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People love to ask if adult industry professionals hate men and honestly, it says more about them than it does about us. In this episode, I unpack why that question keeps coming up, what it reveals about power, and how setting boundaries gets misread as bitterness. It’s not hate. It’s emotional labor, self-preservation and respect. I talk about the real dynamic between men and adult professionals, the compassion we often carry, and why critique doesn’t equal contempt.
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