September 3, 2023 • 53 mins
Kacey takes a few rounds practicing degrading Tosin with some sage words of wisdom from the kink oracle
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Well, well, well, go ahead and open up your ears,
your mind and whatever else youneed.
You're listening to Talk DirtyTo Me.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Hello all you sexy beasts and welcome back to Talk
Dirty To Me, the podcast wherefour friends with four different
perspectives talk dirty to oneanother.
And today we have TosinAoufesso, your kink oracle.
Ahoy, you have me.
Casey, your neighborhoodneighborhood, your neighborhood
Femme, dom Femme.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Dom.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
I got it.
I got there.
Stephanie Slayton, our queen ofspankles, will be joining us
shortly and Sarah Marie is outbecause her husband's birthday
was today.
So Tosin and I are going to getus started, and we were just
having a really lovelyconversation about lingerie and
he noticed that, on FetLife,lingerie as a kink is what was.
It was more popular than youexpected.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah, number nine and I was like.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I mean, I get nine out of what like nine out of all
of them.
Oh, like literally on theinfinite list of kinks on
FetLife lingerie is number nine.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Yeah, nine, nine.
Most amount of people haveadded lingerie as their king.
I see oral sex being number one, which makes sense.
That's a good one.
Hair pulling is number two.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Number five, number five, oh it goes that way
Bondage, oral sex, bondage,spanking, anal sex, hair pulling
, toys, talking dirty.
Oh, ladies and gentlemen, hereshe is, the queen of spankles,
stephanie Slayton.
The crowd goes wild.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Tosin and.
I were just having a discussionbefore we started recording
that.
I insist, we started recordingon about lingerie because
apparently it is the number nineon.
The most most popular kink onFetLife is lingerie.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Oral sex.
So is that them in order Oralsex bondage, spanking, anal sex
hair pulling toys talking dirty.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
The third most popular one Blindfolds, lingerie
, breast, nipple play, handcuffs, biting ass play, sex and
public discipline, mutualmasturbation, role play, collar
and lead slash leash,masturbation, candle wax that's
the first 20.
Some of these I wonder ifthey're really kinks Like is
masturbation a kink?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I mean, it depends on how you do it.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
But how would masturbation be a kink?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
People like people do like to like watch others
masturbate, so would that bewhat they were talking about?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Wouldn't that be voyeurism?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yeah, I, I'm trying to think.
I mean, like if you masturbatepreferable to like sex, I guess
that would make it kinky, like Iprefer to masturbate than to
other sexual activity.
That will make it kinky.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
But like the things that, the ones that surprise me
is like there are so manyspanking ones.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Like I don't think.
I thought I was weirdo, I'm sonormal 1,427,000 people agree.
That's just on FetLife.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, and like that's not including the 590 for bare
bottom spanking, 596 for barehanded spanking.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Hold on, I'm going to read the 6700 for discipline.
I'm going to read the next set.
Oh, did I miss discipline.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I did text.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Oh, okay.
So after that, according toFetLife, the next most popular
ones are rough sex, face fucking, domination, deep throating,
multiple orgasms Is that afennel?
Bare bottom, spanking,threesomes, kissing Is that a
fetish?
Gang bangs, bare handedspanking, cuddles, erotic
(03:36):
photography, master slash, slave, butt plugs, vibrators, rimming
, exhibitionism, dildos, makinghome movies, strap ons I'm not
sure kissing can be a fetish.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
That's why I'm dubious about this list.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
It's just like naming things.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I mean it's just, it's just organized by whether
you add how many people haveadded this kink to their profile
, so like there's not a vettingsystem.
But I mean like that's some,it's valuable information that
like more than this people.
But I agree, like I wouldn'tsay I wouldn't call cuddles
being a fetish.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
No cuddles or kissing , it's more.
It's more like a fetish.
If you don't like kissing, yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Or or I guess, or I guess or kissing makes you come,
I guess.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
That would be a feat or guys are from makeouts.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Wow yeah, insane.
Anyways, we were talking aboutlingerie.
Orgasming from makeouts Is yournew life goal?
Like with or without rubbing.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Just get immaculate, immaculate orgasms from kissing.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
I love it no no, no hand stuff.
My movie.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Is it where, josh?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Hartnett.
Josh Hartnett just makes a girlcome.
I think he's just rubbing aflower.
She's fully clothed.
What is that movie?
40 days and 40 nights.
Maybe because he's given up sexman, maybe I'm way off, but he
literally it's just energy andshe has an orgasm.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, 40 days and 40 nights.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I would like that that would be, great man I.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I don't know of a like mainstream movie that I've
masturbated two more than 40days and 40 nights.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Really, you really have to watch this movie.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
There's a lot in it.
That's just was hot to me atthe time.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
It's such an like early 2000s film.
I bet it's got 26% on rottentomatoes.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Okay, so we were talking about lingerie because
that is apparently very popular.
I know several people that arereally into lingerie as a fetish
and I love that.
I would like to find a manthat's super into lingerie as a
fetish because it's glorious.
But, tosen, you were saying Iwas saying that there's this
like it's ridiculous, becausethere's this $1,000 bordello
dress that I covet but I can'tbring myself to get it because
(05:44):
it's $1,000.
And then you outed.
You said that you bought an$1,100 corset for a partner.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Did, I did find a $1,100.
Well, I'm buying, I'm paying inpayments, yeah, so what?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
inspired this purchase for her them.
They wanted it.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
So it was.
It was the first time I wentwith to to Imzel the
international Miss Boo Black andLeather one, and so they had
like a vendor station and acustom court.
Leather corset making shopcalled Dark Garden was selling
like custom corsets and so theygot fitted for one and we're
like daddy can I have it?
(06:18):
Can I have it?
I'm like yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Whoa.
So it's just, they just askedfor it and you got it for them.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That was like it was also pretty to remember the trip
Like I was, like they knew,like I was, like I'm coming to
the trip with this amount ofmoney, you know you can have
whatever you want until I don'thave it anymore.
And so though, since they hadpayment plans for it, it was
like fine.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
What was the amount of money that you came there
ready to spend on her?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
2K.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
What.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
What yeah, On top of the that's after registration in
the hotels and stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So do you love this?
Do you love like was it a daddyrelationship and you love
providing like that, like youthink it's sexy and fun, just to
be like, let me shower you withthings.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
It's, it is a.
It is a grand time.
Yeah, I, I think it's great.
You know, in in like caregivingsituations, it's just fun to
like make someone that happy andlike get them the whatever they
want.
Like that's just fun to do.
And I'm I'm in a situation nowwhere it's like, if I plan for
it, I can do Princess days orball outrageous.
(07:21):
But yeah, no, I'd love it.
You know, I generally enjoymaking people happy.
Like you know, pleasuringpeople has always been the
center of what all of my kinksare.
In general, though, I have beenlike super jamming, discipline
and degradation, which has lessto do with making people happy.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
But I like it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
They like it too, which is I wouldn't really enjoy
it if it is something that theydon't enjoy in real life yeah.
But yeah, yeah it's.
It's fun to make people happyin our cards.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
That's so cool.
I love that for her.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Listen the amount of subs that you're gathering,
casey somebody will one of themis going to be like take all my
money.
Where are the things?
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I hope so.
That would be amazing.
Speaking of subs, so I havethis gentleman who has asked me
to pee on him.
I mentioned that right, pee andspit, and I have been.
People of late have beenshocked at how kind I am.
I've gotten that comment a lotrecently, and twice from subs,
which makes me think I'm doingit wrong.
(08:23):
So I decided with this one thatI'm going to not be my usual
self when he comes over.
Maybe you guys can help mebrainstorm.
Like I think it would be weirdfor me to have him come in and
be like hello, how are you, takeoff your pants, here's a
Toronto pepper.
Like right, but like just be acompletely different person when
he comes into the room, who isa degrader and just kind of an
(08:43):
asshole, I don't, instead ofbeing like here's the pool, get
out of there, I'm going to peeon you.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Yeah, no, I support that wholly, I think because you
were conversed enough.
That's probably something he'dlove.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I think so.
Yeah, I'm trying to get on aphone call with him.
I have been a bad communicatorwith him lately, unintentionally
, and I think that if I couldchat about it with him that we
would probably have a reallygreat conversation.
However, beyond spitting andpeeing, I didn't know, like
Tosemite, you have some hot tipson degradation and like what
else can go into a session likethat.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Yeah, so there's.
There's usually two lines fordegradation, so picking the like
version of it that you want isgood.
So there's like humiliation,which is like the way that I'm
degrading you is by making youdo humiliating things for my own
amusement, right?
So that's like go lick toiletseats, go stand with your butt
(09:36):
in the air outside, you know,wear this outfit that makes you
look silly, and then just liketaking pleasure in humiliating
them.
And then there's thedegradation form.
That's like telling the personthat they're worthless, right,
which is the one I enjoyreceiving.
So those are along the lines oflike you know, you're less than
human.
I'd never pay attention to you.
(09:56):
There's no reason for you tolike if you want a part of my
body, so bad, the only thingyou're going to get is my spit
and urine.
You stupid little small cockedidiot like those type of that
type of stuff.
And so, you know, one of thethings that I say to people all
the time is I was like if you'researching for what to say, like
, if you're like I don't knowwhat to say, just you know, give
yourself the freedom to say thethings that you held back to
(10:21):
someone you are upset with,right, like take.
Try to find one of thosememories where it's like.
You know, it's like man.
If I wasn't a nice person, Iwould have said XYZ.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
What a fucking waste of time you are.
That's all I got, but go harder, harder, go harder.
I'm really honest with youright now, your penis is really
dissatisfying.
I've been disappointed thiswhole time.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
I mean, it's still like nice.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
What have you ever watched?
Have you ever like watched Domlike porn?
No, but I also think it's alittle cheesy.
It is, as is most porn.
At the same time it can giveyou ideas and then you can go in
there with your actingabilities and make them more
real.
But you can get the idea oflike phrasing.
I think phrasing for most kinks, most kinks have like some kind
(11:08):
of triggering phrase that aremultiple different ones and you
know, then you would just kindof tailor it to that person,
like go to their profile and seefetishes and turn on, we'll
have things like in the spangoworld, like do you need a
spanking young lady?
Like that would be like a kink,like that's like a phrase that
like a lot of people would.
Or young man.
(11:29):
You can switch them out, but Ijust think you could get like
ideas from that too.
That's true.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Okay, what about this ?
How embarrassing for you to benaked in front of me right now.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
It's good, it's good.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
You're still the like gentle, like you're going to
kill someone by screaching, whatam I supposed to?
Speaker 1 (11:48):
do Screech.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
What Yell at them.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Yeah, it depends, right, like I don't mind, I am a
calm Dom as well, like I muchprefer being like sit down, and
I hope I don't have to repeatmyself again type of domination
over you mother Like yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Like that doesn't feel as I'd rather be silent and
commanding yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I think the thing that you'll find like easy to
latch onto is like you're not.
You're not worth my presenceand attention.
And then just like coloringthat and I'm like like what made
you think that you couldrequest this of me?
Like why do you think thatyou're worthy of my attention?
You don't have this.
You can't do this.
I was not able to do this and Iwas like look, do you think
(12:39):
it's possible, with a cock thatsmall, to please someone of my
caliber?
Let alone, anybody at all.
And I was like is that what youthought was going to happen.
If you want to be anywhere nearmy vagina, you know what?
You can just have my urine anda hope and pray one day that
you'll be able to, like getanywhere near it, you know,
bottle that up and smell it,because with the pathetic way
(12:59):
that you are right, like that.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Dose it Dang yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I peruse a couple of degradation reddits and that's
how I get that out sometimes.
So I help out the lady becauseI'm lyrically gifted.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
That was good.
I like that.
You think you can please awoman of my caliber with a penis
that tiny.
How embarrassing for you.
I was going to be fun.
I can't wait.
So embarrassing for you.
I bet women laugh at you.
