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The morning cast, a warm glow onthe moving truck parked in front
of Lisa's house.
It's sturdy frame a symbol ofnew beginnings.
Lisa stood on the porch amixture of apprehension and
determination etched her face.
As she surveyed the bustlingscene before her Boxes stacked
high.
Furniture being loaded withcare.
(00:27):
And the rhythmic hum of activityin the air.
Taking a deep breath.
These have stepped down from theporch.
And looks down the street andsilently recalls the names of
her neighbors.
The Carmichaels.
The Henrons the Carters.
The Padways the house where thetwin girls live.
Cynthia Clarkston.
(00:49):
Lisa knows all of the neighbors.
And she would miss all of herneighbors.
On Saturday, they had a smallgathering to say goodbye to
Lisa.
Jackson and Ethan and wish themwell and safe travels on their
new beginnings in Texas.
Lisa's heart heavy with theweight of farewells and
anticipation.
For the journey ahead.
(01:10):
As she approached the movingtruck.
Her gaze lingered on each itembeing carefully packed away.
Each memory intertwined with thepromise of a fresh start.
She notices the box of Jacksonand Ethan school legal and
medical records.
She texts the box from thetruck.
And puts it in the car.
This box contains informationthat's far too important to move
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in the back of the truck, drivenby strangers.
Their history is in this box andshe doesn't want it to be too
far from her hands as shetravels across the country.
Her divorce decree.
Jackson's report cards and ofcourse Ethan's diagnosis.
With the box loaded into thetrunk and secured.
Lisa feels a sense of closurewash over her.
(01:53):
It was time to leave behind thepain of the past and embrace the
possibilities of the future.
Lisa has decided to involve theboys in the move from the start.
Believing it will help them feelmore connected to the
transition, empower them with asense of ownership over their
new adventure.
Back inside the house shewatches as they eagerly pack
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their belongings into smallcardboard boxes.
She couldn't help, but smilewith their enthusiasm.
Jackson carefully folded hisfavorite superhero.
T-shirts, his face full ofexcitement.
As he imagines his new room intheir new home.
Ethan ever, they explore back'stoy animals and toy cars
haphazardly into his box.
(02:38):
For Lisa, seeing her sons engagewith this process of packing was
bittersweet.
It was a tangible reminder ofthe resilience.
Of childhood.
The ability to adapt and findjoy and even the most uncertain
of circumstances.
And as you watched them, shefelt a surge of gratitude from
their unwavering optimism.
(02:59):
Their belief that no matterwhere they went, as long as they
were together, everything wouldbe all right.
Lisa gingerly touched thebandages on her chest wincing at
the tenderness.
The memory of Mark Sutton attacksince shivers down her spine,
but she pushed the fear of side.
Focusing instead on the task athand.
(03:19):
with a deep breath, she squaredher shoulders and stepped
outside to check the mailbox onelast time.
As she approached the mailbox.
Lisa's heart raced withanticipation.
Half expecting to see Mark'slooming figure, waiting to
confront her one more time, butthe mailbox stood empty.
The only sound, the faint rustleof leaves in the breeze.
(03:40):
Relief washed over her.
As she turned away, her gazesweeping over the familiar
surroundings of their suburbanneighborhood.
One last time.
We have determination in herstep, Lisa retraced her path
back to the house.
Her mind already focused on thejourney ahead.
She had one final check to makebefore hitting the road, to
their new home in Texas.
Leaving behind the painfulmemories of the past and
(04:02):
embracing the promise of a freshstart.
Now, gonna are are wrong.
They are wrong.
(04:34):
A listner note.
This episode containsdescriptions of violence and
references to assault.
It may not be suitable for ayounger audience.
Its nine months prior to LisaJackson and Ethan relocating to
Texas.
Lisa tells the boys.
That she is going to get themail from the mailbox.
Her mailbox is located down thestreet.
(04:55):
And what is known as clusterboxes.
