In today's episode I talk about the things I find myself repeating most in live sessions with parents of teens. These are changes you can make that will make an enormous difference in much influence you can maintain in their life.
I'll talk to you about:
a) remembering that your teen doesn’t think like you do,
b) staying calm when you engage with them, and
c) discussing issues with them rather than making unilateral declarations.
I focus on these ideas because I know if you can make positive changes in these areas, you’ll decrease animosity between you and your teen and give them the opportunity to trust you and let you into their life.
And be sure to check out today's Substack post (5-20-25) where I give you a bit more insight into these issues.
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