June 12, 2025 • 21 mins
Is it all about the frequency? Your beliefs? Your words? Your actions? Or, are we just running a raffle? Check out the episode to find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:11):
If it's love that you need, you can't take it from me
, cause I'm the one who's givingit up, and I know it's been
hard, but you've made it thisfar Now I'm the one who's giving
it up.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
All right, all right, all right, all right, all right
.
Pura vida, pura vida.
And I say that because life isgood, because Jimmy's back,
thank God.
The last episode that wereleased got unreleased,
actually because it was a soloepisode, and I decided that, I
don't know, I just wasn't a fan,maybe it's because of the
(01:02):
critical eye and ear that I haveof myself, but, um, I'm
incomplete without you, jim.
So, thank god you're back.
Um, welcome to the straight lovepodcast.
It is the the.
The straight love podcastwithout jim is just stir.
I thought it was good man.
Well, thanks, buddy, I meanthat that that means a lot
(01:23):
coming from you.
But, uh, I don't know, I just,for whatever reason, I was just
stewing over it I'm like I can'thave the world hear this.
Yeah, that's fair, it is whatit is.
It's gone now, but, hey,jimmy's back.
It's been a month, man, yeah,time flies, it really does, but
(01:46):
we've been busy, obviously.
Um, I was out getting marriedand you, um, I gotta say, man,
seeing you with my daughter outin costa rica.
I mean really that that thatwas, that was really special
yeah.
Yeah, it was a lot of fun, itwas like the way that she took
to you, though you know like Imean, obviously you've met her a
handful of times, but like forher to spend that much time with
you, and like we'd start offthe day you'd be down by the
(02:09):
pool.
She'd be saying uncle shedoesn't have that many words in
her vocabulary, but that wascertainly one of them all of a
sudden makes it easy, totally,totally.
But that was that was.
That meant a lot to me, man.
You know, you guys got to spenda lot of time together and she
was nuts about you.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Yeah, she's easy going, man, she's was fun, she's
definitely easy going.
Yeah, yeah, she's uh a littlejoy to have around.
Oh yeah, yeah, it's uh, yeah,it's nice man, it's just like,
uh, they're, they're brightmoments totally.
The only the only one timewhere I was like oh, I don't
know what to do here is, I think, when you guys were guys had
(02:45):
left to go take more photos Atthe actual reception.
Yeah, and I was holding her andstanding, and I was holding her
, and I was holding her and Iwas holding her and I was like I
don't know what to do.
Am I allowed to put you down?
Should I put you down?
I feel like I want to keepholding you.
You, I don't know what to dohere.
(03:06):
And then eventually, after awhile, my remedial brain was
like we can sit down, hey therewe go I think literally after 40
minutes.
Oh, because we abandoned you fora while yeah, probably for like
40 minutes of like standing andholding her and walking around
and you know like just whateverhaving fun I was like oh yeah,
we can sit down, let's go sitdown so what was that
(03:29):
interaction?
Speaker 2 (03:30):
like?
What were you?
How were you killing the timetogether?
Um, we were just chatting, isthat right?
Yeah, oh, she's good like that,just chatting and looking at
stuff and see it's funny becausewe like I just kind of threw
her on you and I'm like I guesswe'll be back, and I don't think
that I even ran it by youbefore it was just kind of like
hey, we're going, yeah, it's notreally anything.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You need to run by, I know, but I just think that
within the moment, you know, youjust kind of take for granted
that.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
You know, obviously she feels safe with you and I,
you know, there's like threepeople in the world that I trust
, along with my child, andyou're certainly one of them.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I appreciate that.
Yeah, it was good man, it wasfun.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Like I said, she's easy going and I liked the
little hugs and yeah, it's good,good times, um, if you haven't
done so already, please head onover to Instagram straight.
Love S E R, the number eight,dot, love, love, as usual.
Uh, we were having a aheart-to-heart upstairs.
We should just move this entirepodcast studio, to be honest,
(04:29):
um, and we were talking about,um, different frequencies that
we kind of operate on, and jimwas just making a lot of sense
and saying a lot of things firstperson ever to think and say
that.
But really, man, you weresaying a lot that was really
hitting home.
