Talk Deathy to Me

Returning to work after a loss can feel disorienting and surreal. In this episode, Kaylee and Sheila talk about the shock of stepping back into routines, expectations, and productivity while grief is still raw. They explore the pressure to perform, the quiet ways grief shows up at work, and why it’s okay if loss changes how you move through your professional life.

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At the end of life, people don’t only wrestle with big existential questions. They worry about unfinished chores, awkward conversations, pets, plants, and small loose ends that still matter deeply. In this episode, Kaylee and Sheila explore the everyday concerns that show up near death, and why paying attention to these “small” worries can be one of the most meaningful ways to care for someone at the end of life.

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What does dying really feel like in the body? In this episode, Kaylee and Sheila talk about the physical and emotional changes that often happen near the end of life — the slowing down, the turning inward, the gradual letting go. Drawing from lived experience and end-of-life work, they explore how death is often gentler than we’re taught to expect, and why it can be harder on the people watching than on the person who is dying.

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This episode is for the adult kids quietly worrying — and the aging parents who still feel capable, even as living alone gets more complicated. Kaylee, Sheila, and Kelsey talk about the moment families realize home may no longer be the safest option, and why waiting for a crisis takes choice away from everyone. Drawing from Kaylee’s experience in nursing homes, they share real tools, honest stories, and practical language for start...

Today, Kaylee, Sheila, and Kelsey dive into listener-submitted stories about grief, loss, and the complicated emotions that follow. Together, they unpack real situations where mourning intersects with messy human behavior — and help determine whether the storyteller is the a**hole. Our hosts offer gentle guidance, tough love when needed, and a safe space for listeners to reflect on their own grief-driven choices.

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Dating after loss is… complicated. Some people feel ready. Some people swear they’ll never date again. And some of us are just trying to figure out why the apps look like a yard sale of red flags.

In Dating Again: Yes, No, or Hell No, Sheila opens up the real conversation about what it means to tiptoe, leap, or run-screaming back into the world of dating after losing a spouse. With humor, honesty, and a whole lot of “you can’t make ...

Once meant to heal, these asylums became places of silence, suffering and forgotten souls. From unmarked graves that still rest beneath the earth to echoes of voices unheard. We explore the tragic history and talk about the emotional imprint these hospitals left behind.

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The holidays are supposed to be merry and bright, but what happens when they're not? In this episode Sheila and Kaylee talk about the quiet ache that comes with grief during the holidays season. From empty chairs to traditions that feel different now, they offer comfort, perspective, and gentle ways to honor both love and loss. This isn't about pretending to be okay, it's about finding small moments of peace in a season that can fe...

In a world that never stops talking, what can silence teach us? Kaylee and Sheila explore how quiet moments can become spaces for healing, reflection, and reconnection—with ourselves and others. When was the last time you truly listened to the silence?

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Kaylee brings forward an idea — grieving the other versions of ourselves. The lives we might’ve lived if we’d made different choices, taken other jobs, stayed, left, or said yes instead of no. It sparks an open conversation about how we all carry those “what ifs.” Kaylee and Kelsey realize just how differently they each think about paths not taken, while Sheila reflects on raising three children who grew into such distinct people —...

What can autumn teach us about grief, change, and letting go? The Talk Deathy to Me team reflects on the season’s lessons — release, rest, and renewal.

As the leaves begin to fall, nature reminds us that letting go can be its own kind of grace. In this episode, Sheila helps us explore autumn as a quiet teacher — one that shows us how to release, rest, and find beauty in transition. From the gentle surrender of trees to the sacred st...

Trigger Warning: This episode includes sensitive themes related to grief, loss, and emotional well-being.

Not all grief is seen. Some losses are deeply felt but quietly dismissed — relationships that didn’t have a title, people we weren’t “supposed” to love, lives that ended before they began, or even the versions of ourselves we’ve had to leave behind.

In this episode, we explore disenfranchised grief — the kind that isn’t always ab...

What if a lake monster wasn’t something to fear—but something that watches over the dead? In this episode, Talk Deathy To Me looks at Champ, the legendary creature said to inhabit Lake Champlain, through the lens of death, memory, and protection.

Creature or legend, Champ has been part of regional folklore for centuries. But unlike typical monster stories, some traditions—especially Indigenous Abenaki beliefs—frame the lake and its ...

In this episode, we dive into the real-life accounts of animals who seemed to sense death coming long before any human could. There’s Oscar the Cat, who curled up beside nursing home patients in Rhode Island—and was almost never wrong about who was about to die. Dogs who jolted their owners awake moments before fatal heart attacks. Pets who discovered hidden cancers, years before doctors could. And the science (and mystery) behind ...

Inspired by a listener’s comment, we dive into the strange world of posthumous marriage—when “I do” happens after death. Sheila explores the tragedy of loved ones lost too soon, the cultural roots of this practice in China, Sudan, France, India, and even America, and why these unions exist at all. Kaylee reminds us to not judge with the “don’t yuck someone’s yum” approach, while Kelsey can’t help but question if some of these marri...

The process of diagnosing cancer is never straightforward—it’s a mix of medical steps, emotional weight, and the unknown. Sheila outlines how it unfolded when her husband was diagnosed, giving listeners an intimate view of the waiting, testing, and results. Kaylee grounds the conversation with clear explanations of the medical reality, walking through symptoms, scans, and what patients and families can expect. And Kelsey throws in ...

They say you die when your body dies, then again when the last person speaks your name. It is the five year anniversary of Shane’s death, and this week’s episode is full of memories, laughter, a few tears, and of course, moments of “I wonder what he’d say”. 

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