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August 7, 2025 29 mins

What happens when the person you vowed to spend your life with turns out to be living a double life — not in secret affairs, but in hidden abuse?

In this eye-opening episode of Surviving Toxic Relationships, we’re joined by Mia Hanks — a brave survivor who spent 29 years married to a covert narcissist. Behind closed doors, Mia endured years of emotional manipulation and financial control, slowly losing her sense of identity, security, and voice. But today, she’s no longer surviving — she’s thriving.

Mia takes us through her powerful journey of recognizing the red flags, reclaiming her independence, and transforming her pain into purpose through her memoir "Bride Maid."  

Get your copy here!   https://www.amazon.com/Bride-Made-Memoir-Mia-J-Hanks/dp/B0CVC322MF

If you’ve ever questioned the subtle signs of narcissistic abuse or wondered how to support someone trapped in a toxic relationship, this conversation is a must-listen. Get ready for a raw, honest, and empowering discussion that could change the way you see emotional abuse — and maybe even help you or someone you love break free.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

  • The subtle but dangerous emotional red flags of narcissistic abuse
  • Why financial independence is a lifeline for survivors
  • How Mia reclaimed her voice—and how you can too
  • The healing power of storytelling and purpose
  • How to recognize covert narcissism in your own life or help others who may be trapped

💬 Whether you're in a toxic relationship, recovering from one, or supporting someone who is, this conversation is a must-listen.

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