And I think that when you hearcertain things and they feel
true to you, you can, you canfeel that you know, and I, one
(04:53):
of the um, one of the thingsthat I will say about you, um,
and your, when you be, when,when I hear a lot of confidence
in your voice, I know it's aboutsomething that you truly
believe in and something thatyou truly mean.
And when you started talkingabout how you feel invincible
(05:15):
when it comes to combatingviruses in this world, not in
those words necessarily.
No, for sure.
Not in those words necessarily,um, for sure.
No, I, I, but, but I.
I think it's important to sharethis kind of thing because it,
it, it does again have a lot ofum truthful meaning and feeling
in it.
So, yeah, can you?
(05:36):
Can you talk about first of allwhat it is, that that you know,
um the frequency that you'reoperating on, and maybe even how
you got to that particularlevel of belief in yourself?
I guess to a certain degree.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Well, none of it is anything that I've curated, it's
all just stuff that it's sortof maybe not the right way to
put it, but I want to say kindof it's like reverse engineering
, like I you know, about thetheory and the thought and the
idea and the philosophy, and itresonates or makes sense and
(06:16):
then, I guess, at at some point,through actions and that belief
or that direction of belief,then you sort of kind of realize
, oh, I guess I have been doingthat, and maybe some of stuff is
on purpose and intentional andsome stuff isn't.
(06:37):
And so the stuff that we weretalking about there, it just in
that context about how we werespeaking, it just in that
context about how we werespeaking, based upon what I have
been exposed to in terms ofthese philosophies and beliefs,
(06:59):
then it just starts to makesense and I guess, as you said,
because I choose to believe init, or my experience has led me
to choose to believe in it, then, yeah, I guess I do have a lot
of confidence in it.
Right, I would have neverthought of putting it in that
way, but, um, I do, and and andmaybe even from like a science
based point, it also does makesense.
(07:19):
Someone that was a lot moreintelligent than I am could
probably speak more to that, butreally, what I'm blathering on
about is that, yeah, so theillness thing I think I just do
the right things that areintentional to support my immune
system, to fend off and wardoff illness or whatever the case
might be, and so.
(07:39):
So then it strengthens mybelief, right, and then it's
kind of that grows in and ofitself, and then you almost get
to the point where it's like isall that really matters is my
belief?
Now I'm certainly not there.
I'm still going to keep doingthings because I believe in
those things.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
But your belief is built on this.
These pillars almost like thisknowledge.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
This, yeah for sure.
And then that, just like I said, sort of the reverse
engineering part of it.
It makes me go back to thethings that I've learned about,
read about, heard where oh well,I guess this is in this context
you're operating at a frequencythat isn't able to have a
(08:25):
transmission of things that arenot operating at other
frequencies.
Uh, so then, therefore, youwon't be subject to them I love
this man.
Okay, I love this so much youknow, like the old, the old kind
of, if you want to listen towhatever 105.5 on the fm, but
(08:48):
you're trying to.
You're in the 90s, you knowwhat I mean.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
You'll never get it totally, totally.
So what?
What I what I think is isimportant about this too, is
this belief that you have issoul.
It's so wholehearted and it'sso like there's no doubt in your
mind when it comes to the waythat you feel about your immune
system.
(09:11):
When it, when it, when it comesto how you feel about being
able to fend off viruses, yousay to yourself I am not someone
who gets sick, right, andyou're not saying that to
convince yourself.
You believe that now, maybe yousay that to yourself in order
to convince yourself, like, like, to get your to yourself to
that point where you're tryingto establish that belief in
(09:34):
yourself.
There's no questioning it.
There's nothing that's going toseep into you, that's going to
affect the way that you feel,believe like.
It's just, it's, it'sunshakable to a certain degree,
and I think that there'ssomething very admirable about
that, yeah, yeah, maybe a littlebit there is.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I mean, I also like the things that I do
consistently are very important,and I think if I compromise
those, then it would alsocompromise how I feel about it.
How could it not?
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah, so it's um, both of those things contribute
for sure, and I think the bothare important, though You're
going to continue to do thesethings, because in order to have
that belief, you need to haveagain that kind of thing
underneath Right.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, um, now the real, the real skill and feat
would be to be able to likeapply that to all things in life
?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Absolutely, man, and that's where I kind of wanted to
go with this, because this is avery concrete example.