I do.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
And usually if you're in the situation, it depends on
who it is, but if you're inthat situation like, the person
will respond right.
So as they respond, it helpsyou dig deeper.
Like just being like I usually.
I usually go for either beg orfawn if I'm being on the
recipient end, so I'll.
I'll either be like I was likewell, I'll do anything, I'll go
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get something to make my penisbigger, like whatever you need,
or I'll be like, yeah, you'reright, I am pathetic, and so
that helps encourage likedigging for it.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Because the one that's wanting the spitting in
the urine Casey is.
Does he like pain as well, ordoes he just like degradation?
Speaker 2 (14:04):
I mean he's into a little bit of pain, because I've
spanked him a few times and hewas like oh, I like that, but
he's not super into pain.
Anyways, so spitting, slapping,peeing, degrading, I think
it'll be really fun.
I wish I could take adegradation class.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Well I mean look you practice on me, I'll come over.
You can say mean shit to me.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Okay, you can say mean shit to me, casey, it's
going to be a really nice meanshit.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Ah, I mean, that's the fun.
Actually, the fun part for me,like especially when I do it
with people that I know isbecause I really like watching
the journey of like them sinkinglike into their fiend.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Into their fiend yeah .
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Because it, like almost every degradation scene
that I have been on thereceiving end in you know,
starts with and I was likeyou're pitiful, look at you,
you're you'll never please awoman I don't like even like.
Looking at you and you can seethem like the cracks start to
like fall off and then they likeget into it and they like they
(15:09):
go to this interesting, powerfulplace and by the end of it
they're saying awful things andit's so, so good, Right, and I
love watching that happen.
And I also think it's likereally, really intimate,
especially when it's like peoplelike you and I we've been
friends forever, we love eachother, it's perfectly where we
(15:31):
would never say mean things toeach other at all, and the
amount of trust that's requiredto get to the place where you're
saying things to me that areawful is like really intimate.
It's like a lot of trust isthere.
It's like a really deep thingto pull off, to be like we trust
each other, to like get to adark shadow, we place a humanity
(15:51):
and dance around in it.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
I feel like it's very fun.
First of all, can you take itoff?
Shared screen.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Oh yes, it's also making me think too, casey, of
like I'm thinking of twodifferent people right now, and
let's say they were intodegradation.
Like, let's say, casey, therewas a way for you to like give
them a questionnaire and likeone of the things you could ask
them are there things in yourlife you want to change about
yourself?
Are there things you'd want towork on and like, for instance,
(16:19):
if someone was like hey, I stilllive at home with my parents
and I don't want to live thereanymore, I know that, casey,
that you and your gut knowexactly what to say to that
person, and so you just do it,and it probably will be the most
liberating, incredible thingsYou're going to get to tell
these people exactly what youhave to tip toe around to like
(16:39):
tell a good friend.
If you're like, you know a goodfriend is falling off.
I think you could just findtheir weaknesses and just dig
into that.
That is a good idea.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
And that's the thing that people want to write Like
if you're healthily engaging init, like I want you to hit the
things that are that I have beenself-conscious about before.
Like for me, the reason I likereceiving degradation is because
that conversation makes moresense than the ways that I have
been like ignored and put off inother places.
(17:09):
Like the ways people are sayingto me like, oh, it's not you,
it's me, and you know it's just.
Like, you're just a friend andI don't want to be in a
relationship.
I'm not ready for those typesof things.
And I was just like, oh, I'mbusy, I don't have time, All
those types of things.
Like I can tell that there'smore information than that and I
would want to know what it is.
And then degradation scenes.
(17:29):
It would feel I would havebetter closure with those people
if they had just been likeyou're fat, your hair, you smell
.
I don't like your face, I don'tlike the way that.
I don't like the way that youmove.
I don't think you'll ever besatisfied.
Fine, Enough me, You're not hotenough.
Like I was.
Like those conversations wouldmake more sense to me.
What's happening in adegradation scene is you're
telling me that you don't wantme around, but I'm around.
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And I was like I think there's,there's a, there's a scene I
think it's Mr and Mrs Smith thatactually kind of got me there
where they're like hate, fight,fucking, and so like I like that
dynamic of like the way thatsomeone's trying to resist the
temptation to be with me is bylike degrading and yelling at me
and saying mean things, butlike you can tell that their
(18:13):
attention is on me and so justthat whole game, that whole
circle is swirl, is fun.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
Okay, how about this?
You tell me a thing that youliked me degraded.
I'm going to try it live on thepodcast for a minute.
Three rounds for a minute.
You can give me notes aftereach one.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Okay, three rounds for a minute, so we can go.
I'm trying to pick somethingsimpler, let's do, not being
attractive enough for you.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Hold on, let me open up my timer.
I'm so nervous, I'm so nervous.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
You're fine.
It's great, it will, it's gonnayou want this timer.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Yeah, it's great.
Okay, stephanie's holding up atimer.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
That's.
That's so much time.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
This is your.
There really is a lot of timer.
This is.
You're not attractive enoughfor me, right?
Okay, great, all right,stephanie, it's on you.
Nothing's happening on thetimer.
Oh, there it is.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
It's.
It's a 30.
It's a one.
Do we want to do 30 minutes?
I was just going to do it.
I was just going to do it bymyself.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I was just going to do it.
I was just going to do it by aminute, but you've already.
We're at 30 seconds All right.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Hold on, I got this.
I got this.
There's nobody here but us.
It's fine.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Also, you can totally start with that laugh and just
make it be laughing at them,okay, good.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
That's a good call.
I'm going to do it.
Are you looking at me right now?
I bet you think that I'm reallysexy, don't you?
Speaker 1 (19:35):
You are really really really hot yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
You're really fucking gross.
Oh yeah, nobody.
Nobody like you could get witha person like me ever, because
you're disgusting, you're stupidand you smell bad and I don't
want to have anything to do withthat.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Can I, like, I'll try , like I'll, I'll, I'll, I'll
try to fuck me.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
That would be awesome , I don't think you know how to
get a dick into a vagina.
That would just be embarrassingfor you.
You probably don't have much ofa penis to you.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
I mean it's there.
I don't think anybody.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, I can't imagine you being able to get into the
right position to be able to putit inside of a vagina.
Have you ever been used itbefore?
I mean, you might have thoughtyou used it before, but you were
probably using it wrong.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, I mean I guess I, I people aren't paying a lot
of it, but I would.
I would really love to try,like you're really hot.
I don't want you to touch me.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
I don't want you to touch me.
I'd have to like showerafterwards and get you off me in
some capacity is probably muchharder than I'm anticipating,
because your odor probably justlingers, doesn't it?
Yeah, do your friends holdtheir breath around you?
They probably don't tell youthat they do, but they probably
keep their distance and youdon't really know why.
You probably get really quickhugs, don't you?
(20:45):
Nobody really holds you likeyou'd like to be held, because
you're a bag of garbage.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
I mean, okay, if I'll like, I'll go get it.
I just really still trying.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
That's so cute.
That's so cute and pathetic.
You're disgusting and pathetic.
You're just going to stand here.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
That was three minutes, good job.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Tosin, I love you because you had you like this
tiny smile on your face likethis tiny deviant smile.
You'd be like yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Yeah, no, I love it.
I was just like you know it's.
It's difficult currently, for Ican't do my normal response to
what occurs when that occurs,because there are people
watching and their normalresponse is to masturbate.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Oh, so thank you for that.
We didn't clear that up forbeforehand.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
No, because normally what I do, what I like I'm
requesting in those scenes islike I will push to be like you
know, I'm so pathetic, why isthis turning me on?
And that turns usually turnsinto like oh, like, normally.
When you said, it was like Idon't even know if you know how
to use it, and I was like well,you know, I'm kind of I'm
getting hard right now and itwas like I'll show you it's like
, and so then they'll just makefun of me and do that until
(22:06):
we're done, and then it's, it'sbig fun.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Where was I?
On the scale of one to awesomedegradation, I'm going to guess
I'm going to put it at a four.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
Oh no it was better.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
It was definitely better.
Yeah, I would say it sounded tome.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
I'm going to be honest.
It sounded to me like you alsowanted to fuck him.
So that's lovely and great, butare you going to want to give
that vibe off to?
Speaker 2 (22:27):
you Did I sound like I wanted to fuck you too, and I
think that's just my voice.
To me it was like sexualchemistry.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
To me it looked to me it was.
I was getting the Mr and MrsSmith thing, which they did want
to fuck each other.
So, like that's, my only thingis like almost be careful about
being like oh, you think youwant to fuck me Because?
Do you want to say that to them?
Cause, then that scares mebecause I don't know these guys.
And what if it's like a?
She said yes.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
She said yes.
She said yes.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Yeah, I am definitely like I clear box it.
Like every time that I've beenreceiving a degradation scene,
I'm like I am not going to touchyou, I'm going to masturbate
and come on whatever we want meto and that's how we'll close it
.
And, like my normally, my thingis like I am less resilient
right after I orgasm.
(23:13):
So call it there and so and solike the like cause, the like I
to enjoy it generally, I need tobe aroused by it.
So like setting thoseboundaries are like good to do.
Like I just locked those up andme personally, that is perfect
for me.
Like it being 95% degradationwith a hint of like, but maybe
really kind of sorta is the.
(23:33):
That's the exact flavor.
So for I would say, for mespecifically, it was like an 8.5
.
I would say yeah, I would say,for people who are looking for a
feeling of worthlessness, thatit would.
It's more like a six and thething that, the thing that I
would add is you, you'reenjoying yourself, right, like
(23:55):
you're enjoying making them feelpathetic, and if they're, if
what they want is to feelworthless, you need to lean more
into actually being disgustedby them, and you're, oh, the
other thing, too, that I wouldsay is like you're leaning
comedically right, like you'resaying funny, degrading things
about them instead of cruel.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Oh, can you give me an example?
Speaker 1 (24:17):
So funny is I was like oh, I bet you still smell.
I bet you still smell evenafter you take a shower.
Cruel, is you know that?
You did you not know thatnobody talks to you because you
smell bad?
And I was like are you, are,and I'm seriously, are you that
dumb that you don't know that?
That's why nobody talks to you.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
And I was like, honestly, like until like a joke
is, and I was like you're luckyfor the pandemic because nobody
has to smell you and cruel is.
I was like I would rather get.
I would rather get COVID thanhave to be next to you.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Right, this is like next level villain training Like
this is this is hard.
This just became hard.
Speaker 3 (24:58):
That's what I think getting to know like some things
about them.
You know like that is an areaof life that they're struggling
in.
You could really lean into thatand hurt some feeling.
Okay.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
I'm gonna do it again .
I'm not gonna sound like Iwanna fuck you.
I'm gonna be genuinelydisgusted by you.
I'm trying to be cruel.
I'm trying to be cruel.
I'm gonna try to be cruel.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Trying to be mean, but I'm not gonna talk on this
one.
I'll let you rule.
I'll let you rule.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
Okay, I've noticed that you continually text me
despite the fact that I don'trespond, and that's largely
because your texts are fuckingstupid and uninspiring and you
say a whole bunch of bullshit,garbage that wastes my time.
On top of that, I am the fullpackage.
I am a 10 out of 10.
Fuck that.
I'm a fucking 100 out of 10.
(25:40):
So the thought that you couldsend me a dumb text message to
elicit a response is veryembarrassing for you.
Now let me explain something toyou.
When you're gonna shoot yourshot with a woman, you can't
come at her.
When you live with your parentsand you hate your job and
you're sad all the time becausethat's fucking stupid and I
(26:01):
don't care, you should probablyget your shit together before
you try to get a reasonablewoman, because nobody no goddess
is going to be like yeah, I'mgonna respond to his text
message.
He lives with his parents, he'snot bettering himself, he
enjoys being a piece of shitgarbage.
I don't like piece of shitgarbage.
So I would absolutely love itif you left me the fuck alone
and stopped texting me, becauseyou will never, ever get a
(26:24):
response.
Bye.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
Cool, cool, cool.
