Start Your Comeback: Rebuilding after Divorce, Empty Nest, and Loss of Spouse

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Feeling stuck in a holding pattern? You're not alone. Life's major transitions—divorce, job loss, empty nesting, or losing a loved one—can plunge us into what feels like solitary confinement. Not the restful solitude we sometimes crave, but the punishing isolation that whispers lies about our worth and future.

This episode explores the profound difference between sacred...

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Have you ever noticed how, after surviving a major life upheaval, you suddenly find yourself standing on solid ground—yet still bracing for waves that aren't coming? That disorienting moment marks the beginning of an unexpected freedom journey.

Freedom after transition arrives quietly. After treading water through divorce, empty nesting, retirement, or career changes, many d...

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That simmering feeling beneath your "everything's fine" smile? It's not your enemy. Anger—especially during major life transitions like divorce, loss, retirement, or relocation—often gets a bad rap. But what if this powerful emotion could actually fuel your comeback instead of derailing it?

In this episode, we walk straight into a topic most people avoid. Ange...

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Transition is uncomfortable and messy, but you can navigate it with strength and clarity by using the right resources. I share my personal experience with therapy, essential books that helped me through difficult times, and recommended podcasts for those going through major life changes.

• Therapy is a non-negotiable resource for navigating transitions
• Resources include Tod...

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Standing in my first apartment after a major life change, keys in hand, I felt completely paralyzed by fear instead of proud. Could I really take care of myself? Would the money stretch far enough? How would I handle being alone? That moment taught me something profound about doubt and how it shows up precisely when we're ready to move forward.

Doubt doesn't arrive quie...

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Ever felt like you're wandering through a wilderness with no map, no cell service, and absolutely no clue what the future holds? That's exactly what we tackle in this raw, honest conversation about the "soul wilderness" – that gritty, confusing, heart-wrenching space where the familiar landmarks have vanished and doubt pulls up a chair.

The wilderness isn&apos...

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The moment when life pulls the rug out from under you doesn't just bring shock—it opens the door for doubt to flood in. Whether you're facing divorce, job loss, an empty nest, or an unexpected diagnosis, that one-two punch can leave you questioning everything, even your ability to make basic decisions.

Having walked through my own devastating transition when my marriage...

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The sudden silence of an empty nest can feel deafening. After dedicating nearly two decades to raising children, organizing schedules, and building your life around their needs, that final graduation ceremony signals a profound identity shift that few discuss openly. But what if this transition isn't an ending but the beginning of your personal renaissance?

Drawing from my o...

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Graduation isn't just a major life transition for our kids—it's one for parents too. When your child walks across that stage, you're not losing your purpose, you're redefining it; your identity isn't ending, it's evolving.

• May brings a weird blend of adrenaline and dread for parents of graduating seniors
• The emotional blindside of this transi...

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Motherhood isn't defined by biology alone. This heartfelt episode celebrates the many faces of maternal love – from grandmothers who stepped into primary caregiver roles, to aunts who became second mothers, to neighbors who made space for struggling teens. We honor the foster moms, adoptive mothers, stepmoms, spiritual mothers, and mentors who carried the weight of motherhood without...

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Have you ever felt like your past disqualifies you from a better future? That your mistakes have permanently set your path? Today, we're flipping the script on traditional comeback strategies to explore something far more powerful: redemption.

This isn't about soft, sentimental hope. We're diving into the gritty, raw, sometimes tear-stained hope that gets you out o...

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Life transitions can feel like death, but they're the beginning of your comeback story—the moment everything falls apart is when transformation begins. 

• Standing in the middle of a life transition feels like unfamiliar ground
• Transitions like divorce, job loss, retirement, or loss feel like something is being buried
• Jesus's death and resurrection provide t...

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The re-entry stage following a major life transition presents unique challenges as we navigate newfound freedom and reconstruct our identity. Regardless of whether you're facing divorce, empty nesting, retirement, or loss of a spouse, this final stage of transition requires courage and self-compassion as you begin taking possession of your new life.

• The re-entry phase foll...

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Have you ever felt completely stuck between your past and your future? Welcome to limbo—the gritty wilderness of every life transition that doesn't come with a map, a timer, or an easy way out.

After the initial shock of a major life change wears off—whether it's divorce, loss, career upheaval, or empty nesting—we enter this strange suspended animation. It's what I...

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Major life transitions can leave us in complete shock, turning our world upside down and making even simple tasks feel overwhelming. We explore how shock is actually the body's way of protecting us from processing too much pain at once and why survival mode isn't weakness but wisdom.

• Three non-negotiables for navigating the shock phase of major life transitions
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Building a strategic game plan for life after major transitions gives you the clarity and direction needed to move forward with purpose. Drawing from sports coaching principles, I share how creating a flexible roadmap can help you get off the bench and back into the game of life.

• Major life transitions require a strategic approach similar to sports game plans
• A good life ...

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Divorce creates emotional turmoil for everyone involved, but leaning on your children for support can cause lasting damage. Professional counseling is essential to navigate this difficult transition while protecting your kids' emotional wellbeing.

• The damage of using children as emotional confidants during divorce
• Loss of childhood innocence when burdening kids with ...

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This episode illuminates the profound impact that manipulation and triangulation can have on children caught in parental conflict, emphasizing the need for clear communication and boundaries in co-parenting. We discuss examples of manipulation, the emotional toll on children, and actionable strategies for divorced parents to support their kids. 
• Exploring manipulation and triangulat...

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Co-parenting can be a challenge when one parent emerges as the "Disneyland Parent," focusing on fun at the expense of responsibility. This episode explores the emotional implications, motivations behind this behavior, and actionable strategies to create a healthier co-parenting dynamic. 
• Understanding the Disneyland Parent concept 
• Emotional struggles: resentment, gu...