But how can you like spillingthis over into other areas?
That's where the real magiccould start to happen, for sure,
right?
So where else could youpotentially see something like
this, like where can you plant aseed, necessarily, and then
(10:50):
build on that in order to get tothis same level of wholehearted
belief.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Do you want to answer that question?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Look, man, I mean like there's, there's a lot of
different areas.
I think that, um, you know,another example that we were
giving is is like good thingsare happening for me, good
things are coming to me, like Iam someone who attracts
positivity and good fortune, andlike you can, you can, you can
(11:25):
feel those things and you can,you know again, work on trying
to convince yourself of them.
But what are you doingunderneath, you know, to be able
to kind of have something thatyou can prop up this belief on?
You know, like that's what Ithink is is missing for a lot of
people.
You know, we try and speakthings into existence and we try
(11:46):
and manifest.
Okay, you can, you can do thatall you want, and there's a lot
of power in that.
But what's underneath it?
You know?
What are you doing in order tobe able to support that?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
yeah, my experience, and I guess until further notice
, is that there has to be acontribution of both sides of it
.
Right, you know it's um, therehas to be a contribution of both
sides of it.
Right, you know it's um, therehas to be a little bit of
believing before you see it anda little bit of seeing it to
believe it.
Okay, I love that.
I mean, I don't know which one,uh, I don't know, I don't, I
(12:21):
don't know how you initiate,which one initiates first, or if
it matters, or it's, uh, it'selusive to me when it comes to
different to to frequencies,though, man, do you kind of
envision that you're operatingon a different frequency than
these viruses that are beneathyou kind of thing?
No, I don't, I don't think so.
(12:42):
I think I just have.
I think I've just experiencedto be health, I've experienced
being healthy from that respectand um, and I guess I just trust
in it, I guess I've learned totrust it.
I mean, I don't have full like,even even speaking about it,
this much is shaking me up a bit.
I'm going to be completelyhonest with you.
It's shaking me up a bit.
(13:03):
I'm gonna be completely honestwith you.
It's shaking me up a bit.
But then maybe it's sort ofmaybe this is like a challenge.
This is my challenge to to belike, well, don't waver in it,
you know.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Like totally don't let this make you uncomfortable
with what your belief is I justI also think that because you
have again, when we werespeaking about it and you were
speaking about about it withsuch confidence, I think that
this is just something that canbe so I don't want to say easily
, but something that can beduplicated in other areas,
(13:33):
that's all I'm sure it can be.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
I mean, I don't I don't have the blueprint of that
, but I mean, like we werespeaking about I don't think,
think there are a lot ofvariations of how things change.
What do you mean by that?
Things get better?
Well, like we were saying, it'skind of you either work harder
(13:57):
or you do something differentlyor a combination of both Right
now, exactly whatever.
the specific details of that arecertainly different, are
dependent upon whatever thecircumstance, situation or
objective is.
But it's hard to argue, I think.
And if I welcome whateverinsight it is, but I think it's
(14:19):
kind of hard to argue thosetenants to say either you work
harder, you do somethingdifferently, or both, man, but
maybe not.
But again, to be my own uh,contrarian, maybe not like me.
There's also a whole bunch ofthings where it's like you
should just allow the flow to gowith you and, yeah, you know
and accept, uh, whatever thecase might be or whatever it is
(14:42):
and so it's, maybe it's allpredicated on what your belief
is yeah, you know what man Ihear about that going with the
flow kind of thing and just kindof relaxing into the world, um,
and I think that there's a lotto be said for that.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
But I don't know like , is there a lot of power in
that man, perhaps?
I just feel like, if you can,there's something to also be
said for taking charge of acertain situation and, you know,
taking your power back and thenmaking certain decisions and
putting a lot of effort intosomething and creating something
on your own and realizing howpowerful you are.
(15:19):
Man, like you know, we, we, wetap into such a small part of
our, a small portion of our ownpotential.
It seems like sometimes I don'tknow if it's because of
procrastination or laziness orwhatever it is, but a lot of us
never reach our full potentialbecause we just, I don't know,
either don't have the belief or,you know, don't um, or don't
(15:42):
know, I guess either what to do,right I, I do agree, and maybe
it's because we overcomplicatethings as humans Also, true,
yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
I, I, I think I do have this one kind of thing sort
of lined up for myself thatseems to work.
