Sober lifestyle creator Suzanne Warye joins Alysse and Tamar to dismantle mommy-wine culture, talk perimenopause in recovery and share how getting sober before the pandemic — with three kids — sparked her mission to help moms trade moderation gymnastics for self-trust and community. We cover identity, shame, “Irish goodbyes” and why sober connection is the REAL life hack.
Takeaways :
- Sobriety is a proactive choice—don’t wait to “qualify” by losing something big.
- Moderation rules keep you stuck; flipping the script makes alcohol lose its pedestal.
- Perimenopause + alcohol = suffering; recovery supports sleep, mood, and sanity.
- Community (virtual or local) is essential—“we’re only as sick as our secrets.”
- Gen X superpower: fewer f’s to give; stronger boundaries with age and sobriety.
Timestamps:
[01:07] - Vibe checks
[20:51] - Suzanne’s pivot: “I quit Jan 19, 2020” and why she didn’t wait to hit bottom.
[29:28] - Calling out alcohol-soaked culture and the moderation myth.
[43:01] - Community as a home base in sobriety (and pants optional).
[53:29] - Tchotchke of the Week: Goonies Little People cameo.
Resources & Links:
-Suzanne Warye: Website, Instagram, Facebook
-Podcast: The Sober Mom Life
-Book: "The Sober Shift"
-Alcohol + Substance Use Disorder Guide
-Recovery Nonprofit Resource Guide
-LBGTQ+ Recovery Resource Guide
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Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, and joined by Sober Curator contributors, The Sober Curator Podcast* delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover, we’ve got you covered. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.
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*The Sober Curator Podcast is a space for open and honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and alcohol-free living. While we celebrate all paths to a sober lifestyle, some topics discussed may be sensitive or triggering for certain listeners. Thi
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