So definitely on the scale oflike you're starting to have fun
with it is great.
Like I was, like you weregetting in a rhythm of it and
you were saying, like what feltgood to say?
And that's where you have toget right.
You have to get to the point inyour brain where it's like I
was like okay, there's somethinglike there's a reason we like
(26:54):
villains or the reason we liketo watch them.
There's a reason it feels goodto like decide to not go by the
rules and be that to somebody.
Find that seat and then startenjoying it, you'll probably be
fine.
You were giving, you know,tough love, self-help vibes for
the most of it.
So again you were being like.
(27:15):
You were saying, like here arepositive things you could have,
but you can't because you're inthis position, not where you
would need to like if I were to.
How to take the cruelty toattend in that situation is you
know?
I hope you don't have any hopesand dreams that are comfortable
where you are at Like if youleft your house, you wouldn't
(27:35):
make it.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
You're still a child.
Take it SNL, like, make it SNLlevel.
You know how they always justdramaticize it.
You know like even just take itas far as possible.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Tosen, you're so good at being cruel that never even
crossed my mind.
Speaker 1 (27:50):
I tried the skill set it takes to encourage people to
use the same skill set it takesto destroy them.
So I just don't use that sideunless it's helping them.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
Or they deserve it, which is rare.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
That one deserved it, but yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Okay, I'm gonna try it again.
I'll go real short.
I'll go real short.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
I'm totally gonna do a three round this time pick a
situation where you wish youcould have been cruel to someone
you know.
Don't mirror it exactly becausethat could be traumatizing, but
like find a piece of that tolatch onto, Okay.
Speaker 2 (28:20):
Gosh, I wish I was good at this, casey.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
You're gonna be brilliant on it cause you wanna
be good at it.
You're good at every singlething you do.
You're good at yeah, and I alsowanna state You'll get there.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
So far like if I was on the receiving end of any of
the situations that you justdiscussed.
I'm having a great time Like Iwas.
Like you know, the camera isappropriately placed and I was
like.
So I was like you're gettingthe job done for sure.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Are you saying you had the chubs?
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Specifically, I had the chubs, Especially the first
one.
The first one was like oh, I'ma struggling yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:58):
Okay, I don't believe in you.
Speaker 2 (29:01):
I just don't think there's much to you.
So it's not a good use of mytime to communicate with you in
any way or to be around you orto try and encourage you,
because you're just fuckinguseless.
You've tried to do so manythings and you fail at them all
and I think that's all you'regonna do.
The rest of your life isfucking fail.
(29:22):
You're here right now becauseyou wanna get turned on right,
but I have a feeling your dick'sreally tiny and you can't.
And you've probably been withcountless women and they're all
really fucking disappointed.
And you think you're reallycool at the things that you do
and you're so good and you're sosexy, but I love to be the one
(29:43):
to break it to you, to tell youthat you are terrible at what
you do.
That attitude of being soarrogant and in charge is a
fucking joke, because you'regarbage.
Nobody wants to be with you andit's embarrassing.
How's that?
How's that?
Yeah, that was good.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
We're getting the groove now.
Yes, see, the other benefitthat you're gonna have being in
person is you can also add inphysical elements, right?
So I had someone that I waswith a few times that was into
it and they're into the use mefor my body type of degradation
type things, and so one of thego-tos is making them repeat
(30:24):
degradating things back.
I'm like do degradating things?
And so one of my go-tos is likecome here, no, no, no, no, you
don't get to walk Crawl Allfours walk over here, I'm always
like, listen, if you're justholes for me, then I don't wanna
see you walking like a person,lay on the ground, stay right
there, don't do any of thosethings.
And if they'll start to talkand I was like mm-mm, I was like
(30:45):
you get to speak one word every30 seconds, because if I have
to keep listening to your voicefor too much longer, I'm not
gonna be okay.
So just one word every 30seconds.
And if you can't count 30seconds on your own, then I'll
show you how long 30 seconds is,and so stuff like that.
And so that helps give youthings to do.
If you are giving themdegrading tasks and telling them
(31:07):
degrading things they can andcan't do is good.
And making them humiliatethemselves is also really good.
So you, at the end of that, Iwould have been like say, it say
it I'm not a good leader.
Be honest for the first time inyour entire life.
Speaker 2 (31:25):
Be real with yourself for once.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
Say it out loud I am garbage.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
I am a terrible leader.
Nobody wants to be with meTrying to help you get it sunk
in so that you don't have tokeep being embarrassed your
whole life.
Speaker 1 (31:38):
This is great.
Yeah, go write it down.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
I love degradation.
Go write it down, take notes.
It's because then you're gonnaforget later, because you're
stupid, so you'll wanna be ableto refer to them.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Hey, that was that was good.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Thanks, getting in groove figuring it out.
I love degradation class, yeahyeah.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
And then and again it .
You can only go so hard withpeople who don't have you don't
have a good foundation withright.
I'm never going to forget thatyou love me because you know
each other for so long, and sothat's not gonna be a problem.
The thing that I check for,like while I'm doing it, is
beforehand.
I'm always like hey, wearsensitive things.
Like my go-to is.
I was like don't make fun of myteeth.
(32:17):
It's harder for me to stayresilient on that one.
Like that one gets past thehorny walls quickly.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
What does what does?
Speaker 1 (32:24):
Oh, like making fun of my teeth For your teeth.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
There's nothing wrong with your teeth.
I know, but Wait is it good toget past the horny wall, or bad.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
Horny wall is the wrong word I'm actually going to
be.
It's easier for that one toactually hurt my feelings than
other things right, and you wantthat or you don't want that.
Like you can call me, dependsright on what I'm looking for
that day.
Probably, in general, I don'twhen my feelings actually hurt,
cause I'm you know, we're ourconversation.
I am a status masochist, not anemotional masochist.
(32:55):
I don't actually like feelingbad or I don't get pleasure from
feeling bad.
I do get pleasure from feelingless than human or worthless,
like the fact that someone iscapable of like degrading me
that much.
That piece of like.
Oh, I don't have to do anything.
You know I'm a little pebbly,small dick, fat rock, and that's
(33:16):
it Like a really small dick,fat rock.
Right, it's great right and butyou know you don't want to try
to unless that's what they'relooking for like actually hurt
somebody's feelings and I'mpretty wary of doing degradation
to people who are looking forme to like reinforce their
traumas.
He was like, oh, treat me theway that this person who abused
(33:40):
me treated me, and I'm like no.
Not necessarily no, but like,let's talk, let's talk when?
Where are you at on that Cause?
That can get, that can getsticky.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
That and I just recently posted on FetLife for
the first time.
I had never done that because Ihad gotten several inboxes I
mean I say probably like 15different people and on multiple
different platforms Sendsomething along the lines of
describe your childhood spankinggrowing up, and I was like what
the fuck?
Like?
Nothing makes me click out of amessage quicker or block that
(34:15):
person faster, because, a mytrauma is not for your spank
bank and B all I wrote on in thepost was I don't know who needs
to hear this, but don't askpeople to describe their
childhood spankings.
That shit is weird andtriggering.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
And.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
I was shocked.
I mean, I got so much feedbackof like this, like this is
exactly exactly this.
Oh my God, it's the worst.
Then there were like fouridiots in there who are like
some people are turned on bytheir trauma how dare you?
And call me like self-centered,because I was like I'm not
judging those people who wannado that, but you have to find a
partner who is willing to go toyour most dramatic part of your
(34:53):
life and recreate it.
And, honestly, it is really.
That is something really hardfor me to wrap my mind around.
I would never say it's not real, but I truly can't fathom
recreating something from thattrauma Like it's one thing to be
like okay, let's say you wereraped.
There are people who were rapedand then they go on to have
like a rape kink.
I would be surprised if therewere just loads of those people
(35:16):
who were like I wanna recreateexactly how it happened that
night or that day Like that'sjust something I wouldn't even
wanna be a part of.
For somebody Like that's askinga whole lot in my opinion.
So like I'm right there withTosen on that one.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Yeah, you know, I think so many things in our life
are that we wanna do are bornfrom our traumas and what we did
as children.
I think in kink, specifically,the mature, thoughtful people
that are trying to create scenesfrom that are being like let me
grab the pieces of this thatdid turn me on Right Cause, like
(35:53):
if you put it in a vacuum allby itself and you look at the
puzzle piece of it, then beinglike, okay, well, you know, I'm
turned on by fear and I likepower dynamics and I like being
surprised and like I'm gonnatake those three puzzle pieces
that are not the full map ofeverything that happened, but
like those three aspects of it Ienjoyed.
(36:14):
Let me not say those threeaspects of it I enjoyed.
Those are three things that Ilike and let me create something
out of that.
That's like I think that is afine and healthy way to go about
it.
You know, I've heard a story ofsomeone who does like having a
traumatic event in their liferecreated specifically and for
them it's because having beingable to organize it on their own
(36:37):
terms is really, really helpfulfor them, and like they have a
lot of guidelines and rulesabout it.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Totally Like.
I would imagine that's not likea conversation starter for them,
though, if someone outrightdescribed what your trauma is
and that's what these peoplewere trying to say was fair that
these people wanted to ask methat and I'm like no, because
it's not.
If I had the idea that we weregonna be play partners or we
were gonna meet up, I getunderstanding getting to the
trauma part and eventuallyleading into it, but when you
(37:05):
are coming at it, that is, youhave a trauma kink, like you
wanna hear someone's trauma andthen you wanna use it to get
your rocks off, and I thinkthat's gross.
It is gross.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, definitely problematic, but, casey, I'm
excited for you.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
Yeah, I'm excited for you too, because I'm gonna get
really good at this.
I just wanna fuck you up.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
I'm a huge fan, my body's ready.
But yeah, the other thing, toois like, make sure that you're
enjoying it.
If the person being degraded isgonna spend a large part of the
front part of the capacitytaking care of you Because
you're doing the more harmfulthing, it's much easier to be
degraded than to degrade someoneand, in my opinion, if you're
(37:46):
not a monster and so, so whenI'm being degraded the front
part of it I'm spending timemaking sure that they're okay,
which keeps me from enjoying thegetting degraded part of it.
So the easiest way to get outof that headspace is like, when
they start to cross that line,when they're getting into it, I
know that they're enjoyingthemselves.
(38:06):
And then it's like, yeah, nowwe're swimming in this, we're
vacationing in the pool of humancruelty together, which is fun
to do, which is vacationing in?
Speaker 2 (38:16):
the pool of human cruelty is what this episode is
gonna be called.
Speaker 1 (38:20):
Perfect, perfect.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
Yeah, amazing, that was awesome.
Thank you, friends, I thinkit's a good lesson.
Well, we've done that, so Ihave 15 FetLife messages in one
of my two accounts that we couldlook at IRL in real time.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
Please go to the one with the most.
Which one has the most, or 15between the two of them?
Speaker 2 (38:42):
No, no, 15, just in the domestic discipline one.
I haven't even looked at theDOM one, which is probably
filled with tripe.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
Literal pig intestines.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
Literal pig intestines, but I have the
domestic discipline, one openand it's less awesome than it
once was.
So my first one is welloriginally I was like.
These people are amazing.
They're like I can't hold it,and now I'm getting a different
vibe.
So my first one is the subjectis let's explore the
(39:14):
possibilities.
Hi, let's explore thepossibilities.
I enjoyed reading your profile.
I'd love to communicate withyou further and, if we agree to,
let's get together sometimesoon and see if we have a
chemistry.
Are you up for it?
Please let me know?
Thanks, Everyone feels realfaith.
Everyone feels real fake.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
Or it's just generic that person got me boosted and
sent that to.
Yeah, yeah, he just hit upeverybody with discipline.
Speaker 1 (39:39):
I'm gonna delete that .
Delete it 100%.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
And then, oh God, look it, I've got one of these
over here, no subject.
All it says is hey there, grossDelete, okay, next one.
Speaker 1 (39:54):
Oh, instead of deleting these, send all these
people your cash out.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
No, you can't do that .