But as for the rest of it, youknow, I'm still figuring it out.
I'm still figuring it out asbest as I can.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Well, look man, um, I'm still figuring it out as
best as I can.
Well, look, man, it's good tospeak about these kinds of
things, it's good to highlightthings that aren't working, that
are working, and then you knowusing that as some sort of a
basis then to try, and you know,figure out how to kind of like
duplicate that kind of successin other areas.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
I do really believe, as we were talking about the
frequency thing, I just Icertainly great to hear a
different perspective.
I don't know if I would be, Idon't know if I'd be accepting
of a different perspective, Iguess.
So, as much as I say that maybeI'm kind of being more closed
minded and pretending I'm openminded, but just that, the
frequency thing, when you thinkabout that concept and idea and
(16:53):
philosophy, it just does make aton of sense.
Dude, it so does.
And I remember actually thiswas I was watching a uh uh
weight training video orwhatever the case might be again
making fun of myself as I havebefore, because I haven't
watched enough of those, I guessyou know, but, um, not the best
use of time but I rememberthere was a clip of Arnold
(17:13):
Schwarzenegger speaking and hewas saying, you know he would,
he would see these other traintraining people at the gym and
you could just see who was atthe frequency of training and
working and who was not.
You see, it, you could just seeit, you could just see that, and
(17:36):
sure you can frame that inwhatever how, whatever the words
you want to use, whateversemantics you want to have
towards this about saying, okay,well, you know, is someone
focused or someone concentratedor someone you know putting
their their mind?
Muscle connection is anothersort of buzzword, cliche
statement together, but reallyto me it's kind of like.
(17:57):
Or you could use the wordfrequency are you operating at
the frequency of I am here togrow and build these muscles by
lifting these weights and doingthese mechanics with my body?
That is the frequency that I'moperating at.
So then, therefore, I'm goingto attract the frequency of this
.
Or are you just operating,again, at the frequency of like,
(18:19):
I'm here, I'm going to liftthose things over there,
whatever, do this and that andthen you go?
Those are two different placesto be working from.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
They really are, man, and I'll do you one more.
You could be even lower thanthat when it comes to frequency
and being like why am I evenhere?
I'm so weak, I'll never figurethis out like this is such a
waste of my time.
Everybody here is stronger thanme, right?
Like?
Even using those words, man,you can feel, yeah, it going
lower, you know, yeah.
So I mean there's something tobe said for these different
(18:49):
frequencies that we're choosingto put ourselves into yeah, yeah
, they.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
I think they really do produce tangible and
intangible uh uh products.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
I think that one of the things that we've kind of
overlooked here is there reallyis an easy answer when it comes
to frequencies, and that's toask kenneth what's the frequency
, kenneth?
Oh, rem, rem yeah yeah, shoutout to what's that guy's name?
(19:26):
Michael sniper?
Speaker 1 (19:27):
yeah, something like that, yeah it is why does he say
that in the song?
Do you know who's Kenneth?
Speaker 2 (19:33):
I don't know, but we got to find out.
Jim, If there's one way thatwe're going to be able to wrap
up this episode is to figure outwho Kenneth is and then get him
onto the podcast.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Or we can just end it .
Speaker 2 (19:48):
What's the frequency, kenneth?
All right, I guess we'll end itthere.
Yeah, even though my jokelanded flatter than a pancake, I
didn't understand it.
Somebody out there got it.
Yeah, if you did, please let meknow.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Message me on Instagram.
It's audience shortfall.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
All right.
Well, we're back.
We're back to every two weekshere.
Um, we're sorry that we uhabandoned you all for a month,
but there was a good reason forit.
Uh, we missed you, jim.
I missed uh sitting across fromyou here.
I'm glad that you're back.
I'm glad we're back and, um, Ilove you a bunch, as always,
buddy.
Yeah, man, same here.
Love you.
All.
Right, we love you everybody.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Thank you for listening.
Bye, everybody bye.
So I'm not there with you.
(20:51):
And I fight, and I fight and Ifight.
The world is leaving.
I fight for the betterment, andI fight, and I fight and I
fight.
The world is leaving.
