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In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most common—and most misunderstood—pieces of advice given to submissives: “Know your wants and needs.” But what does that really mean, and how do you figure out the difference? You’ll learn how to identify your core needs, why honoring them is essential to a healthy D/s relationship, and what happens when you settle for less than what truly fulfills you.
We’ll also explore common submissive-specific needs, how to communicate them, and how to check in with yourself (and your partner) as those needs evolve. Whether you're new to submission or deepening your dynamic, this episode will help you reflect, realign, and reclaim your right to have your needs met.
📝 Topics covered:
- The difference between wants and need
- Why needs matter more than you think
- How unmet needs impact submission and mental health
- Needs specific to D/s and power exchange
- Why settling is harmful (even if the dynamic feels “good enough”)
- Tools for identifying and ranking your needs
- Reflection prompts and next steps
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