Actually on FetLife oh, that'strue, amazing, all right.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
Another one, if I may ask, is a subject and it says
do you spank boys too?
Speaker 1 (40:07):
I don't hate that start.
Speaker 2 (40:09):
I'm gonna say I do, it's all I'm gonna say I do
spank boys.
Well, I deleted messages andthey've come back.
Oh, FetLife.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
Get your life together.
Here's another one, no subject,or are these?
Speaker 2 (40:19):
people sending the same thing.
No, it's the website.
It's terrible.
Here's another one.
No subject.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
Hi Governess.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
Do you use Bullwhips?
Whoa, not at the.
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Moment.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Do you use Bullwhips?
But I'll let you know if thatchanges.
I've thought about it.
I don't have time.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
That's a whole thing.
Yeah, do you want to know?
A?
Speaker 3 (40:45):
secret what I am very good at a bullwhip, are you?
I don't have the desire andcould never hit someone with it,
but I ever, since I watched thebehind the scenes of Michelle
Pfeiffer skip roping with abullwhip and then in one take,
whipping the heads off of likeeight mannequins.
And then she's skipping it getaway In one take.
(41:08):
She did that.
I have been fascinated and so Ihave one and I would love to
teach you.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
I am here for this.
I am here for it.
I love this.
Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (41:21):
That is a fascinating skill set.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
It sounds.
It's such a cool feeling whenyou finally get it down, because
you look like a moron up untilthe moment you, that it works,
understand how to make it crack.
Oh yeah, it's awesome.
It can be brutal, awesome.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
Okay, here's another one Again, because fuck subjects
.
Hi, how are you?
Was one message sent two weeksago.
I did not respond four days ago.
Do you think spanking is a goodpunishment or is more of a game
?
Speaker 1 (41:53):
Do you think this is a?
Speaker 2 (41:54):
game.
I'm just going to go ahead anddelete that Stupid conversation.
Okay, good morning at events.
Oh, this is somebody actuallygiving me information.
Ah, subject.
This one has a subject, oh wait.
Oh, this is somebody that wantsto get spanked.
That has messaged me threetimes and I have not responded,
(42:15):
so I will get back to that one.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
Yeah, it's good, it's good.
Speaker 2 (42:19):
Somebody who's actually a person who's like I
will trade things.
I will trade things for theservice.
Speaker 1 (42:25):
We'd like to see it.
Speaker 2 (42:27):
Then one guy just said hello, no punctuation.
I mean, at least it capitalizedthe age, but there's no subject
Does that ever?
Work, apparently because theykeep doing it, I don't know.
Anyways, delete.
Oh, here's one Paying myrespects.
Ma'am, love your pics.
You're a true disciplarian.
(42:48):
I completely respect and admirethat.
Texas is the spanking capitalof America.
People appreciate its value.
Speaker 3 (42:55):
Okay, that took a real, real, sharp turn.
Speaker 1 (43:01):
You had me in the first half.
Yeah me too.
Speaker 3 (43:05):
Right up until you love.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
corporal punishment on children Texas is the
spanking capital of America.
People appreciate its value asa behavior tool.
I see you are in Austin, alegendary university town.
Exclamation point Do Texas kidsover 18 ever seek you out when
they're growing up at school?
Thank you for your time.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
What if you're like, no, only under 18?
Speaker 2 (43:27):
No under 18.
He's 60.
He's 60 years old and he's amale spanko All.
Speaker 3 (43:32):
I can think is maybe he's joking around.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
Thank you for taking the time to read this E-letter.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
he said that's the most boomer thing I've ever
heard.
Speaker 2 (43:45):
I'm going to delete that.
Oh stupid, Delete.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
The thing that's cracking me up about it the most
is like is he trying to figureout if you're into school?
Corporal punishment.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
He should just ask, right.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
Yeah, I'm like it was like what secret thing are you
trying to?
I just think he doesn't knowhow to write E-letters.
I don't either way.
Speaker 3 (44:11):
E-letter.
Speaker 2 (44:12):
Email.
An electronic message oh my God, so silly.
All right.
This one is titled governessRune says I enjoy good spanking.
I am still daily new, but I'mconstantly naughty if naughty in
need of direction.
So it possible to learn moreabout you.
(44:34):
Wow, the grammar there is verysus.
Speaker 3 (44:39):
Where are they from?
Speaker 1 (44:41):
Hutto, hutto, texas, oh, come on.
Speaker 3 (44:45):
Okay, now go back and read it like white trash, Okay
hold on, I enjoy good spanking.
Speaker 2 (44:50):
I'm still daily new here but I'm constantly naughty
in need of direction.
Is it possible to learn moreabout you?
Yeah, there's that.
I'm going to respond and sayonly if you use proper grammar
and punctuation, and that's justembarrassing.
Speaker 1 (45:12):
I mean, he's going to think that you're setting up a
discipline situation.
Speaker 3 (45:17):
I shouldn't have said white trash, I should have said
southern.
Speaker 1 (45:22):
It's okay, everybody, all the disclaimers, we don't
know, all the people in Hutto, awhite trash, blah blah.
We care about human beings,relax.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
We're nice people.
Blah, blah, blah.
Speaker 1 (45:35):
Okay, that's what they do now.
No subject, no canceling.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Just canceling.
Hi, I'm the husband side of theaccount I will be an awesome
for working with.
I have been curious aboutswitching but don't want to
approach my wife until I am sure.
Do you have an opening on yourschedule?
What Hi, what Hi, I am thehusband side of the account.
(46:00):
I will be an Austin for workthe week of June 5th.
I have been curious aboutswitching but don't want to
approach my wife until I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
Do you think he?
Speaker 2 (46:08):
meant swinging.
No, he might mean he wants tobe the sub the bottom.
Speaker 3 (46:13):
But, he's the don with his wife and he doesn't,
but why does he need to approachher?
Speaker 1 (46:19):
Oh, okay, okay Okay.
I was reading that, as I don'tknow if I want to be a bottom.
That's what I was reading andI'm going to check with you
instead of I want a bottom formy wife, but before I would, I
don't want the first time Ibought him with my wife to be
with my wife, which I find moreacceptable.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
Unless he's not telling his wife.
Speaker 1 (46:41):
Well, I assume that if it's a joint account, so like
she can see the message oh,that's right.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
Oh, that's right, yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:46):
Hopefully.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (46:48):
a couple.
Does it look like it's acouple's account?
Speaker 2 (46:50):
No 37, female brat.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Well, I don't know.
I mean it's commonplace forcouples to share a fat life
account.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
Yeah, I said, I said I do.
Would you like my rate the two?
Speaker 3 (47:01):
people I know off the top of my head that do that.
Their accounts say that, butit's just one.
The other one does not evercheck the account or is even a
part of it, but they're.
They're.
Both of their profiles say thatOkay.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
This guy.
No subject, 29 switch male.
Hi there, How's it going?
I'm Arvin, by the way, I'mArvin, btw.
And then he sent me a pictureof himself and said that's me
Smiley face, peace fingers, cool.
Gonna delete that.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
Wait, wait, would you not like about that?
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Would I not like about it the picture.
I don't.
It's just stupid.
What am I supposed to do withthat?
I'm Arvin.
This is me.
This is what I don't like aboutit.
I don't know his intention.
All he did was send me apicture.
Why do I want his fuckingpicture?
Speaker 1 (47:52):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
Okay, fair enough.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
What am I supposed to do that?
Again, it's somebody who'strying to start a conversation
without doing the work of theconversation.
The only question was smalltalk.
He doesn't really care how it'sgoing, I know nothing about him
and he hasn't stated hisintentions or any sort of
interesting opener.
So he shot his shot and itsucked.
Speaker 1 (48:10):
Fell on the floor.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
Fell on the floor.
Also, who sends a photo withoutpermission?
On that life.
Speaker 3 (48:15):
Yeah, that's what I was thinking was the
non-consensual photo.
Speaker 2 (48:19):
Oh, that this one is nice.
Hello governance, hellogovernance.
You seem like a very delightfullady and I wanted to say hi.
Speaker 1 (48:25):
I mean, that's still like where do we go from here?
But that's better.
Speaker 2 (48:33):
I'm going to switch accounts.
This segment is Casey, oh, somy Check your messages so the
Hecate account, the DOM account,only has five messages and I
haven't been on it in quite sometime.
It's the most prized, okay, so?
Okay, well, that one's anactual conversation, so we won't
(48:54):
make fun of it.
Oh, this one's long and Ihaven't read it.
Let's see what it says.
This is hello, goddess Hecateis the subject.
Hello, hope you're doing welland all is okay.
I wanted to introduce myself toyou.
My name is ShimminiminaShimminma.
I am a submissive and will behonored to kneel before you and
submit to you.
I have been submissive for manyyears.
I am into a variety ofactivities and always willing to
(49:16):
try something new and exciting,I feel.
A few things I enjoy are footworship, spanking, being tied up
, cuffed, some humiliation andtorture, and more.
I wanted to see if you'relooking for someone to submit to
you.
Please, if you are, I would beinterested in being that person
if you give me the opportunity.
(49:37):
That was a long sentence withno punctuation.
Maybe you just want a footslave, maybe you want more and
you want me to make and you wantme at your mercy, or maybe you
want me doing your dishes andover-acumming.
I do need a house boy.
Please, if you're interested,I'm sure we can find a place for
me to submit to you.
I hope to hear from you soon.
(49:58):
Also, to answer the twoquestions I get asked the most
yes, I do have a job and I dohave a vehicle.
Yeah, I like it, that's great,that's great 47 switch.
Speaker 1 (50:08):
That's the stuff.
Speaker 2 (50:09):
Yeah, that's the stuff, it's the middle-aged men.
Speaker 1 (50:16):
They're ready for it.
Speaker 2 (50:17):
It's probably the best message I have received on
here.
I mean, it's still ridiculous,Don't get me wrong.
Oh, and then I have somebody afriend introducing me to
somebody who is looking for aDom, and I saw him at flipside
and he asked if he could introus.
Okay, get this.
So the guy on my domesticdiscipline account who said do
you think spanking is goodpunishment or is a game?
Also send that same message toHecate.
(50:41):
The one about Texas discipline.
No, no, no.
All he said was do you thinkspanking is good punishment or
is more of a game?
Speaker 3 (50:48):
Oh, what's his handle ?
Speaker 2 (50:49):
I'm sure you don't want to say it on I just deleted
it, but it's a picture of himon the back, from the back side,
with just his butt exposed likehe'd been spanked.
It's a little red.
Speaker 3 (50:58):
Isn't a great t-shirt .
Speaker 2 (50:59):
Anyways, that's my Fed accounts.
I hope everybody had a goodtime.
Oh, and somebody sent me afriend request and their profile
picture is oh, it's reallyweird looking sex.
I thought it was a foot in avagina, but it turns out it's.
I can't tell what whole hispenis is going in.
(51:19):
Yeah, tosin and Stephanie,you're just watching me like,
get closer to my screen as I tryto figure out what I'm looking
at.
Yeah, I don't like that profilepicture.
I'm just going to go ahead andmake more of that Anywho, I
guess I guess that's it for thisepisode.
Speaker 1 (51:36):
Boom.
Speaker 2 (51:37):
Unless anybody has anything they want to add.
Nope, no, all right, thanks fortuning into this episode of
Casey's Inbox.
And Casey learns to dumb allyou sexy beasts out there.
Speaker 3 (51:46):
I feel like that episode.
We should have charged peoplefor it.
Speaker 2 (51:51):
Somebody's going to get the chubs out there other
than Tosin.
I feel like they're going tolisten to this one over and over
, not just me.
Speaker 1 (51:56):
You're going to be in the chub gang everybody.
Speaker 2 (51:58):
I'm very excited about learning the bullwhip.
Stephanie, I am here for it.
Let's do that.
Yay, okay, I'm going to goahead and make all you sexy
beasts out there.
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Speaker 4 (52:52):
Because it just looks lazy, if you don't?