As she approaches the mailboxes,she sees Mark's truck.
She hopes he's not therestealing her mail again.
It was only a few weeks ago thathe stole all of her mail and had
it returned to sender.
Mark gets out of his truck.
Lisa walks up to the mailbox.
A sense of unease lingering inthe air.
(05:16):
She opens the mailbox and beginsifting through the mail.
Mark asks.
Is there anything for me?
Just bills and junk mail asusual.
Mark.
What are you doing here?
As he's grinning maliciously,just thought I pay my dear wife
visit.
Lisa's heart starts to race asshe backs away slowly.
(05:36):
Her instincts telling hersomething is very wrong.
Mark please.
Just leave me alone.
I'm no longer your wife.
Mark's expression darkens as hetakes a step closer.
Brandishing a knife.
He asked concealed.
You think you can get away fromme that easy.
And take my kids.
Lisa's eyes widen as sherealizes the danger she's in.
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She tries to run, but Marklunges forward grabbing her and
pressing the knife to her chest.
Mark, please stop.
There's a struggle.
And Lisa tries to wrestle theknife away from mark, but he
overpowers her, his griptightening on her arm as he
stabs her.
Hey, Hey, stop.
Lisa here's someone runningtoward them.
She collapses on the sidewalk.
(06:19):
Mark jumps in his truck anddrives away.
Oh, my God.
Are you bleeding?
I'll call for help.
Lisa's breath comes in shortgasp as she fights for her life.
Thankful that someone came toher rescue.
The police arrive before theambulance.
And Lisa asked her neighbor tocall her mom to pick up her
son's.
So they don't have to see her inthis condition.
(06:41):
The knife wounds.
Lisa suffered during the attackwere primarily superficial.
And the lacerations on our armsand hands inflicted as she
attempted to defend herself fromMark's assault, while they were
not life-threatening they werenonetheless painful and required
medical attention to clean anddress properly.
After the attack, Lisa takes thenecessary steps to protect
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herself.
By pressing charges againstmark.
As a result a warrant issued forhis arrest, marking a
significant legal action takento hold him accountable for his
violent behavior.
After the traumatic incident,Lisa is referred to a domestic
violence counselor to help hernavigate the legal proceedings
and provide support during thischallenging time.
(07:25):
This step, not only ensures thatLisa has the necessary resources
to cope with aftermath of theattack, but also emphasizes the
importance of seekingprofessional guidance in cases
of domestic violence.
She has the support of herfamily, but Lisa knows that as
long as mark is alive, she willnever feel safe in her home.
Again.
In the months following theirdivorce Mark ran her off the
(07:45):
road, stolen her mail.
And money busted out her livingroom window.
And now this.
Mark is subsequently arrestedfor his assault.
And he says it only happenedbecause he was high on drugs.
The judge allows him to seekdrug abuse treatment rather than
sending him to prison.
This marks a pivotal moment inLisa's journey, as it signifies
(08:06):
the beginning of realizing thatmark will always create an
excuse to make her lifemiserable.
Lisa is domestic violencecounselor.
As well as the district attorneylet Lisa know that
unfortunately, the outcome ofMarc legal proceedings did not
align with the severity of hisactions, despite the seriousness
of the incident, the legalsystem sometimes falls short in
(08:29):
delivering adequate consequencesfor perpetrators of domestic
violence?
This outcome can bedisheartening for survivors like
Lisa who may feel that down bythe justice systems response to
their trauma.
Lisa's decision to relocatestems from a profound need for
safety and peace, not just forherself, but also for her sons.
Despite the challenges ofuprooting their lives.
(08:51):
Lisa recognizes that it'sessential to prioritize.
Their will being an escape, thecycle of violence and fear that
has plauged their home.
This courageous step towards afresh start demonstrates Lisa's
resilience.
And determination to create abetter future for her family.
Free from the shadow of abuseand insecurity.
As the legal proceedings dragon, entangled in property,
(09:14):
settlements, custody battles,and the aftermath of abuse.
