In this inspiring episode of the Sparks of Gratitude podcast, host Randy Sparks welcomes Ruchi Shah, an Industrial-Organizational Psychologist, intuitive coach, and creator of the groundbreaking book We Humans. Together, they unravel one of the most universal questions of our time: Why is humaning so difficult?
Ruchie shares how leaving corporate life led her to a deeper understanding of what it means to be truly successful. Instead of chasing titles or money, she now values time, kindness, connection, and purpose. Through her book We Humans, she helps us explore who we are, who we’re becoming, and why inner awareness and surrender can lead to real strength.
🔥 You’ll learn:
✔️ The difference between inner voice and inner noise—and how to listen well
✔️ Why approval must come from within, not the outside world
✔️ How gratitude helps close the painful gap between what is and what could be
If you've ever struggled with identity, burnout, relationships, or simply finding stillness in the chaos, this episode will speak straight to your heart.
📍 Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
01:50 - Experiencing the Book “We Humans”
03:23 - “Why is Humaning So Difficult?”
12:05 - The Voice vs The Noise
14:11 - The Power of Pause and Stillness
18:28 - Seeking Approval Outside vs Trusting the Inner Self
21:29 - Letting Go of Control and Assumptions
30:26 - Awareness AI: Attention to Intention
34:45 - The Gap Between What Is vs. What Can Be
42:31 - The Power of Gratitude in Relationships
50:24 - Identity: Who Am I?
55:37 - What’s Next for Humaness?
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