I?
Speaker 2 (52:53):
know it's a stupid formality, but you just look
lazy if you don't, Anyways bye,bye, bye.
Speaker 4 (53:01):
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No, why don't you?
Oh, why don't I?
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Speaker 2 (00:22):
Hello all you sexy beasts and welcome back to Talk
Dirty To Me, the podcast wherefour friends with four different
perspectives talk dirty to oneanother.
And today we have TosinAoufesso, your kink oracle.
Ahoy, you have me.
Casey, your neighborhoodneighborhood, your neighborhood
Femme, dom Femme.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Dom.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
I got it.
I got there.
Stephanie Slayton, our queen ofspankles, will be joining us
shortly and Sarah Marie is outbecause her husband's birthday
was today.
So Tosin and I are going to getus started, and we were just
having a really lovelyconversation about lingerie and
he noticed that, on FetLife,lingerie as a kink is what was.
It was more popular than youexpected.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah, number nine and I was like.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I mean, I get nine out of what like nine out of all
of them.
Oh, like literally on theinfinite list of kinks on
FetLife lingerie is number nine.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Yeah, nine, nine.
Most amount of people haveadded lingerie as their king.
I see oral sex being number one, which makes sense.
That's a good one.
Hair pulling is number two.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Number five, number five, oh it goes that way
Bondage, oral sex, bondage,spanking, anal sex, hair pulling
, toys, talking dirty.
Oh, ladies and gentlemen, hereshe is, the queen of spankles,
stephanie Slayton.
The crowd goes wild.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Tosin and.
I were just having a discussionbefore we started recording
that.
I insist, we started recordingon about lingerie because
apparently it is the number nineon.
The most most popular kink onFetLife is lingerie.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Oral sex.
So is that them in order Oralsex bondage, spanking, anal sex
hair pulling toys talking dirty.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
The third most popular one Blindfolds, lingerie
, breast, nipple play, handcuffs, biting ass play, sex and
public discipline, mutualmasturbation, role play, collar
and lead slash leash,masturbation, candle wax that's
the first 20.
Some of these I wonder ifthey're really kinks Like is
masturbation a kink?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I mean, it depends on how you do it.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
But how would masturbation be a kink?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
People like people do like to like watch others
masturbate, so would that bewhat they were talking about?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Wouldn't that be voyeurism?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yeah, I, I'm trying to think.
I mean, like if you masturbatepreferable to like sex, I guess
that would make it kinky, like Iprefer to masturbate than to
other sexual activity.
That will make it kinky.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
But like the things that, the ones that surprise me
is like there are so manyspanking ones.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Like I don't think.
I thought I was weirdo, I'm sonormal 1,427,000 people agree.
That's just on FetLife.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, and like that's not including the 590 for bare
bottom spanking, 596 for barehanded spanking.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Hold on, I'm going to read the 6700 for discipline.
I'm going to read the next set.
Oh, did I miss discipline.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I did text.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Oh, okay.
So after that, according toFetLife, the next most popular
ones are rough sex, face fucking, domination, deep throating,
multiple orgasms Is that afennel?
Bare bottom, spanking,threesomes, kissing Is that a
fetish?
Gang bangs, bare handedspanking, cuddles, erotic
(03:36):
photography, master slash, slave, butt plugs, vibrators, rimming
, exhibitionism, dildos, makinghome movies, strap ons I'm not
sure kissing can be a fetish.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
That's why I'm dubious about this list.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
It's just like naming things.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I mean it's just, it's just organized by whether
you add how many people haveadded this kink to their profile
, so like there's not a vettingsystem.
But I mean like that's some,it's valuable information that
like more than this people.
But I agree, like I wouldn'tsay I wouldn't call cuddles
being a fetish.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
No cuddles or kissing , it's more.
It's more like a fetish.
If you don't like kissing, yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Or or I guess, or I guess or kissing makes you come,
I guess.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
That would be a feat or guys are from makeouts.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Wow yeah, insane.
Anyways, we were talking aboutlingerie.
Orgasming from makeouts Is yournew life goal?
Like with or without rubbing.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Just get immaculate, immaculate orgasms from kissing.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
I love it no no, no hand stuff.
My movie.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Is it where, josh?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Hartnett.
Josh Hartnett just makes a girlcome.
I think he's just rubbing aflower.
She's fully clothed.
What is that movie?
40 days and 40 nights.
Maybe because he's given up sexman, maybe I'm way off, but he
literally it's just energy andshe has an orgasm.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, 40 days and 40 nights.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I would like that that would be, great man I.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I don't know of a like mainstream movie that I've
masturbated two more than 40days and 40 nights.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Really, you really have to watch this movie.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
There's a lot in it.
That's just was hot to me atthe time.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
It's such an like early 2000s film.
I bet it's got 26% on rottentomatoes.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Okay, so we were talking about lingerie because
that is apparently very popular.
I know several people that arereally into lingerie as a fetish
and I love that.
I would like to find a manthat's super into lingerie as a
fetish because it's glorious.
But, tosen, you were saying Iwas saying that there's this
like it's ridiculous, becausethere's this $1,000 bordello
dress that I covet but I can'tbring myself to get it because
(05:44):
it's $1,000.
And then you outed.
You said that you bought an$1,100 corset for a partner.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Did, I did find a $1,100.
Well, I'm buying, I'm paying inpayments, yeah, so what?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
inspired this purchase for her them.
They wanted it.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
So it was.
It was the first time I wentwith to to Imzel the
international Miss Boo Black andLeather one, and so they had
like a vendor station and acustom court.
Leather corset making shopcalled Dark Garden was selling
like custom corsets and so theygot fitted for one and we're
like daddy can I have it?
(06:18):
Can I have it?
I'm like yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Whoa.
So it's just, they just askedfor it and you got it for them.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That was like it was also pretty to remember the trip
Like I was, like they knew,like I was, like I'm coming to
the trip with this amount ofmoney, you know you can have
whatever you want until I don'thave it anymore.
And so though, since they hadpayment plans for it, it was
like fine.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
What was the amount of money that you came there
ready to spend on her?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
2K.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
What.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
What yeah, On top of the that's after registration in
the hotels and stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So do you love this?
Do you love like was it a daddyrelationship and you love
providing like that, like youthink it's sexy and fun, just to
be like, let me shower you withthings.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
It's, it is a.
It is a grand time.
Yeah, I, I think it's great.
You know, in in like caregivingsituations, it's just fun to
like make someone that happy andlike get them the whatever they
want.
Like that's just fun to do.
And I'm I'm in a situation nowwhere it's like, if I plan for
it, I can do Princess days orball outrageous.
(07:21):
But yeah, no, I'd love it.
You know, I generally enjoymaking people happy.
Like you know, pleasuringpeople has always been the
center of what all of my kinksare.
In general, though, I have beenlike super jamming, discipline
and degradation, which has lessto do with making people happy.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
But I like it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
They like it too, which is I wouldn't really enjoy
it if it is something that theydon't enjoy in real life yeah.
But yeah, yeah it's.
It's fun to make people happyin our cards.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
That's so cool.
I love that for her.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Listen the amount of subs that you're gathering,
casey somebody will one of themis going to be like take all my
money.
Where are the things?
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I hope so.
That would be amazing.
Speaking of subs, so I havethis gentleman who has asked me
to pee on him.
I mentioned that right, pee andspit, and I have been.
People of late have beenshocked at how kind I am.
I've gotten that comment a lotrecently, and twice from subs,
which makes me think I'm doingit wrong.
(08:23):
So I decided with this one thatI'm going to not be my usual
self when he comes over.
Maybe you guys can help mebrainstorm.
Like I think it would be weirdfor me to have him come in and
be like hello, how are you, takeoff your pants, here's a
Toronto pepper.
Like right, but like just be acompletely different person when
he comes into the room, who isa degrader and just kind of an
(08:43):
asshole, I don't, instead ofbeing like here's the pool, get
out of there, I'm going to peeon you.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Yeah, no, I support that wholly, I think because you
were conversed enough.
That's probably something he'dlove.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I think so.
Yeah, I'm trying to get on aphone call with him.
I have been a bad communicatorwith him lately, unintentionally
, and I think that if I couldchat about it with him that we
would probably have a reallygreat conversation.
However, beyond spitting andpeeing, I didn't know, like
Tosemite, you have some hot tipson degradation and like what
else can go into a session likethat.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Yeah, so there's.
There's usually two lines fordegradation, so picking the like
version of it that you want isgood.
So there's like humiliation,which is like the way that I'm
degrading you is by making youdo humiliating things for my own
amusement, right?
So that's like go lick toiletseats, go stand with your butt
(09:36):
in the air outside, you know,wear this outfit that makes you
look silly, and then just liketaking pleasure in humiliating
them.
And then there's thedegradation form.
That's like telling the personthat they're worthless, right,
which is the one I enjoyreceiving.
So those are along the lines oflike you know, you're less than
human.
I'd never pay attention to you.
(09:56):
There's no reason for you tolike if you want a part of my
body, so bad, the only thingyou're going to get is my spit
and urine.
You stupid little small cockedidiot like those type of that
type of stuff.
And so, you know, one of thethings that I say to people all
the time is I was like if you'researching for what to say, like
, if you're like I don't knowwhat to say, just you know, give
yourself the freedom to say thethings that you held back to
(10:21):
someone you are upset with,right, like take.
Try to find one of thosememories where it's like.
You know, it's like man.
If I wasn't a nice person, Iwould have said XYZ.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
What a fucking waste of time you are.
That's all I got, but go harder, harder, go harder.
I'm really honest with youright now, your penis is really
dissatisfying.
I've been disappointed thiswhole time.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
I mean, it's still like nice.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
What have you ever watched?
Have you ever like watched Domlike porn?
No, but I also think it's alittle cheesy.
It is, as is most porn.
At the same time it can giveyou ideas and then you can go in
there with your actingabilities and make them more
real.
But you can get the idea oflike phrasing.
I think phrasing for most kinks, most kinks have like some kind
(11:08):
of triggering phrase that aremultiple different ones and you
know, then you would just kindof tailor it to that person,
like go to their profile and seefetishes and turn on, we'll
have things like in the spangoworld, like do you need a
spanking young lady?
Like that would be like a kink,like that's like a phrase that
like a lot of people would.
Or young man.
(11:29):
You can switch them out, but Ijust think you could get like
ideas from that too.
That's true.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Okay, what about this ?
How embarrassing for you to benaked in front of me right now.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
It's good, it's good.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
You're still the like gentle, like you're going to
kill someone by screaching, whatam I supposed to?
Speaker 1 (11:48):
do Screech.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
What Yell at them.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Yeah, it depends, right, like I don't mind, I am a
calm Dom as well, like I muchprefer being like sit down, and
I hope I don't have to repeatmyself again type of domination
over you mother Like yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Like that doesn't feel as I'd rather be silent and
commanding yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I think the thing that you'll find like easy to
latch onto is like you're not.
You're not worth my presenceand attention.
And then just like coloringthat and I'm like like what made
you think that you couldrequest this of me?
Like why do you think thatyou're worthy of my attention?
You don't have this.
You can't do this.
I was not able to do this and Iwas like look, do you think
(12:39):
it's possible, with a cock thatsmall, to please someone of my
caliber?
Let alone, anybody at all.
And I was like is that what youthought was going to happen.
If you want to be anywhere nearmy vagina, you know what?
You can just have my urine anda hope and pray one day that
you'll be able to, like getanywhere near it, you know,
bottle that up and smell it,because with the pathetic way
(12:59):
that you are right, like that.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Dose it Dang yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I peruse a couple of degradation reddits and that's
how I get that out sometimes.
So I help out the lady becauseI'm lyrically gifted.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
That was good.
I like that.
You think you can please awoman of my caliber with a penis
that tiny.
How embarrassing for you.
I was going to be fun.
I can't wait.
So embarrassing for you.
I bet women laugh at you.