I fight for the betterment.
The world is leaving us.
(21:11):
I don't care.
If it's love that you need, you can't take it from me
, cause I'm the one who's givingit up, and I know it's been
hard, but you've made it thisfar Now I'm the one who's giving
it up.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
All right, all right, all right, all right, all right
.
Pura vida, pura vida.
And I say that because life isgood, because Jimmy's back,
thank God.
The last episode that wereleased got unreleased,
actually because it was a soloepisode, and I decided that, I
don't know, I just wasn't a fan,maybe it's because of the
(01:02):
critical eye and ear that I haveof myself, but, um, I'm
incomplete without you, jim.
So, thank god you're back.
Um, welcome to the straight lovepodcast.
It is the the.
The straight love podcastwithout jim is just stir.
I thought it was good man.
Well, thanks, buddy, I meanthat that that means a lot
(01:23):
coming from you.
But, uh, I don't know, I just,for whatever reason, I was just
stewing over it I'm like I can'thave the world hear this.
Yeah, that's fair, it is whatit is.
It's gone now, but, hey,jimmy's back.
It's been a month, man, yeah,time flies, it really does, but
(01:46):
we've been busy, obviously.
Um, I was out getting marriedand you, um, I gotta say, man,
seeing you with my daughter outin costa rica.
I mean really that that thatwas, that was really special
yeah.
Yeah, it was a lot of fun, itwas like the way that she took
to you, though you know like Imean, obviously you've met her a
handful of times, but like forher to spend that much time with
you, and like we'd start offthe day you'd be down by the
(02:09):
pool.
She'd be saying uncle shedoesn't have that many words in
her vocabulary, but that wascertainly one of them all of a
sudden makes it easy, totally,totally.
But that was that was.
That meant a lot to me, man.
You know, you guys got to spenda lot of time together and she
was nuts about you.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Yeah, she's easy going, man, she's was fun, she's
definitely easy going.
Yeah, yeah, she's uh a littlejoy to have around.
Oh yeah, yeah, it's uh, yeah,it's nice man, it's just like,
uh, they're, they're brightmoments totally.
The only the only one timewhere I was like oh, I don't
know what to do here is, I think, when you guys were guys had
(02:45):
left to go take more photos Atthe actual reception.
Yeah, and I was holding her andstanding, and I was holding her
, and I was holding her and Iwas holding her and I was like I
don't know what to do.
Am I allowed to put you down?
Should I put you down?
I feel like I want to keepholding you.
You, I don't know what to dohere.
(03:06):
And then eventually, after awhile, my remedial brain was
like we can sit down, hey therewe go I think literally after 40
minutes.
Oh, because we abandoned you fora while yeah, probably for like
40 minutes of like standing andholding her and walking around
and you know like just whateverhaving fun I was like oh yeah,
we can sit down, let's go sitdown so what was that
(03:29):
interaction?
Speaker 2 (03:30):
like?
What were you?
How were you killing the timetogether?
Um, we were just chatting, isthat right?
Yeah, oh, she's good like that,just chatting and looking at
stuff and see it's funny becausewe like I just kind of threw
her on you and I'm like I guesswe'll be back, and I don't think
that I even ran it by youbefore it was just kind of like
hey, we're going, yeah, it's notreally anything.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You need to run by, I know, but I just think that
within the moment, you know, youjust kind of take for granted
that.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
You know, obviously she feels safe with you and I,
you know, there's like threepeople in the world that I trust
, along with my child, andyou're certainly one of them.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I appreciate that.
Yeah, it was good man, it wasfun.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Like I said, she's easy going and I liked the
little hugs and yeah, it's good,good times, um, if you haven't
done so already, please head onover to Instagram straight.
Love S E R, the number eight,dot, love, love, as usual.
Uh, we were having a aheart-to-heart upstairs.
We should just move this entirepodcast studio, to be honest,
(04:29):
um, and we were talking about,um, different frequencies that
we kind of operate on, and jimwas just making a lot of sense
and saying a lot of things firstperson ever to think and say
that.
But really, man, you weresaying a lot that was really
hitting home.
