where men can explore, grow, and embrace the full spectrum of their being with Justina Victoria.

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April 25, 2025 • 24 mins

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In this episode of The So Hard Podcast, I'm sharing two real stories from men I’ve worked with who overcame performance anxiety in different ways. The first client was thrown into seven months of sexual shutdown and overthinking after a single, devastating comment from his partner—made worse by his anxious attachment style. The second, an experienced man with a rich sexual history, found himself frozen when he fi...

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Think trauma means something awful had to happen to you?

Nope.Ā 

We’ll unpack:

  • Why trauma isn't an "event" and why it's my biggest pet peeveĀ 
  • How your brain wires itself around consistent stress
  • Why you shut down, overthink, disconnect, or rage — and how it’s not your fault (but is your responsibility)
  • And how to finally rewire your system s...
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April 2, 2025 • 32 mins

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In this episode of The So Hard Podcast, I’m sharing the exact process I used to help a couple on the brink of divorce completely turn things around—in just three weeks.

She was one of my very first clients over a decade ago. They’ve come back to me over the years when things got tough, but this time, she messaged me saying it was over. Divorce papers were coming. What happened next was a masterclass in how powerful it ...

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There’s a side of your heart you were never taught about.

The measurable, science-backed, supernatural intelligence built into your biology.

In this episode, I’m breaking down mind-blowing truths about the human heart — the kind that shift how you lead, connect, heal, and operate as a man.

You’ll learn:

  • Why your heart has its own neural network — and can...
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December 11, 2024 • 31 mins

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October 15, 2024 • 27 mins

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Ā In this episode of So Hard, psychosexual expert Justina Victoria dives into the key components often missing in relationships, especially for those struggling with insecure attachment styles. If relationships feel like an uphill battle despite your best efforts, this episode is for you. Justina reveals two essential pieces to creating the relationship you've always des...

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September 7, 2024 • 52 mins

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In this episode, I talk about what it means to "be yourself" and why it's the most attractive and healthy direction to go.Ā 


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August 27, 2024 • 21 mins

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In this episode, I weight in on what erectile dysfunction really is after working to cure my clients of it for the last decade.Ā 

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December 12, 2023 • 16 mins

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In this episode we explore how conditioning shapes our perceptions of intimate encounters.

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December 5, 2023 • 24 mins

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Have an issue with coming across needy and feel like you've tried to hide it in a million different ways and tried all kinds of advice on the internet to make yourself seem more confident or like you don't care?! This episode is for you. <3

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November 28, 2023 • 11 mins

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In today's episode, Justina talks about how looking for red flags is ruining your chances of creating a healthy relationship and what to do instead that is simple, easy and gets straight to the point of whether or not someone is a fit for you.Ā 

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November 21, 2023 • 16 mins

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In this episode, we explore a question asked to me by one of my audience members about what to do when his girlfriend says she's fine but she is clearly not fine.Ā 

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September 8, 2022 • 15 mins

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I wanted to share with you an incredibly common anxiety that I've experienced day in and day out in my work.Ā 
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The fear of being gay.Ā 
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Many of my clients suffer from this fear and for those who don't it can seem funny or ridiculous, but it&ap...
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There is a little millisecond of space between the external stimulus that’s triggering you and your automatic response to protect yourself. And in that space is gold. In that space is choice. In that space is where you connect to your deepest power.

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Justina Victoria is a men's expert and sex coach. Check her out at justinavictoria.com

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February 1, 2019 • 75 mins

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Men's Sex Coach, Justina Victoria, hosts So Hard - A Podcast for Boys which aims to create a space for men to talk about their sexuality in a vulnerable way. In episode one, she talks about the purpose of the podcast, 2019 sex goals and interview's Nige Atkinson - writer of the book Odd Man Out.Ā 

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