I do.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
And usually if you're in the situation, it depends on
who it is, but if you're inthat situation like, the person
will respond right.
So as they respond, it helpsyou dig deeper.
Like just being like I usually.
I usually go for either beg orfawn if I'm being on the
recipient end, so I'll.
I'll either be like I was likewell, I'll do anything, I'll go
(13:50):
get something to make my penisbigger, like whatever you need,
or I'll be like, yeah, you'reright, I am pathetic, and so
that helps encourage likedigging for it.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Because the one that's wanting the spitting in
the urine Casey is.
Does he like pain as well, ordoes he just like degradation?
Speaker 2 (14:04):
I mean he's into a little bit of pain, because I've
spanked him a few times and hewas like oh, I like that, but
he's not super into pain.
Anyways, so spitting, slapping,peeing, degrading, I think
it'll be really fun.
I wish I could take adegradation class.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Well I mean look you practice on me, I'll come over.
You can say mean shit to me.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Okay, you can say mean shit to me, casey, it's
going to be a really nice meanshit.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Ah, I mean, that's the fun.
Actually, the fun part for me,like especially when I do it
with people that I know isbecause I really like watching
the journey of like them sinkinglike into their fiend.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Into their fiend yeah .
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Because it, like almost every degradation scene
that I have been on thereceiving end in you know,
starts with and I was likeyou're pitiful, look at you,
you're you'll never please awoman I don't like even like.
Looking at you and you can seethem like the cracks start to
like fall off and then they likeget into it and they like they
(15:09):
go to this interesting, powerfulplace and by the end of it
they're saying awful things andit's so, so good, Right, and I
love watching that happen.
And I also think it's likereally, really intimate,
especially when it's like peoplelike you and I we've been
friends forever, we love eachother, it's perfectly where we
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would never say mean things toeach other at all, and the
amount of trust that's requiredto get to the place where you're
saying things to me that areawful is like really intimate.
It's like a lot of trust isthere.
It's like a really deep thingto pull off, to be like we trust
each other, to like get to adark shadow, we place a humanity
(15:51):
and dance around in it.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
I feel like it's very fun.
First of all, can you take itoff?
Shared screen.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Oh yes, it's also making me think too, casey, of
like I'm thinking of twodifferent people right now, and
let's say they were intodegradation.
Like, let's say, casey, therewas a way for you to like give
them a questionnaire and likeone of the things you could ask
them are there things in yourlife you want to change about
yourself?
Are there things you'd want towork on and like, for instance,
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if someone was like hey, I stilllive at home with my parents
and I don't want to live thereanymore, I know that, casey,
that you and your gut knowexactly what to say to that
person, and so you just do it,and it probably will be the most
liberating, incredible thingsYou're going to get to tell
these people exactly what youhave to tip toe around to like
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tell a good friend.
If you're like, you know a goodfriend is falling off.
I think you could just findtheir weaknesses and just dig
into that.
That is a good idea.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
And that's the thing that people want to write Like
if you're healthily engaging init, like I want you to hit the
things that are that I have beenself-conscious about before.
Like for me, the reason I likereceiving degradation is because
that conversation makes moresense than the ways that I have
been like ignored and put off inother places.
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Like the ways people are sayingto me like, oh, it's not you,
it's me, and you know it's just.
Like, you're just a friend andI don't want to be in a
relationship.
I'm not ready for those typesof things.
And I was just like, oh, I'mbusy, I don't have time, All
those types of things.
Like I can tell that there'smore information than that and I
would want to know what it is.
And then degradation scenes.
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It would feel I would havebetter closure with those people
if they had just been likeyou're fat, your hair, you smell
.
I don't like your face, I don'tlike the way that.
I don't like the way that youmove.
I don't think you'll ever besatisfied.
Fine, Enough me, You're not hotenough.
Like I was.
Like those conversations wouldmake more sense to me.
What's happening in adegradation scene is you're
telling me that you don't wantme around, but I'm around.
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And I was like I think there's,there's a, there's a scene I
think it's Mr and Mrs Smith thatactually kind of got me there
where they're like hate, fight,fucking, and so like I like that
dynamic of like the way thatsomeone's trying to resist the
temptation to be with me is bylike degrading and yelling at me
and saying mean things, butlike you can tell that their
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attention is on me and so justthat whole game, that whole
circle is swirl, is fun.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
Okay, how about this?
You tell me a thing that youliked me degraded.
I'm going to try it live on thepodcast for a minute.
Three rounds for a minute.
You can give me notes aftereach one.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Okay, three rounds for a minute, so we can go.
I'm trying to pick somethingsimpler, let's do, not being
attractive enough for you.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Hold on, let me open up my timer.
I'm so nervous, I'm so nervous.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
You're fine.
It's great, it will, it's gonnayou want this timer.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Yeah, it's great.
Okay, stephanie's holding up atimer.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
That's.
That's so much time.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
This is your.
There really is a lot of timer.
This is.
You're not attractive enoughfor me, right?
Okay, great, all right,stephanie, it's on you.
Nothing's happening on thetimer.
Oh, there it is.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
It's.
It's a 30.
It's a one.
Do we want to do 30 minutes?
I was just going to do it.
I was just going to do it bymyself.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I was just going to do it.
I was just going to do it by aminute, but you've already.
We're at 30 seconds All right.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Hold on, I got this.
I got this.
There's nobody here but us.
It's fine.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Also, you can totally start with that laugh and just
make it be laughing at them,okay, good.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
That's a good call.
I'm going to do it.
Are you looking at me right now?
I bet you think that I'm reallysexy, don't you?
Speaker 1 (19:35):
You are really really really hot yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
You're really fucking gross.
Oh yeah, nobody.
Nobody like you could get witha person like me ever, because
you're disgusting, you're stupidand you smell bad and I don't
want to have anything to do withthat.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Can I, like, I'll try , like I'll, I'll, I'll, I'll
try to fuck me.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
That would be awesome , I don't think you know how to
get a dick into a vagina.
That would just be embarrassingfor you.
You probably don't have much ofa penis to you.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
I mean it's there.
I don't think anybody.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, I can't imagine you being able to get into the
right position to be able to putit inside of a vagina.
Have you ever been used itbefore?
I mean, you might have thoughtyou used it before, but you were
probably using it wrong.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, I mean I guess I, I people aren't paying a lot
of it, but I would.
I would really love to try,like you're really hot.
I don't want you to touch me.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
I don't want you to touch me.
I'd have to like showerafterwards and get you off me in
some capacity is probably muchharder than I'm anticipating,
because your odor probably justlingers, doesn't it?
Yeah, do your friends holdtheir breath around you?
They probably don't tell youthat they do, but they probably
keep their distance and youdon't really know why.
You probably get really quickhugs, don't you?
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Nobody really holds you likeyou'd like to be held, because
you're a bag of garbage.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
I mean, okay, if I'll like, I'll go get it.
I just really still trying.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
That's so cute.
That's so cute and pathetic.
You're disgusting and pathetic.
You're just going to stand here.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
That was three minutes, good job.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Tosin, I love you because you had you like this
tiny smile on your face likethis tiny deviant smile.
You'd be like yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Yeah, no, I love it.
I was just like you know it's.
It's difficult currently, for Ican't do my normal response to
what occurs when that occurs,because there are people
watching and their normalresponse is to masturbate.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Oh, so thank you for that.
We didn't clear that up forbeforehand.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
No, because normally what I do, what I like I'm
requesting in those scenes islike I will push to be like you
know, I'm so pathetic, why isthis turning me on?
And that turns usually turnsinto like oh, like, normally.
When you said, it was like Idon't even know if you know how
to use it, and I was like well,you know, I'm kind of I'm
getting hard right now and itwas like I'll show you it's like
, and so then they'll just makefun of me and do that until
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we're done, and then it's, it'sbig fun.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Where was I?
On the scale of one to awesomedegradation, I'm going to guess
I'm going to put it at a four.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
Oh no it was better.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
It was definitely better.
Yeah, I would say it sounded tome.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
I'm going to be honest.
It sounded to me like you alsowanted to fuck him.
So that's lovely and great, butare you going to want to give
that vibe off to?
Speaker 2 (22:27):
you Did I sound like I wanted to fuck you too, and I
think that's just my voice.
To me it was like sexualchemistry.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
To me it looked to me it was.
I was getting the Mr and MrsSmith thing, which they did want
to fuck each other.
So, like that's, my only thingis like almost be careful about
being like oh, you think youwant to fuck me Because?
Do you want to say that to them?
Cause, then that scares mebecause I don't know these guys.
And what if it's like a?
She said yes.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
She said yes.
She said yes.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Yeah, I am definitely like I clear box it.
Like every time that I've beenreceiving a degradation scene,
I'm like I am not going to touchyou, I'm going to masturbate
and come on whatever we want meto and that's how we'll close it
.
And, like my normally, my thingis like I am less resilient
right after I orgasm.
(23:13):
So call it there and so and solike the like cause, the like I
to enjoy it generally, I need tobe aroused by it.
So like setting thoseboundaries are like good to do.
Like I just locked those up andme personally, that is perfect
for me.
Like it being 95% degradationwith a hint of like, but maybe
really kind of sorta is the.
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That's the exact flavor.
So for I would say, for mespecifically, it was like an 8.5
.
I would say yeah, I would say,for people who are looking for a
feeling of worthlessness, thatit would.
It's more like a six and thething that, the thing that I
would add is you, you'reenjoying yourself, right, like
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you're enjoying making them feelpathetic, and if they're, if
what they want is to feelworthless, you need to lean more
into actually being disgustedby them, and you're, oh, the
other thing, too, that I wouldsay is like you're leaning
comedically right, like you'resaying funny, degrading things
about them instead of cruel.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Oh, can you give me an example?
Speaker 1 (24:17):
So funny is I was like oh, I bet you still smell.
I bet you still smell evenafter you take a shower.
Cruel, is you know that?
You did you not know thatnobody talks to you because you
smell bad?
And I was like are you, are,and I'm seriously, are you that
dumb that you don't know that?
That's why nobody talks to you.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
And I was like, honestly, like until like a joke
is, and I was like you're luckyfor the pandemic because nobody
has to smell you and cruel is.
I was like I would rather get.
I would rather get COVID thanhave to be next to you.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Right, this is like next level villain training Like
this is this is hard.
This just became hard.
Speaker 3 (24:58):
That's what I think getting to know like some things
about them.
You know like that is an areaof life that they're struggling
in.
You could really lean into thatand hurt some feeling.
Okay.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
I'm gonna do it again .
I'm not gonna sound like Iwanna fuck you.
I'm gonna be genuinelydisgusted by you.
I'm trying to be cruel.
I'm trying to be cruel.
I'm gonna try to be cruel.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Trying to be mean, but I'm not gonna talk on this
one.
I'll let you rule.
I'll let you rule.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
Okay, I've noticed that you continually text me
despite the fact that I don'trespond, and that's largely
because your texts are fuckingstupid and uninspiring and you
say a whole bunch of bullshit,garbage that wastes my time.
On top of that, I am the fullpackage.
I am a 10 out of 10.
Fuck that.
I'm a fucking 100 out of 10.
(25:40):
So the thought that you couldsend me a dumb text message to
elicit a response is veryembarrassing for you.
Now let me explain something toyou.
When you're gonna shoot yourshot with a woman, you can't
come at her.
When you live with your parentsand you hate your job and
you're sad all the time becausethat's fucking stupid and I
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don't care, you should probablyget your shit together before
you try to get a reasonablewoman, because nobody no goddess
is going to be like yeah, I'mgonna respond to his text
message.
He lives with his parents, he'snot bettering himself, he
enjoys being a piece of shitgarbage.
I don't like piece of shitgarbage.
So I would absolutely love itif you left me the fuck alone
and stopped texting me, becauseyou will never, ever get a
(26:24):
response.
Bye.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
Cool, cool, cool.
So definitely on the scale oflike you're starting to have fun
with it is great.
Like I was, like you weregetting in a rhythm of it and
you were saying, like what feltgood to say?
