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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I dive into desire, dating, and male loneliness through my experiences and what I’ve seen in the adult industry. I share a spicy confession about my past relationships and why being honest about your desires is so important.
I also talk about the nuances of dating while working in the adult industry, societal pressures around monogamy, and the evolving conversations around male identity and vulnerability.
Later, I sit down with Jon Symes to dig into male loneliness, vulnerability, and what men are really thinking. We explore breaking down traditional gender roles and imagining a more inclusive, authentic approach to intimacy and human connection.
If you’re curious, introspective, or part of the kink community, this episode is full of raw truth, emotional depth, and candid conversations about the intersections of sex, desire, and connection.
Learn more about Jon and his work at Whole & Free and check out his YouTube channel here.
Listen to Part 1 here
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