Lisa meticulously plans, herescape.
With each passing day, shenavigates the complex legalities
while simultaneously laying thegroundwork for her newfound
freedom.
Determined to break free fromthe shackles of her past Lisa
meticulously orchestrates herdeparture.
Strategizing every detail toensure the safety and security
(09:38):
of herself and her sons.
Amiss the chaos of courtroomconfrontations, she remained
steadfast.
In her resolve to carve out abrighter future one where she
could finally find peace andsanctuary and no court.
No judge.
No ex-husband will stop her fromprotecting her sons.
Despite the court's disapproval,Lisa forges ahead with her plans
(09:59):
to relocate to Texas.
Undeterred by legal constraints.
With her resolve unshaken, shemakes the bold decision to defy
the courts ruling and embark onher journey towards a new
beginning.
Recognizing that her and herson's wellbeing outweighs the
bureaucratic hurdles standing inher way lisa takes matters into
her own hands.
Determined to chart her own pathto freedom and safety.
(10:21):
As she sets her sights on abrighter future in Texas.
She remained steadfast in hercommitment to create a life
filled with hope, healing andresilience no matter the
obstacles, she may face alongthe way.
It's a hot Monday in Dallas,Texas three months before her
plan move that Lisa signs thelease to their new home.
She patiently waited untilspring break.
When the boys.
(10:42):
were out of school.
So she would not draw anysuspicions from mark or his nosy
friends..
And she Jackson and Ethan flewto Dallas.
And enjoyed a week of planningfun and they even visited a
potential autism center forEthan.
That one of the therapistsrecommended.
Upon her return to SouthernCalifornia.
Lisa kept her head down andnormal routines.
(11:03):
When a survivor of domesticviolence is planning their
escape.
They often experience a mix ofemotions ranging from fear.
And anxiety to hope anddetermination on one hand,
there's their overwhelming fearof retaliation from the abuser
and uncertainty about thefuture.
On the other hand, there's aglimmer of hope for a better
life, a sense of empowerment andtaking control of their
(11:24):
situation.
And relief at the prospect offinally breaking free from the
cycle of abuse.
For Lisa is a complex andemotionally charged process,
marked by both trepidation andcourage as she navigates the
logistics of leaving safely.
While grappling with theemotional aftermath of abuse.
They've endured.
Lisa anxiously waited for theschool year to end before she
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defied everyone and save thelives of her sons and herself.
For students, June often marksthe end of a school year.
And graduation is a time oftransition as students move on
to new chapters in their lives.
That can also be said of Jacksonand Ethan.
Driving to Texas with the boysproved to be an adventure.
Lisa carefully plan theirjourney, packing snacks, games,
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and plenty of entertainment tokeep the boys occupied during
the long drive.
They make frequent stops tostretch their legs, explore new
places and enjoy localattractions along the way.
Despite the occasionalchallenges of traveling with
young children, the trip wasfilled with laughter bonding
moments and the excitement ofstarting a new chapter in their
lives.
As they cross state lines andwatch the landscape change, Lisa
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and her boys felt a sense ofanticipation and hope for the
future awaiting them in Texas.
Lisa Jackson and Ethan settleinto their new home and find
themselves surrounded by awelcoming and inclusive
community that offers friendshipsupport and a sense of belonging
as they embark on a new chapterof their lives.
Lisa rolls Ethan in a schoolwith a robust autism program
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that proves to be pivotaldecision for Lisa and her
family.
Because Lisa thoroughly searchedthe schools in the area
specifically.
Seeking out those with reputableautism programs before moving
and after careful consideration,she selected a school known for
its expertise in supportingchildren with autism spectrum
disorder.
Before enrolling Lisa visitedthe school with Ethan to tour
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the facilities.
And met with the staff.
She was impressed by theschool's welcoming atmosphere,
dedicated teachers andspecialized resources tailored
to meet the unique needs ofstudents with autism.