And that's where you have toget right.
You have to get to the point inyour brain where it's like I
was like okay, there's somethinglike there's a reason we like
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villains or the reason we liketo watch them.
There's a reason it feels goodto like decide to not go by the
rules and be that to somebody.
Find that seat and then startenjoying it, you'll probably be
fine.
You were giving, you know,tough love, self-help vibes for
the most of it.
So again you were being like.
(27:15):
You were saying, like here arepositive things you could have,
but you can't because you're inthis position, not where you
would need to like if I were to.
How to take the cruelty toattend in that situation is you
know?
I hope you don't have any hopesand dreams that are comfortable
where you are at Like if youleft your house, you wouldn't
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make it.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
You're still a child.
Take it SNL, like, make it SNLlevel.
You know how they always justdramaticize it.
You know like even just take itas far as possible.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Tosen, you're so good at being cruel that never even
crossed my mind.
Speaker 1 (27:50):
I tried the skill set it takes to encourage people to
use the same skill set it takesto destroy them.
So I just don't use that sideunless it's helping them.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
Or they deserve it, which is rare.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
That one deserved it, but yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Okay, I'm gonna try it again.
I'll go real short.
I'll go real short.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
I'm totally gonna do a three round this time pick a
situation where you wish youcould have been cruel to someone
you know.
Don't mirror it exactly becausethat could be traumatizing, but
like find a piece of that tolatch onto, Okay.
Speaker 2 (28:20):
Gosh, I wish I was good at this, casey.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
You're gonna be brilliant on it cause you wanna
be good at it.
You're good at every singlething you do.
You're good at yeah, and I alsowanna state You'll get there.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
So far like if I was on the receiving end of any of
the situations that you justdiscussed.
I'm having a great time Like Iwas.
Like you know, the camera isappropriately placed and I was
like.
So I was like you're gettingthe job done for sure.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Are you saying you had the chubs?
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Specifically, I had the chubs, Especially the first
one.
The first one was like oh, I'ma struggling yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:58):
Okay, I don't believe in you.
Speaker 2 (29:01):
I just don't think there's much to you.
So it's not a good use of mytime to communicate with you in
any way or to be around you orto try and encourage you,
because you're just fuckinguseless.
You've tried to do so manythings and you fail at them all
and I think that's all you'regonna do.
The rest of your life isfucking fail.
(29:22):
You're here right now becauseyou wanna get turned on right,
but I have a feeling your dick'sreally tiny and you can't.
And you've probably been withcountless women and they're all
really fucking disappointed.
And you think you're reallycool at the things that you do
and you're so good and you're sosexy, but I love to be the one
(29:43):
to break it to you, to tell youthat you are terrible at what
you do.
That attitude of being soarrogant and in charge is a
fucking joke, because you'regarbage.
Nobody wants to be with you andit's embarrassing.
How's that?
How's that?
Yeah, that was good.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
We're getting the groove now.
Yes, see, the other benefitthat you're gonna have being in
person is you can also add inphysical elements, right?
So I had someone that I waswith a few times that was into
it and they're into the use mefor my body type of degradation
type things, and so one of thego-tos is making them repeat
(30:24):
degradating things back.
I'm like do degradating things?
And so one of my go-tos is likecome here, no, no, no, no, you
don't get to walk Crawl Allfours walk over here, I'm always
like, listen, if you're justholes for me, then I don't wanna
see you walking like a person,lay on the ground, stay right
there, don't do any of thosethings.
And if they'll start to talkand I was like mm-mm, I was like
(30:45):
you get to speak one word every30 seconds, because if I have
to keep listening to your voicefor too much longer, I'm not
gonna be okay.
So just one word every 30seconds.
And if you can't count 30seconds on your own, then I'll
show you how long 30 seconds is,and so stuff like that.
And so that helps give youthings to do.
If you are giving themdegrading tasks and telling them
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degrading things they can andcan't do is good.
And making them humiliatethemselves is also really good.
So you, at the end of that, Iwould have been like say, it say
it I'm not a good leader.
Be honest for the first time inyour entire life.
Speaker 2 (31:25):
Be real with yourself for once.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
Say it out loud I am garbage.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
I am a terrible leader.
Nobody wants to be with meTrying to help you get it sunk
in so that you don't have tokeep being embarrassed your
whole life.
Speaker 1 (31:38):
This is great.
Yeah, go write it down.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
I love degradation.
Go write it down, take notes.
It's because then you're gonnaforget later, because you're
stupid, so you'll wanna be ableto refer to them.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Hey, that was that was good.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Thanks, getting in groove figuring it out.
I love degradation class, yeahyeah.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
And then and again it .
You can only go so hard withpeople who don't have you don't
have a good foundation withright.
I'm never going to forget thatyou love me because you know
each other for so long, and sothat's not gonna be a problem.
The thing that I check for,like while I'm doing it, is
beforehand.
I'm always like hey, wearsensitive things.
Like my go-to is.
I was like don't make fun of myteeth.
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It's harder for me to stayresilient on that one.
Like that one gets past thehorny walls quickly.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
What does what does?
Speaker 1 (32:24):
Oh, like making fun of my teeth For your teeth.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
There's nothing wrong with your teeth.
I know, but Wait is it good toget past the horny wall, or bad.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
Horny wall is the wrong word I'm actually going to
be.
It's easier for that one toactually hurt my feelings than
other things right, and you wantthat or you don't want that.
Like you can call me, dependsright on what I'm looking for
that day.
Probably, in general, I don'twhen my feelings actually hurt,
cause I'm you know, we're ourconversation.
I am a status masochist, not anemotional masochist.
(32:55):
I don't actually like feelingbad or I don't get pleasure from
feeling bad.
I do get pleasure from feelingless than human or worthless,
like the fact that someone iscapable of like degrading me
that much.
That piece of like.
Oh, I don't have to do anything.
You know I'm a little pebbly,small dick, fat rock, and that's
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it Like a really small dick,fat rock.
Right, it's great right and butyou know you don't want to try
to unless that's what they'relooking for like actually hurt
somebody's feelings and I'mpretty wary of doing degradation
to people who are looking forme to like reinforce their
traumas.
He was like, oh, treat me theway that this person who abused
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me treated me, and I'm like no.
Not necessarily no, but like,let's talk, let's talk when?
Where are you at on that Cause?
That can get, that can getsticky.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
That and I just recently posted on FetLife for
the first time.
I had never done that because Ihad gotten several inboxes I
mean I say probably like 15different people and on multiple
different platforms Sendsomething along the lines of
describe your childhood spankinggrowing up, and I was like what
the fuck?
Like?
Nothing makes me click out of amessage quicker or block that
(34:15):
person faster, because, a mytrauma is not for your spank
bank and B all I wrote on in thepost was I don't know who needs
to hear this, but don't askpeople to describe their
childhood spankings.
That shit is weird andtriggering.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
And.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
I was shocked.
I mean, I got so much feedbackof like this, like this is
exactly exactly this.
Oh my God, it's the worst.
Then there were like fouridiots in there who are like
some people are turned on bytheir trauma how dare you?
And call me like self-centered,because I was like I'm not
judging those people who wannado that, but you have to find a
partner who is willing to go toyour most dramatic part of your
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life and recreate it.
And, honestly, it is really.
That is something really hardfor me to wrap my mind around.
I would never say it's not real, but I truly can't fathom
recreating something from thattrauma Like it's one thing to be
like okay, let's say you wereraped.
There are people who were rapedand then they go on to have
like a rape kink.
I would be surprised if therewere just loads of those people
(35:16):
who were like I wanna recreateexactly how it happened that
night or that day Like that'sjust something I wouldn't even
wanna be a part of.
For somebody Like that's askinga whole lot in my opinion.
So like I'm right there withTosen on that one.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Yeah, you know, I think so many things in our life
are that we wanna do are bornfrom our traumas and what we did
as children.
I think in kink, specifically,the mature, thoughtful people
that are trying to create scenesfrom that are being like let me
grab the pieces of this thatdid turn me on Right Cause, like
(35:53):
if you put it in a vacuum allby itself and you look at the
puzzle piece of it, then beinglike, okay, well, you know, I'm
turned on by fear and I likepower dynamics and I like being
surprised and like I'm gonnatake those three puzzle pieces
that are not the full map ofeverything that happened, but
like those three aspects of it Ienjoyed.
(36:14):
Let me not say those threeaspects of it I enjoyed.
Those are three things that Ilike and let me create something
out of that.
That's like I think that is afine and healthy way to go about
it.
You know, I've heard a story ofsomeone who does like having a
traumatic event in their liferecreated specifically and for
them it's because having beingable to organize it on their own
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terms is really, really helpfulfor them, and like they have a
lot of guidelines and rulesabout it.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Totally Like.
I would imagine that's not likea conversation starter for them,
though, if someone outrightdescribed what your trauma is
and that's what these peoplewere trying to say was fair that
these people wanted to ask methat and I'm like no, because
it's not.
If I had the idea that we weregonna be play partners or we
were gonna meet up, I getunderstanding getting to the
trauma part and eventuallyleading into it, but when you
(37:05):
are coming at it, that is, youhave a trauma kink, like you
wanna hear someone's trauma andthen you wanna use it to get
your rocks off, and I thinkthat's gross.
It is gross.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, definitely problematic, but, casey, I'm
excited for you.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
Yeah, I'm excited for you too, because I'm gonna get
really good at this.
I just wanna fuck you up.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
I'm a huge fan, my body's ready.
But yeah, the other thing, toois like, make sure that you're
enjoying it.
If the person being degraded isgonna spend a large part of the
front part of the capacitytaking care of you Because
you're doing the more harmfulthing, it's much easier to be
degraded than to degrade someoneand, in my opinion, if you're
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not a monster and so, so whenI'm being degraded the front
part of it I'm spending timemaking sure that they're okay,
which keeps me from enjoying thegetting degraded part of it.
So the easiest way to get outof that headspace is like, when
they start to cross that line,when they're getting into it, I
know that they're enjoyingthemselves.
(38:06):
And then it's like, yeah, nowwe're swimming in this, we're
vacationing in the pool of humancruelty together, which is fun
to do, which is vacationing in?
Speaker 2 (38:16):
the pool of human cruelty is what this episode is
gonna be called.
Speaker 1 (38:20):
Perfect, perfect.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
Yeah, amazing, that was awesome.
Thank you, friends, I thinkit's a good lesson.
Well, we've done that, so Ihave 15 FetLife messages in one
of my two accounts that we couldlook at IRL in real time.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
Please go to the one with the most.
Which one has the most, or 15between the two of them?
Speaker 2 (38:42):
No, no, 15, just in the domestic discipline one.
I haven't even looked at theDOM one, which is probably
filled with tripe.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
Literal pig intestines.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
Literal pig intestines, but I have the
domestic discipline, one openand it's less awesome than it
once was.
So my first one is welloriginally I was like.
These people are amazing.
They're like I can't hold it,and now I'm getting a different
vibe.
So my first one is the subjectis let's explore the
(39:14):
possibilities.
Hi, let's explore thepossibilities.
I enjoyed reading your profile.
I'd love to communicate withyou further and, if we agree to,
let's get together sometimesoon and see if we have a
chemistry.
Are you up for it?
Please let me know?
Thanks, Everyone feels realfaith.
Everyone feels real fake.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
Or it's just generic that person got me boosted and
sent that to.
Yeah, yeah, he just hit upeverybody with discipline.
Speaker 1 (39:39):
I'm gonna delete that .
Delete it 100%.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
And then, oh God, look it, I've got one of these
over here, no subject.
All it says is hey there, grossDelete, okay, next one.
Speaker 1 (39:54):
Oh, instead of deleting these, send all these
people your cash out.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
No, you can't do that .
Actually on FetLife oh, that'strue, amazing, all right.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
Another one, if I may ask, is a subject and it says
do you spank boys too?
Speaker 1 (40:07):
I don't hate that start.
