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In this episode, we explore one of the most common questions submissives ask when starting their journey: “What’s really expected of me?”
We talk about what healthy expectations look like in a D/s relationship—from the early days of self-discovery to building communication with your Dominant. You’ll learn practical ways to define your own boundaries, clarify mutual expectations, and avoid the common traps that lead to confusion or overwhelm.
No one begins submission perfectly. What’s expected of you isn’t a checklist—it’s a process of communication, curiosity, and care. You’re allowed to grow into it at your own pace.
Resources Mentioned
- Journaling Your Submission
- Recommended Reading List for Novices
- FetLife Novices and Newbies Group
- Submissive Guide Discord
- Establishing a Safe Environment to Talk
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