It was just as a therapist inSouthern California had
described it.
Ethan's transition to the newschool is smooth thanks to the
support and guidance provided bythe school staff.
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They work closely with Lisa.
To develop an individualizededucation plan that addresses
Ethan strengths, challenges, andgoals.
At the new school Ethan hasaccess to a range of specialized
services.
therapies Designed to supporthis academic, social and
emotional development.
This includes speech therapy,occupational therapy, behavioral
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interventions, and social skillstraining, all deliver it with a
supportive and inclusivelearning environment.
For Jackson, Lisa ensures thatthe transition to his new school
in Dallas is as smooth aspossible.
Similar to Ethan school searchLisa carefully researches and
selects a school for Jacksonthat aligns with his educational
needs and preferences.
She considers factors such asacademic programs,
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extracurricular activities andthe school's overall culture and
values.
Jackson's finds himself in asupportive and nurturing school
environment where he quicklyadapts and thrives.
The school provides ampleopportunities for academic
enrichment, creative expressionand personal growth.
Allowing Jackson to explore hisinterests and talents.
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With our sons settle and thrivein their new school environment.
Lisa recognizes the importanceof prioritizing her own
wellbeing and self care afterselling in Texas and ensuring
her son's stability.
Lisa decides to pursue herpassion for helping others.
She secures a job as a caregiverfor individuals with special
needs drawing from her ownexperiences as a mother of a
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child with autism.
Through her work, Lisa discoversa profound sense of fulfillment,
and purpose in making positivedifference in the lives of
others.
As Lisa menses herself in hercaregiving role, she recognizes
the unmet needs within thecommunity of specialized support
services tailored to individualswith autism and their families.
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Inspired by her own journey anddriven by a desire to create
meaningful impact.
Lisa decided to take the leapand start her own business.
drawing on the expertisecompassion and entrepreneurial
spirit.
Lisa founds, a holistic care.
Agency dedicated to providingcomprehensive support services
for individuals with autismspectrum disorder and their
(15:44):
families.
Through her agency, Lisa offersa range of services, including
in home.
Caregiving.
Behavioral therapy, educationalsupport and respite care
designed to enhance the qualityof life and promote wellbeing of
individuals with ASD and theirfamilies.
With a deep commitment tofostering supportive and
inclusive community.
This is agency becomes a beaconof hope and empowerment for
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families affected by autism.
Offering a lifeline of support,resources and advocacy.
Through her dedication andvision.
Lisa not only transforms thelandscape of autism care in her
community, but she also createsa legacy.
Of compassion, understanding andpositive change for generations
to come.
(16:26):
Now, gonna are are wrong.
They are wrong.
(16:57):
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It can compel us to confront ourdeepest fears, navigate
unchartered territory.
And discover a newfoundstrengths and resilience within
ourselves.
While the path may be uncertainand fraught with obstacles.
(17:18):
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Ultimately, a diagnosis servesas a catalyst for change.
Propelling us toward newbeginnings, unforeseen
possibilities.
And the profound realizationthat our greatest strength lies
in our ability to adapt, evolveand embrace the journey,
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The morning cast, a warm glow onthe moving truck parked in front
of Lisa's house.
It's sturdy frame a symbol ofnew beginnings.
Lisa stood on the porch amixture of apprehension and
determination etched her face.
As she surveyed the bustlingscene before her Boxes stacked
high.
Furniture being loaded withcare.
(00:27):
And the rhythmic hum of activityin the air.
Taking a deep breath.
These have stepped down from theporch.
And looks down the street andsilently recalls the names of
her neighbors.
The Carmichaels.
The Henrons the Carters.
The Padways the house where thetwin girls live.
Cynthia Clarkston.
(00:49):
Lisa knows all of the neighbors.
And she would miss all of herneighbors.
On Saturday, they had a smallgathering to say goodbye to
Lisa.
Jackson and Ethan and wish themwell and safe travels on their
new beginnings in Texas.
