Questions to Ask New Play Partners | Questions for Swingers

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Mizzy Bender discusses the important questions to ask potential new play partners in the swinging lifestyle to avoid awkward or uncomfortable situations. She shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating the lifestyle as a newcomer, and provides a framework for vetting potential partners.

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Questions to Ask Potential Play Partners

1. How long have you been in the lifestyle?
   • Mizzy suggests newer couples (less than a year) may not be as aligned and experienced.
   • This helps gauge their level of understanding and communication as a couple.
2. Whose idea was it to get involved in the lifestyle?
   • Mizzy wants to understand if both partners are equally enthusiastic or if one is just appeasing the other.
3. What are your rules and boundaries?
   • Mizzy prefers not to play with couples who have strict rules like "no kissing", as it doesn't align with her preferences.
   • Discussing rules and boundaries upfront is crucial to avoid uncomfortable situations.
4. What are you looking to get out of the lifestyle?
   • Mizzy emphasizes the importance of both partners being clear on their motivations and desires.
   • If a couple cannot articulate their goals, Missy may be hesitant to engage with them.

Observing Body Language and Interactions

• Mizzy closely observes how potential play partners interact with each other, both online and in-person.
• She looks for signs of alignment, comfort, and mutual enthusiasm, as opposed to one partner seeming disengaged or uncomfortable.
• Mizzy is willing to politely decline play opportunities if she senses any misalignment or discomfort from either party.

Importance of Honesty and Transparency

• Mizzy strongly believes in being open, honest, and transparent about one's needs, boundaries, and experiences in the lifestyle.
• She encourages others to do the same, as it helps build trust and ensures everyone is on the same page.
• Mizzy is not afraid to ask difficult questions or express her feelings, as she believes this is the best way to have fulfilling and drama-free play experiences.

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Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / ENM community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.

Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.