And I think that when you hearcertain things and they feel
true to you, you can, you canfeel that you know, and I, one
(04:53):
of the um, one of the thingsthat I will say about you, um,
and your, when you be, when,when I hear a lot of confidence
in your voice, I know it's aboutsomething that you truly
believe in and something thatyou truly mean.
And when you started talkingabout how you feel invincible
(05:15):
when it comes to combatingviruses in this world, not in
those words necessarily.
No, for sure.
Not in those words necessarily,um, for sure.
No, I, I, but, but I.
I think it's important to sharethis kind of thing because it,
it, it does again have a lot ofum truthful meaning and feeling
in it.
So, yeah, can you?
(05:36):
Can you talk about first of allwhat it is, that that you know,
um the frequency that you'reoperating on, and maybe even how
you got to that particularlevel of belief in yourself?
I guess to a certain degree.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Well, none of it is anything that I've curated, it's
all just stuff that it's sortof maybe not the right way to
put it, but I want to say kindof it's like reverse engineering
, like I you know, about thetheory and the thought and the
idea and the philosophy, and itresonates or makes sense and
(06:16):
then, I guess, at at some point,through actions and that belief
or that direction of belief,then you sort of kind of realize
, oh, I guess I have been doingthat, and maybe some of stuff is
on purpose and intentional andsome stuff isn't.
(06:37):
And so the stuff that we weretalking about there, it just in
that context about how we werespeaking, it just in that
context about how we werespeaking, based upon what I have
been exposed to in terms ofthese philosophies and beliefs,
(06:59):
then it just starts to makesense and I guess, as you said,
because I choose to believe init, or my experience has led me
to choose to believe in it, then, yeah, I guess I do have a lot
of confidence in it.
Right, I would have neverthought of putting it in that
way, but, um, I do, and and andmaybe even from like a science
based point, it also does makesense.
(07:19):
Someone that was a lot moreintelligent than I am could
probably speak more to that, butreally, what I'm blathering on
about is that, yeah, so theillness thing I think I just do
the right things that areintentional to support my immune
system, to fend off and wardoff illness or whatever the case
might be, and so.
(07:39):
So then it strengthens mybelief, right, and then it's
kind of that grows in and ofitself, and then you almost get
to the point where it's like isall that really matters is my
belief?
Now I'm certainly not there.
I'm still going to keep doingthings because I believe in
those things.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
But your belief is built on this.
These pillars almost like thisknowledge.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
This, yeah for sure.
And then that, just like I said, sort of the reverse
engineering part of it.
It makes me go back to thethings that I've learned about,
read about, heard where oh well,I guess this is in this context
you're operating at a frequencythat isn't able to have a
(08:25):
transmission of things that arenot operating at other
frequencies.
Uh, so then, therefore, youwon't be subject to them I love
this man.
Okay, I love this so much youknow, like the old, the old kind
of, if you want to listen towhatever 105.5 on the fm, but
(08:48):
you're trying to.
You're in the 90s, you knowwhat I mean.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
You'll never get it totally, totally.
So what?
What I what I think is isimportant about this too, is
this belief that you have issoul.
It's so wholehearted and it'sso like there's no doubt in your
mind when it comes to the waythat you feel about your immune
system.
(09:11):
When it, when it, when it comesto how you feel about being
able to fend off viruses, yousay to yourself I am not someone
who gets sick, right, andyou're not saying that to
convince yourself.
You believe that now, maybe yousay that to yourself in order
to convince yourself, like, like, to get your to yourself to
that point where you're tryingto establish that belief in
(09:34):
yourself.
There's no questioning it.
There's nothing that's going toseep into you, that's going to
affect the way that you feel,believe like.
It's just, it's, it'sunshakable to a certain degree,
and I think that there'ssomething very admirable about
that, yeah, yeah, maybe a littlebit there is.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I mean, I also like the things that I do
consistently are very important,and I think if I compromise
those, then it would alsocompromise how I feel about it.
How could it not?
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah, so it's um, both of those things contribute
for sure, and I think the bothare important, though You're
going to continue to do thesethings, because in order to have
that belief, you need to haveagain that kind of thing
underneath Right.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, um, now the real, the real skill and feat
would be to be able to likeapply that to all things in life
?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Absolutely, man, and that's where I kind of wanted to
go with this, because this is avery concrete example.
But how can you like spillingthis over into other areas?
