Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Episodes
What's 1 rule you could write and live that would change your marriage patterns for the better?
Write it out today!
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io
P.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
You have negative patterns that are hurting your marriage.
Not listening. Invalidating. Pushing conversations when they don’t need to be pushed. Letting your wife walk all over you.
The good news is, you can break those patterns.
And setting a few simple rules can help you do that.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 ...
On Thanksgiving, let’s be grateful for our wives.
No matter how bad things are right now, there’s SOMETHING you can be grateful for.
Find that gratitude (ask God for help)...
And share it with your wife.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io
If you find yourself unhappy in your marriage…
Resentful..
Frustrated…
Wondering if you married the right person…
This episode is for you.
You’ll learn how to start feeling better right away…
And by doing that…
Become more attractive to your wife.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at Stron...
Ask yourself today:
How can I partner with God to use the time and money He’s given me to bless others?
Then go do it!
Let me know how it goes.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io
P.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair.
You work hard for the money and respect you get…
And you expect others to do the same.
When they don’t work as hard as you…
But still get money or respect…
You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated.
Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for you?
Learn how to stop worrying about what’s fair and joi...
Ask yourself a few quick questions:
-Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God?
-Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me?
-If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be?
If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God…
There’s a quick fix.
Shift your thinking to trust in Him more! Pray for th...
I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today.
I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God.
Since I’ve made the shift, I feel:
-Much more peace
-Much lighter
-Much more grateful
And, God is blessing me financially as well.
Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much…
And what to do about it…
In today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months.
Today you’ll learn about his story…
And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man…
That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles…
To create BIG transformations in just 31 days.
Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode…
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago.
I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process.
I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way…
And how to accomplish it…
Learn how in today’s episode…
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days,...
Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat.
Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)...
That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)...
And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)...
And let me know how it goes!
Dr. Mike
A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.
That’s when you tell your wife:
-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking
-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling
-You’re right
This causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.
We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:
-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did
-Understand how...
Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by…
Step 1 - Notice the anger
Step 2 - Release the anger
Step 3 - Listen or walk away
Now, try it and see how it goes!
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io
P.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/...
My wife and I got in a fight last night…
And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern…
Creating less safety and closed hearts…
And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy….
Step 1 - Notice the anger
Step 2 - Release the anger
Step 3 - Listen or walk away
Watch on YouTube here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjjxlpDd52A
Dr. ...
So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work.
Instead, try…
Responding with kindness…
Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)...
Or just saying “no.”
And let me know how it goes.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://stro...
When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either…
Get mad back…
Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)...
Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy.
Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy.
Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLco
Dr. Mike
Relationships are built by…
Talking to people
Spending time together
Doing things together
To build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things.
Choose 1 to do this week.
And let me know how it goes.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io
Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage…
Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win…
But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts?
In fact, you just feel resentful?
Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard)
So you can find joy, healing and love NOW in your life and marriage.
Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt.
By you.
Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart.
Apologize.
And stop doing it.
As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart.
Let me know how it goes.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/
Watch on YouTube here.(Lorena new links here)
How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To You
If you feel like roommates in your marriage…
If you’re getting one-word answers from your wife…
If you feel disconnected emotionally and sexually…
Your wife has closed her heart to you.
How do you get it to open back up, so you have the connection, looks of love and physical intimacy you want?
Learn in today’s episode.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages ...
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