Speaker 2 (40:09):
I'm gonna say I do, it's all I'm gonna say I do
spank boys.
Well, I deleted messages andthey've come back.
Oh, FetLife.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
Get your life together.
Here's another one, no subject,or are these?
Speaker 2 (40:19):
people sending the same thing.
No, it's the website.
It's terrible.
Here's another one.
No subject.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
Hi Governess.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
Do you use Bullwhips?
Whoa, not at the.
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Moment.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Do you use Bullwhips?
But I'll let you know if thatchanges.
I've thought about it.
I don't have time.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
That's a whole thing.
Yeah, do you want to know?
A?
Speaker 3 (40:45):
secret what I am very good at a bullwhip, are you?
I don't have the desire andcould never hit someone with it,
but I ever, since I watched thebehind the scenes of Michelle
Pfeiffer skip roping with abullwhip and then in one take,
whipping the heads off of likeeight mannequins.
And then she's skipping it getaway In one take.
(41:08):
She did that.
I have been fascinated and so Ihave one and I would love to
teach you.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
I am here for this.
I am here for it.
I love this.
Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (41:21):
That is a fascinating skill set.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
It sounds.
It's such a cool feeling whenyou finally get it down, because
you look like a moron up untilthe moment you, that it works,
understand how to make it crack.
Oh yeah, it's awesome.
It can be brutal, awesome.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
Okay, here's another one Again, because fuck subjects
.
Hi, how are you?
Was one message sent two weeksago.
I did not respond four days ago.
Do you think spanking is a goodpunishment or is more of a game
?
Speaker 1 (41:53):
Do you think this is a?
Speaker 2 (41:54):
game.
I'm just going to go ahead anddelete that Stupid conversation.
Okay, good morning at events.
Oh, this is somebody actuallygiving me information.
Ah, subject.
This one has a subject, oh wait.
Oh, this is somebody that wantsto get spanked.
That has messaged me threetimes and I have not responded,
(42:15):
so I will get back to that one.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
Yeah, it's good, it's good.
Speaker 2 (42:19):
Somebody who's actually a person who's like I
will trade things.
I will trade things for theservice.
Speaker 1 (42:25):
We'd like to see it.
Speaker 2 (42:27):
Then one guy just said hello, no punctuation.
I mean, at least it capitalizedthe age, but there's no subject
Does that ever?
Work, apparently because theykeep doing it, I don't know.
Anyways, delete.
Oh, here's one Paying myrespects.
Ma'am, love your pics.
You're a true disciplarian.
(42:48):
I completely respect and admirethat.
Texas is the spanking capitalof America.
People appreciate its value.
Speaker 3 (42:55):
Okay, that took a real, real, sharp turn.
Speaker 1 (43:01):
You had me in the first half.
Yeah me too.
Speaker 3 (43:05):
Right up until you love.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
corporal punishment on children Texas is the
spanking capital of America.
People appreciate its value asa behavior tool.
I see you are in Austin, alegendary university town.
Exclamation point Do Texas kidsover 18 ever seek you out when
they're growing up at school?
Thank you for your time.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
What if you're like, no, only under 18?
Speaker 2 (43:27):
No under 18.
He's 60.
He's 60 years old and he's amale spanko All.
Speaker 3 (43:32):
I can think is maybe he's joking around.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
Thank you for taking the time to read this E-letter.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
he said that's the most boomer thing I've ever
heard.
Speaker 2 (43:45):
I'm going to delete that.
Oh stupid, Delete.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
The thing that's cracking me up about it the most
is like is he trying to figureout if you're into school?
Corporal punishment.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
He should just ask, right.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
Yeah, I'm like it was like what secret thing are you
trying to?
I just think he doesn't knowhow to write E-letters.
I don't either way.
Speaker 3 (44:11):
E-letter.
Speaker 2 (44:12):
Email.
An electronic message oh my God, so silly.
All right.
This one is titled governessRune says I enjoy good spanking.
I am still daily new, but I'mconstantly naughty if naughty in
need of direction.
So it possible to learn moreabout you.
(44:34):
Wow, the grammar there is verysus.
Speaker 3 (44:39):
Where are they from?
Speaker 1 (44:41):
Hutto, hutto, texas, oh, come on.
Speaker 3 (44:45):
Okay, now go back and read it like white trash, Okay
hold on, I enjoy good spanking.
Speaker 2 (44:50):
I'm still daily new here but I'm constantly naughty
in need of direction.
Is it possible to learn moreabout you?
Yeah, there's that.
I'm going to respond and sayonly if you use proper grammar
and punctuation, and that's justembarrassing.
Speaker 1 (45:12):
I mean, he's going to think that you're setting up a
discipline situation.
Speaker 3 (45:17):
I shouldn't have said white trash, I should have said
southern.
Speaker 1 (45:22):
It's okay, everybody, all the disclaimers, we don't
know, all the people in Hutto, awhite trash, blah blah.
We care about human beings,relax.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
We're nice people.
Blah, blah, blah.
Speaker 1 (45:35):
Okay, that's what they do now.
No subject, no canceling.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Just canceling.
Hi, I'm the husband side of theaccount I will be an awesome
for working with.
I have been curious aboutswitching but don't want to
approach my wife until I am sure.
Do you have an opening on yourschedule?
What Hi, what Hi, I am thehusband side of the account.
(46:00):
I will be an Austin for workthe week of June 5th.
I have been curious aboutswitching but don't want to
approach my wife until I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
Do you think he?
Speaker 2 (46:08):
meant swinging.
No, he might mean he wants tobe the sub the bottom.
Speaker 3 (46:13):
But, he's the don with his wife and he doesn't,
but why does he need to approachher?
Speaker 1 (46:19):
Oh, okay, okay Okay.
I was reading that, as I don'tknow if I want to be a bottom.
That's what I was reading andI'm going to check with you
instead of I want a bottom formy wife, but before I would, I
don't want the first time Ibought him with my wife to be
with my wife, which I find moreacceptable.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
Unless he's not telling his wife.
Speaker 1 (46:41):
Well, I assume that if it's a joint account, so like
she can see the message oh,that's right.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
Oh, that's right, yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:46):
Hopefully.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (46:48):
a couple.
Does it look like it's acouple's account?
Speaker 2 (46:50):
No 37, female brat.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Well, I don't know.
I mean it's commonplace forcouples to share a fat life
account.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
Yeah, I said, I said I do.
Would you like my rate the two?
Speaker 3 (47:01):
people I know off the top of my head that do that.
Their accounts say that, butit's just one.
The other one does not evercheck the account or is even a
part of it, but they're.
They're.
Both of their profiles say thatOkay.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
This guy.
No subject, 29 switch male.
Hi there, How's it going?
I'm Arvin, by the way, I'mArvin, btw.
And then he sent me a pictureof himself and said that's me
Smiley face, peace fingers, cool.
Gonna delete that.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
Wait, wait, would you not like about that?
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Would I not like about it the picture.
I don't.
It's just stupid.
What am I supposed to do withthat?
I'm Arvin.
This is me.
This is what I don't like aboutit.
I don't know his intention.
All he did was send me apicture.
Why do I want his fuckingpicture?
Speaker 1 (47:52):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
Okay, fair enough.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
What am I supposed to do that?
Again, it's somebody who'strying to start a conversation
without doing the work of theconversation.
The only question was smalltalk.
He doesn't really care how it'sgoing, I know nothing about him
and he hasn't stated hisintentions or any sort of
interesting opener.
So he shot his shot and itsucked.
Speaker 1 (48:10):
Fell on the floor.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
Fell on the floor.
Also, who sends a photo withoutpermission?
On that life.
Speaker 3 (48:15):
Yeah, that's what I was thinking was the
non-consensual photo.
Speaker 2 (48:19):
Oh, that this one is nice.
Hello governance, hellogovernance.
You seem like a very delightfullady and I wanted to say hi.
Speaker 1 (48:25):
I mean, that's still like where do we go from here?
But that's better.
Speaker 2 (48:33):
I'm going to switch accounts.
This segment is Casey, oh, somy Check your messages so the
Hecate account, the DOM account,only has five messages and I
haven't been on it in quite sometime.
It's the most prized, okay, so?
Okay, well, that one's anactual conversation, so we won't
(48:54):
make fun of it.
Oh, this one's long and Ihaven't read it.
Let's see what it says.
This is hello, goddess Hecateis the subject.
Hello, hope you're doing welland all is okay.
I wanted to introduce myself toyou.
My name is ShimminiminaShimminma.
I am a submissive and will behonored to kneel before you and
submit to you.
I have been submissive for manyyears.
I am into a variety ofactivities and always willing to
(49:16):
try something new and exciting,I feel.
A few things I enjoy are footworship, spanking, being tied up
, cuffed, some humiliation andtorture, and more.
I wanted to see if you'relooking for someone to submit to
you.
Please, if you are, I would beinterested in being that person
if you give me the opportunity.
(49:37):
That was a long sentence withno punctuation.
Maybe you just want a footslave, maybe you want more and
you want me to make and you wantme at your mercy, or maybe you
want me doing your dishes andover-acumming.
I do need a house boy.
Please, if you're interested,I'm sure we can find a place for
me to submit to you.
I hope to hear from you soon.
(49:58):
Also, to answer the twoquestions I get asked the most
yes, I do have a job and I dohave a vehicle.
Yeah, I like it, that's great,that's great 47 switch.
Speaker 1 (50:08):
That's the stuff.
Speaker 2 (50:09):
Yeah, that's the stuff, it's the middle-aged men.
Speaker 1 (50:16):
They're ready for it.
Speaker 2 (50:17):
It's probably the best message I have received on
here.
I mean, it's still ridiculous,Don't get me wrong.
Oh, and then I have somebody afriend introducing me to
somebody who is looking for aDom, and I saw him at flipside
and he asked if he could introus.
Okay, get this.
So the guy on my domesticdiscipline account who said do
you think spanking is goodpunishment or is a game?
Also send that same message toHecate.
(50:41):
The one about Texas discipline.
No, no, no.
All he said was do you thinkspanking is good punishment or
is more of a game?
Speaker 3 (50:48):
Oh, what's his handle ?
Speaker 2 (50:49):
I'm sure you don't want to say it on I just deleted
it, but it's a picture of himon the back, from the back side,
with just his butt exposed likehe'd been spanked.
It's a little red.
Speaker 3 (50:58):
Isn't a great t-shirt .
Speaker 2 (50:59):
Anyways, that's my Fed accounts.
I hope everybody had a goodtime.
Oh, and somebody sent me afriend request and their profile
picture is oh, it's reallyweird looking sex.
I thought it was a foot in avagina, but it turns out it's.
I can't tell what whole hispenis is going in.
(51:19):
Yeah, tosin and Stephanie,you're just watching me like,
get closer to my screen as I tryto figure out what I'm looking
at.
Yeah, I don't like that profilepicture.
I'm just going to go ahead andmake more of that Anywho, I
guess I guess that's it for thisepisode.
Speaker 1 (51:36):
Boom.
Speaker 2 (51:37):
Unless anybody has anything they want to add.
Nope, no, all right, thanks fortuning into this episode of
Casey's Inbox.
And Casey learns to dumb allyou sexy beasts out there.
Speaker 3 (51:46):
I feel like that episode.
We should have charged peoplefor it.
Speaker 2 (51:51):
Somebody's going to get the chubs out there other
than Tosin.
I feel like they're going tolisten to this one over and over
, not just me.
Speaker 1 (51:56):
You're going to be in the chub gang everybody.
Speaker 2 (51:58):
I'm very excited about learning the bullwhip.
Stephanie, I am here for it.
Let's do that.
Yay, okay, I'm going to goahead and make all you sexy
beasts out there.
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Speaker 4 (52:52):
Because it just looks lazy, if you don't?
I?
Speaker 2 (52:53):
know it's a stupid formality, but you just look
lazy if you don't, Anyways bye,bye, bye.
Speaker 4 (53:01):
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No, why don't you?
Oh, why don't I?
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