That's where the real magiccould start to happen, for sure,
right?
So where else could youpotentially see something like
this, like where can you plant aseed, necessarily, and then
(10:50):
build on that in order to get tothis same level of wholehearted
belief.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Do you want to answer that question?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Look, man, I mean like there's, there's a lot of
different areas.
I think that, um, you know,another example that we were
giving is is like good thingsare happening for me, good
things are coming to me, like Iam someone who attracts
positivity and good fortune, andlike you can, you can, you can
(11:25):
feel those things and you can,you know again, work on trying
to convince yourself of them.
But what are you doingunderneath, you know, to be able
to kind of have something thatyou can prop up this belief on?
You know, like that's what Ithink is is missing for a lot of
people.
You know, we try and speakthings into existence and we try
(11:46):
and manifest.
Okay, you can, you can do thatall you want, and there's a lot
of power in that.
But what's underneath it?
You know?
What are you doing in order tobe able to support that?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
yeah, my experience, and I guess until further notice
, is that there has to be acontribution of both sides of it
.
Right, you know it's um, therehas to be a contribution of both
sides of it.
Right, you know it's um, therehas to be a little bit of
believing before you see it anda little bit of seeing it to
believe it.
Okay, I love that.
I mean, I don't know which one,uh, I don't know, I don't, I
(12:21):
don't know how you initiate,which one initiates first, or if
it matters, or it's, uh, it'selusive to me when it comes to
different to to frequencies,though, man, do you kind of
envision that you're operatingon a different frequency than
these viruses that are beneathyou kind of thing?
No, I don't, I don't think so.
(12:42):
I think I just have.
I think I've just experiencedto be health, I've experienced
being healthy from that respectand um, and I guess I just trust
in it, I guess I've learned totrust it.
I mean, I don't have full like,even even speaking about it,
this much is shaking me up a bit.
I'm going to be completelyhonest with you.
It's shaking me up a bit.
(13:03):
I'm gonna be completely honestwith you.
It's shaking me up a bit.
But then maybe it's sort ofmaybe this is like a challenge.
This is my challenge to to belike, well, don't waver in it,
you know.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Like totally don't let this make you uncomfortable
with what your belief is I justI also think that because you
have again, when we werespeaking about it and you were
speaking about about it withsuch confidence, I think that
this is just something that canbe so I don't want to say easily
, but something that can beduplicated in other areas,
(13:33):
that's all I'm sure it can be.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
I mean, I don't I don't have the blueprint of that
, but I mean, like we werespeaking about I don't think,
think there are a lot ofvariations of how things change.
What do you mean by that?
Things get better?
Well, like we were saying, it'skind of you either work harder
(13:57):
or you do something differentlyor a combination of both Right
now, exactly whatever.
the specific details of that arecertainly different, are
dependent upon whatever thecircumstance, situation or
objective is.
But it's hard to argue, I think.
And if I welcome whateverinsight it is, but I think it's
(14:19):
kind of hard to argue thosetenants to say either you work
harder, you do somethingdifferently, or both, man, but
maybe not.
But again, to be my own uh,contrarian, maybe not like me.
There's also a whole bunch ofthings where it's like you
should just allow the flow to gowith you and, yeah, you know
and accept, uh, whatever thecase might be or whatever it is
(14:42):
and so it's, maybe it's allpredicated on what your belief
is yeah, you know what man Ihear about that going with the
flow kind of thing and just kindof relaxing into the world, um,
and I think that there's a lotto be said for that.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
But I don't know like , is there a lot of power in
that man, perhaps?
I just feel like, if you can,there's something to also be
said for taking charge of acertain situation and, you know,
taking your power back and thenmaking certain decisions and
putting a lot of effort intosomething and creating something
on your own and realizing howpowerful you are.
(15:19):
Man, like you know, we, we, wetap into such a small part of
our, a small portion of our ownpotential.
It seems like sometimes I don'tknow if it's because of
procrastination or laziness orwhatever it is, but a lot of us
never reach our full potentialbecause we just, I don't know,
either don't have the belief or,you know, don't um, or don't
(15:42):
know, I guess either what to do,right I, I do agree, and maybe
it's because we overcomplicatethings as humans Also, true,
yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
I, I, I think I do have this one kind of thing sort
of lined up for myself thatseems to work.