Lisa's heart heavy with theweight of farewells and
anticipation.
For the journey ahead.
(01:10):
As she approached the movingtruck.
Her gaze lingered on each itembeing carefully packed away.
Each memory intertwined with thepromise of a fresh start.
She notices the box of Jacksonand Ethan school legal and
medical records.
She texts the box from thetruck.
And puts it in the car.
This box contains informationthat's far too important to move
(01:32):
in the back of the truck, drivenby strangers.
Their history is in this box andshe doesn't want it to be too
far from her hands as shetravels across the country.
Her divorce decree.
Jackson's report cards and ofcourse Ethan's diagnosis.
With the box loaded into thetrunk and secured.
Lisa feels a sense of closurewash over her.
(01:53):
It was time to leave behind thepain of the past and embrace the
possibilities of the future.
Lisa has decided to involve theboys in the move from the start.
Believing it will help them feelmore connected to the
transition, empower them with asense of ownership over their
new adventure.
Back inside the house shewatches as they eagerly pack
(02:16):
their belongings into smallcardboard boxes.
She couldn't help, but smilewith their enthusiasm.
Jackson carefully folded hisfavorite superhero.
T-shirts, his face full ofexcitement.
As he imagines his new room intheir new home.
Ethan ever, they explore back'stoy animals and toy cars
haphazardly into his box.
(02:38):
For Lisa, seeing her sons engagewith this process of packing was
bittersweet.
It was a tangible reminder ofthe resilience.
Of childhood.
The ability to adapt and findjoy and even the most uncertain
of circumstances.
And as you watched them, shefelt a surge of gratitude from
their unwavering optimism.
(02:59):
Their belief that no matterwhere they went, as long as they
were together, everything wouldbe all right.
Lisa gingerly touched thebandages on her chest wincing at
the tenderness.
The memory of Mark Sutton attacksince shivers down her spine,
but she pushed the fear of side.
Focusing instead on the task athand.
(03:19):
with a deep breath, she squaredher shoulders and stepped
outside to check the mailbox onelast time.
As she approached the mailbox.
Lisa's heart raced withanticipation.
Half expecting to see Mark'slooming figure, waiting to
confront her one more time, butthe mailbox stood empty.
The only sound, the faint rustleof leaves in the breeze.
(03:40):
Relief washed over her.
As she turned away, her gazesweeping over the familiar
surroundings of their suburbanneighborhood.
One last time.
We have determination in herstep, Lisa retraced her path
back to the house.
Her mind already focused on thejourney ahead.
She had one final check to makebefore hitting the road, to
their new home in Texas.
Leaving behind the painfulmemories of the past and
(04:02):
embracing the promise of a freshstart.
Now, gonna are are wrong.
They are wrong.
(04:34):
A listner note.
This episode containsdescriptions of violence and
references to assault.
It may not be suitable for ayounger audience.
Its nine months prior to LisaJackson and Ethan relocating to
Texas.
Lisa tells the boys.
That she is going to get themail from the mailbox.
Her mailbox is located down thestreet.
(04:55):
And what is known as clusterboxes.
As she approaches the mailboxes,she sees Mark's truck.
She hopes he's not therestealing her mail again.
It was only a few weeks ago thathe stole all of her mail and had
it returned to sender.
Mark gets out of his truck.
Lisa walks up to the mailbox.
A sense of unease lingering inthe air.
(05:16):
She opens the mailbox and beginsifting through the mail.
Mark asks.
Is there anything for me?
Just bills and junk mail asusual.
Mark.
What are you doing here?
As he's grinning maliciously,just thought I pay my dear wife
visit.
Lisa's heart starts to race asshe backs away slowly.
(05:36):
Her instincts telling hersomething is very wrong.
Mark please.
Just leave me alone.
I'm no longer your wife.
Mark's expression darkens as hetakes a step closer.
Brandishing a knife.
He asked concealed.
