Clarity or Chaos: Making the Ultimate Relationship Decision with Mike Fink

About Mike Fink: Mike Fink is a clarity coach, author, and personal development expert with over two decades of experience and a Master of Science in Psychology from Yale University. He is the creator of The Decoding Grid™, a groundbreaking process that helps women struggling with the decision to divorce gain absolute clarity and confidence in just 30 days. Drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience, he guides clients through structured decision-making to overcome fear, guilt, and uncertainty. Since 2021, he has been on a mission to help women break free from indecision and move forward with peace of mind. He is also the author of Divorce Decision Decoded: The Revolutionary Process for Women to Make the Right Decision with Confidence.

In this episode, Brian and Mike Fink discuss: 

• Decision-making in relationships and marriage
• The emotional and psychological toll of indecision
• Understanding and defining essential relationship values
• The importance of external guidance in complex life decisions

Key Takeaways:

• Your primal brain resists change because it perceives maintaining the current situation as the safest option, even if that situation is making you miserable.
• Clarity about essential values helps individuals make confident choices about whether to stay or leave a relationship.
• People must distinguish between “essential” and “optional” needs in a partner to determine if their relationship is sustainable.
• Many people, especially women, stay in relationships believing their partner will eventually change, but long-term fundamental change is rare and unrealistic. 

 "The first step to get clarity is to gather all the pieces of the puzzle—because if you're trying to solve a 1,000-piece jigsaw puzzle with only 200, well... that ain't gonna happen. Most people think they're considering all the relevant elements in their relationship, but they aren't." — Mike Fink

Connect with Mike Fink: 

Website: https://www.getabsoluteclarity.com/

Book: Divorce Decision Decoded: https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Decision-Decoded-Revolutionary-Certainty/dp/1738345726/

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