But as for the rest of it, youknow, I'm still figuring it out.
I'm still figuring it out asbest as I can.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Well, look man, um, I'm still figuring it out as
best as I can.
Well, look, man, it's good tospeak about these kinds of
things, it's good to highlightthings that aren't working, that
are working, and then you knowusing that as some sort of a
basis then to try, and you know,figure out how to kind of like
duplicate that kind of successin other areas.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
I do really believe, as we were talking about the
frequency thing, I just Icertainly great to hear a
different perspective.
I don't know if I would be, Idon't know if I'd be accepting
of a different perspective, Iguess.
So, as much as I say that maybeI'm kind of being more closed
minded and pretending I'm openminded, but just that, the
frequency thing, when you thinkabout that concept and idea and
(16:53):
philosophy, it just does make aton of sense.
Dude, it so does.
And I remember actually thiswas I was watching a uh uh
weight training video orwhatever the case might be again
making fun of myself as I havebefore, because I haven't
watched enough of those, I guessyou know, but, um, not the best
use of time but I rememberthere was a clip of Arnold
(17:13):
Schwarzenegger speaking and hewas saying, you know he would,
he would see these other traintraining people at the gym and
you could just see who was atthe frequency of training and
working and who was not.
You see, it, you could just seeit, you could just see that, and
(17:36):
sure you can frame that inwhatever how, whatever the words
you want to use, whateversemantics you want to have
towards this about saying, okay,well, you know, is someone
focused or someone concentratedor someone you know putting
their their mind?
Muscle connection is anothersort of buzzword, cliche
statement together, but reallyto me it's kind of like.
(17:57):
Or you could use the wordfrequency are you operating at
the frequency of I am here togrow and build these muscles by
lifting these weights and doingthese mechanics with my body?
That is the frequency that I'moperating at.
So then, therefore, I'm goingto attract the frequency of this
.
Or are you just operating,again, at the frequency of like,
(18:19):
I'm here, I'm going to liftthose things over there,
whatever, do this and that andthen you go?
Those are two different placesto be working from.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
They really are, man, and I'll do you one more.
You could be even lower thanthat when it comes to frequency
and being like why am I evenhere?
I'm so weak, I'll never figurethis out like this is such a
waste of my time.
Everybody here is stronger thanme, right?
Like?
Even using those words, man,you can feel, yeah, it going
lower, you know, yeah.
So I mean there's something tobe said for these different
(18:49):
frequencies that we're choosingto put ourselves into yeah, yeah
, they.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
I think they really do produce tangible and
intangible uh uh products.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
I think that one of the things that we've kind of
overlooked here is there reallyis an easy answer when it comes
to frequencies, and that's toask kenneth what's the frequency
, kenneth?
Oh, rem, rem yeah yeah, shoutout to what's that guy's name?
(19:26):
Michael sniper?
Speaker 1 (19:27):
yeah, something like that, yeah it is why does he say
that in the song?
Do you know who's Kenneth?
Speaker 2 (19:33):
I don't know, but we got to find out.
Jim, If there's one way thatwe're going to be able to wrap
up this episode is to figure outwho Kenneth is and then get him
onto the podcast.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Or we can just end it .
Speaker 2 (19:48):
What's the frequency, kenneth?
All right, I guess we'll end itthere.
Yeah, even though my jokelanded flatter than a pancake, I
didn't understand it.
Somebody out there got it.
Yeah, if you did, please let meknow.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Message me on Instagram.
It's audience shortfall.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
All right.
Well, we're back.
We're back to every two weekshere.
Um, we're sorry that we uhabandoned you all for a month,
but there was a good reason forit.
Uh, we missed you, jim.
I missed uh sitting across fromyou here.
I'm glad that you're back.
I'm glad we're back and, um, Ilove you a bunch, as always,
buddy.
Yeah, man, same here.
Love you.
All.
Right, we love you everybody.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Thank you for listening.
Bye, everybody bye.
So I'm not there with you.
(20:51):
And I fight, and I fight and Ifight.
The world is leaving.
I fight for the betterment, andI fight, and I fight and I
fight.
The world is leaving.
I fight for the betterment.
The world is leaving us.
(21:11):
I don't care.
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