You think you can get away fromme that easy.
And take my kids.
Lisa's eyes widen as sherealizes the danger she's in.
(05:58):
She tries to run, but Marklunges forward grabbing her and
pressing the knife to her chest.
Mark, please stop.
There's a struggle.
And Lisa tries to wrestle theknife away from mark, but he
overpowers her, his griptightening on her arm as he
stabs her.
Hey, Hey, stop.
Lisa here's someone runningtoward them.
She collapses on the sidewalk.
(06:19):
Mark jumps in his truck anddrives away.
Oh, my God.
Are you bleeding?
I'll call for help.
Lisa's breath comes in shortgasp as she fights for her life.
Thankful that someone came toher rescue.
The police arrive before theambulance.
And Lisa asked her neighbor tocall her mom to pick up her
son's.
So they don't have to see her inthis condition.
(06:41):
The knife wounds.
Lisa suffered during the attackwere primarily superficial.
And the lacerations on our armsand hands inflicted as she
attempted to defend herself fromMark's assault, while they were
not life-threatening they werenonetheless painful and required
medical attention to clean anddress properly.
After the attack, Lisa takes thenecessary steps to protect
(07:02):
herself.
By pressing charges againstmark.
As a result a warrant issued forhis arrest, marking a
significant legal action takento hold him accountable for his
violent behavior.
After the traumatic incident,Lisa is referred to a domestic
violence counselor to help hernavigate the legal proceedings
and provide support during thischallenging time.
(07:25):
This step, not only ensures thatLisa has the necessary resources
to cope with aftermath of theattack, but also emphasizes the
importance of seekingprofessional guidance in cases
of domestic violence.
She has the support of herfamily, but Lisa knows that as
long as mark is alive, she willnever feel safe in her home.
Again.
In the months following theirdivorce Mark ran her off the
(07:45):
road, stolen her mail.
And money busted out her livingroom window.
And now this.
Mark is subsequently arrestedfor his assault.
And he says it only happenedbecause he was high on drugs.
The judge allows him to seekdrug abuse treatment rather than
sending him to prison.
This marks a pivotal moment inLisa's journey, as it signifies
(08:06):
the beginning of realizing thatmark will always create an
excuse to make her lifemiserable.
Lisa is domestic violencecounselor.
As well as the district attorneylet Lisa know that
unfortunately, the outcome ofMarc legal proceedings did not
align with the severity of hisactions, despite the seriousness
of the incident, the legalsystem sometimes falls short in
(08:29):
delivering adequate consequencesfor perpetrators of domestic
violence?
This outcome can bedisheartening for survivors like
Lisa who may feel that down bythe justice systems response to
their trauma.
Lisa's decision to relocatestems from a profound need for
safety and peace, not just forherself, but also for her sons.
Despite the challenges ofuprooting their lives.
(08:51):
Lisa recognizes that it'sessential to prioritize.
Their will being an escape, thecycle of violence and fear that
has plauged their home.
This courageous step towards afresh start demonstrates Lisa's
resilience.
And determination to create abetter future for her family.
Free from the shadow of abuseand insecurity.
As the legal proceedings dragon, entangled in property,
(09:14):
settlements, custody battles,and the aftermath of abuse.
Lisa meticulously plans, herescape.
With each passing day, shenavigates the complex legalities
while simultaneously laying thegroundwork for her newfound
freedom.
Determined to break free fromthe shackles of her past Lisa
meticulously orchestrates herdeparture.
Strategizing every detail toensure the safety and security
(09:38):
of herself and her sons.
Amiss the chaos of courtroomconfrontations, she remained
steadfast.
In her resolve to carve out abrighter future one where she
could finally find peace andsanctuary and no court.
No judge.
No ex-husband will stop her fromprotecting her sons.
Despite the court's disapproval,Lisa forges ahead with her plans
(09:59):
to relocate to Texas.
Undeterred by legal constraints.
