Breaking the Chains of Shame: How to Break Free from Past Mistakes and Restore your Identity with Tonya Bailey Jones

Shame is a heavy burden, but it’s not one you have to carry forever. In this deeply moving episode of the Starting Over Wealth podcast, host Tricia sits down with Tonya Bailey Jones, a fellow faculty member at the Redefining Wealth Institute and author of Pearls in the Pew. Together, they open up about the silent struggles many women of faith face after abortion—the weight of guilt, the battle against negative self-talk, and the isolation that often follows.

Tonya shares her personal journey of healing, the power of self-forgiveness, and how women can reclaim their identity and worth in God’s eyes. This conversation is a powerful reminder that grace is greater than shame and that you are never too far from God’s love. Tonya’s book, podcast, and resources serve as a lifeline for those seeking healing and restoration.

Host: Tricia Daniel of Starting Over Wealth Network

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Guest: Tonya Bailey Jones, Retired Naval Officer | Connect with Tonya: Pearls in the Pew | YouTube | Connect with Tonya on Facebook

Key Takeaways

• The emotional and spiritual toll of abortion within the church community
• How self-forgiveness is the key to breaking free from shame
• The power of words and meditation in renewing the mind
• Why seeking support and sharing your story brings freedom

Who is my Fabulous Guest?

Retired Naval Officer, Tonya Bailey Jones is a woman of God, transformational speaker, coach, consultant, host of Beauty Beyond the Ashes Podcast with Tonya B. Jones and the author of Pearls in the Pews: Bringing Post-Abortion Healing to the Church(ed). Tonya is a restorative voice for the abortion-wounded woman who remains shackled to the shame and regret of her past choice. Tonya has overcome so much darkness and despair to emerge as a beacon of light for the post-abortive woman. With bold truth and deliberate actions, Tonya informs, encourages and coaches women to release their shame and walk in freedom and wholeness to live their life's purpose with courage and boldness.

Chapters:

• 00:00 – Welcome & Introduction to Tanya Bailey Jones
• 01:09 – Tonya’s Story: From Shame to Strength
• 02:33 – The Hidden Impact of Abortion on Women of Faith
• 03:52 – The Power of Personal Testimonies & Statistics
• 05:15 – The Journey to Healing & Embracing God’s Grace
• 14:00 – Transforming Your Mindset: The Power of Words & Meditation
• 24:19 – Overcoming Shame & Finding a Support System
• 30:28 – Final Thoughts & Where to Connect

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