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November 10, 2023 106 mins

In this episode we navigate the expansive and often complex landscape of sexual sovereignty with Kristin Ten O'Guin.

Throughout our conversation, we dissect the intricate concept of sexual sovereignty, revealing its ties to freedom, authenticity, and self-awareness.


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Kristin shares insights from her work as a sexuality and relationship coach, providing a fresh perspective on how we can peel back the layers of sexual scripts and societal expectations to discover our own unique sexual identity.

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We also explore some of the important facets of sexual education, emphasizing the necessity of setting boundaries and encouraging open, honest communication in relationships.

This extends to our discussion on consensual non-monogamy, where we explore the various types of relationships that fall under this umbrella and highlight the significance of consent and communication within them.

From the exploration of polyamory and swinging to open relationships and even the more controversial "don't ask, don't tell" policy, we cover a range of topics to challenge conventional norms. In the final segments, we touch on the topics of sexual identity, pleasure, and the intersection of sexuality, gender, and reproduction in society. We discuss the importance of acknowledging and respecting personal boundaries, regardless of societal expectations.

Lastly, we delve into the often complex issues surrounding transgender and intersex individuals, shedding light on the societal pressures, media influences, and the importance of early education about respect and boundaries.

Listen in as we uncover the realities, challenges, and potential paths to sexual liberation and sovereignty.


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Join me, Jordan Urbs, on my journey to become more sovereign over my life, to control the things I can control and surrender to those I cannot.

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Episode Keywords

Sexual Sovereignty, Authenticity, Boundaries, Sexual Education, Consensual Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Swinging, Open Relationships, Don't Ask Don't Tell, Gender Identity, Reproduction, Puberty Blockers, Transgender, Intersex, Respect, Media Influences, Early Education, Self-Awareness, Freedom, Communication, Consent, Genuine Sexual Liberation, Power Dynamics

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