With her resolve unshaken, shemakes the bold decision to defy
the courts ruling and embark onher journey towards a new
beginning.
Recognizing that her and herson's wellbeing outweighs the
bureaucratic hurdles standing inher way lisa takes matters into
her own hands.
Determined to chart her own pathto freedom and safety.
(10:21):
As she sets her sights on abrighter future in Texas.
She remained steadfast in hercommitment to create a life
filled with hope, healing andresilience no matter the
obstacles, she may face alongthe way.
It's a hot Monday in Dallas,Texas three months before her
plan move that Lisa signs thelease to their new home.
She patiently waited untilspring break.
When the boys.
(10:42):
were out of school.
So she would not draw anysuspicions from mark or his nosy
friends..
And she Jackson and Ethan flewto Dallas.
And enjoyed a week of planningfun and they even visited a
potential autism center forEthan.
That one of the therapistsrecommended.
Upon her return to SouthernCalifornia.
Lisa kept her head down andnormal routines.
(11:03):
When a survivor of domesticviolence is planning their
escape.
They often experience a mix ofemotions ranging from fear.
And anxiety to hope anddetermination on one hand,
there's their overwhelming fearof retaliation from the abuser
and uncertainty about thefuture.
On the other hand, there's aglimmer of hope for a better
life, a sense of empowerment andtaking control of their
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situation.
And relief at the prospect offinally breaking free from the
cycle of abuse.
For Lisa is a complex andemotionally charged process,
marked by both trepidation andcourage as she navigates the
logistics of leaving safely.
While grappling with theemotional aftermath of abuse.
They've endured.
Lisa anxiously waited for theschool year to end before she
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defied everyone and save thelives of her sons and herself.
For students, June often marksthe end of a school year.
And graduation is a time oftransition as students move on
to new chapters in their lives.
That can also be said of Jacksonand Ethan.
Driving to Texas with the boysproved to be an adventure.
Lisa carefully plan theirjourney, packing snacks, games,
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and plenty of entertainment tokeep the boys occupied during
the long drive.
They make frequent stops tostretch their legs, explore new
places and enjoy localattractions along the way.
Despite the occasionalchallenges of traveling with
young children, the trip wasfilled with laughter bonding
moments and the excitement ofstarting a new chapter in their
lives.
As they cross state lines andwatch the landscape change, Lisa
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and her boys felt a sense ofanticipation and hope for the
future awaiting them in Texas.
Lisa Jackson and Ethan settleinto their new home and find
themselves surrounded by awelcoming and inclusive
community that offers friendshipsupport and a sense of belonging
as they embark on a new chapterof their lives.
Lisa rolls Ethan in a schoolwith a robust autism program
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that proves to be pivotaldecision for Lisa and her
family.
Because Lisa thoroughly searchedthe schools in the area
specifically.
Seeking out those with reputableautism programs before moving
and after careful consideration,she selected a school known for
its expertise in supportingchildren with autism spectrum
disorder.
Before enrolling Lisa visitedthe school with Ethan to tour
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the facilities.
And met with the staff.
She was impressed by theschool's welcoming atmosphere,
dedicated teachers andspecialized resources tailored
to meet the unique needs ofstudents with autism.
It was just as a therapist inSouthern California had
described it.
Ethan's transition to the newschool is smooth thanks to the
support and guidance provided bythe school staff.
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They work closely with Lisa.
To develop an individualizededucation plan that addresses
Ethan strengths, challenges, andgoals.
At the new school Ethan hasaccess to a range of specialized
services.
therapies Designed to supporthis academic, social and
emotional development.
This includes speech therapy,occupational therapy, behavioral
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interventions, and social skillstraining, all deliver it with a
supportive and inclusivelearning environment.
For Jackson, Lisa ensures thatthe transition to his new school
in Dallas is as smooth aspossible.
Similar to Ethan school searchLisa carefully researches and
selects a school for Jacksonthat aligns with his educational
needs and preferences.
She considers factors such asacademic programs,
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extracurricular activities andthe school's overall culture and
values.
Jackson's finds himself in asupportive and nurturing school
environment where he quicklyadapts and thrives.
The school provides ampleopportunities for academic
enrichment, creative expressionand personal growth.
Allowing Jackson to explore hisinterests and talents.
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With our sons settle and thrivein their new school environment.
Lisa recognizes the importanceof prioritizing her own
wellbeing and self care afterselling in Texas and ensuring
her son's stability.
Lisa decides to pursue herpassion for helping others.
She secures a job as a caregiverfor individuals with special
needs drawing from her ownexperiences as a mother of a
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child with autism.
Through her work, Lisa discoversa profound sense of fulfillment,
and purpose in making positivedifference in the lives of
others.
As Lisa menses herself in hercaregiving role, she recognizes
the unmet needs within thecommunity of specialized support
services tailored to individualswith autism and their families.
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Inspired by her own journey anddriven by a desire to create
meaningful impact.
Lisa decided to take the leapand start her own business.
drawing on the expertisecompassion and entrepreneurial
spirit.
Lisa founds, a holistic care.
Agency dedicated to providingcomprehensive support services
for individuals with autismspectrum disorder and their
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families.
Through her agency, Lisa offersa range of services, including
in home.
Caregiving.
Behavioral therapy, educationalsupport and respite care
designed to enhance the qualityof life and promote wellbeing of
individuals with ASD and theirfamilies.
With a deep commitment tofostering supportive and
inclusive community.
This is agency becomes a beaconof hope and empowerment for
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families affected by autism.
Offering a lifeline of support,resources and advocacy.
Through her dedication andvision.
Lisa not only transforms thelandscape of autism care in her
community, but she also createsa legacy.
Of compassion, understanding andpositive change for generations
to come.
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Now, gonna are are wrong.
They are wrong.
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A diagnosis has a power toredefine our lives.
Sending us on unexpectedjourneys, fill it with
challenges, growth, andtransformation.
It can compel us to confront ourdeepest fears, navigate
unchartered territory.
And discover a newfoundstrengths and resilience within
ourselves.
While the path may be uncertainand fraught with obstacles.
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It also offers opportunities forhealing, self discovery, and
profound personal growth.
Ultimately, a diagnosis servesas a catalyst for change.
Propelling us toward newbeginnings, unforeseen
possibilities.
And the profound realizationthat our greatest strength lies
in our ability to adapt, evolveand embrace the journey,
wherever it may lead.
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Are you interested in learningmore about autism?
We recommend autism speaks aleading autism advocacy
organization offeringcomprehensive.
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Resources research updates andsupport for individuals with
autism and their families.
We also recommend the centersfor disease control and
prevention.
They provide reliableinformation about autism
spectrum disorder, includingstatistics, diagnosis.
And treatment options.
Additionally, we recommend thenational Institute for
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neurological disorders andstroke.
They offer an in depthinformation about the latest
research and scientificadvancements related to autism.
And neurological disorders.
Also the autism society andnonprofit organization dedicated
to improving the lives ofindividuals with autism, through
advocacy, support, andeducation.
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Their website provides valuableresources and information for
families.
Affected by autism.
The one that we recommend themost.
Your local autism support groupsand organizations.
Many communities have localsupport groups and organizations
that offer workshops, seminars,and resources for individuals
and families affected by autism.
These groups can providevaluable support.
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And connect you with others whomay understand your experiences.
By accessing information fromreputable sources, you can gain
a better understanding of autismand access resources to support
individuals with autism andtheir families.
Please note that this episodefeatures reenactments and
dramatize details.
While in most cases, the exactverbatim dialogue may not be
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known.
Oh, dramatizations are groundedin research.
To respect the privacy andconfidentiality of of
individuals involved names andsome identifying details have
been changed.
Do you have an interestingcaregiver story that you would
like to have told?
Please email us atpodcast@takecaretime.com we
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