February 14, 2023 • 25 mins
CHECK ME OUT!
EMAIL ANY QUESTIONS
Facebook/Instagram/Youtube:
Trinity's Intuitive Light and Tarot
Website:
EMAIL :
trinity@trinitystarot.com
SUPPORT MY PODCAST!
Cashapp: $MistressSaika
Music from Karl Casey @ White Bat Audio
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
(00:00):
problemas.
(00:14):
Okay.
Hey everybody and welcome to Talk It Out sessions.
(00:37):
Hi.
Welcome to today's talk about something geared towards my spiritualist, my psychics, my terror readers, things like that.
(01:09):
I got a Starbucks Frappuccino here, Mocha, the one in the glass.
Let's talk about it.
Let's talk about mental health as a practicing psychic, terror reader spiritualist.
If you do an energy exchange with other people, we are going to talk about your mental health.
(01:33):
A lot of people, if you listen to my podcast, you know that my podcast is about mental health psychology in conjunction with being a spiritualist.
And I feel like this is not talked about enough, honestly.
A lot of people do not understand that it's not just a spiritual aspect of being a reader that is taxing on one, like on a person that you get readings done with.
(02:06):
So again, you don't have to be a terror reader specifically, but just for the sake of like, just for like the ease of what I'm talking about, I'm just going to say reader, but this can be any spiritualist.
But this is not talked about enough. And the reason why I say this is not talked about enough amongst the spiritual community is that, yes, I understand that people spiritually attack us and things of that nature.
(02:33):
Yes, but what about your mental health?
Because if you think about it, if you're a terror reader or somebody that's like a psychic and you do not have any type of basic psychology or like basic like psychological practice and understanding behind you doing these readings,
(02:55):
you, you do not understand that the trauma dumping and it's not just about the energy exchange, but it's about the position that you put yourself in as a counselor, as a life coach, you become whatever that person wants you to be for them, a friend, a mother,
(03:19):
like a father, a brother, a sister. And if you have a basic understanding of psychology, if you take a Psych 101 class, you can understand that your mental health as a spiritual practitioner is very important to not only deliver as unbiased readings
(03:43):
and advice as you can, but it also gives you the tools to be able to kind of separate yourself and establish healthier boundaries between not only like yourself and your clients, but with overall how you respond to these people,
because you will find that when she'd been reading long enough, you do have people that use that use you as a therapist, instead of seeking one out. Like as for me, I have a degree in psychology, but I am not practicing as like a licensed therapist or social worker.
(04:23):
I'm not doing that. I'm more so on the side of like a motivational coach or a life coach. And I am not yet trained to diagnose and prescribe. But with my training, I am able to kind of really unpack that stuff and give you essentially a list of things to send you to a therapist
(04:49):
and be like, Hey, check out these people in your area and see if they work for you. Ask them about things that we touch on during our sessions. This is what I do during our spiritual guidance sessions.
And what I've come across with having my own set of clients is that you will find that your clients trauma dump on you. They they like to trauma bond with you. They like to establish such a deep and personal connection with you at a desperation that is unhealthy.
(05:24):
You know, they they use you as the scapegoat to not deal with their problems at hand. Despite the fact that you gave them the advice and things like that.
These people still come and attach themselves to you spiritually and now mentally. So now that this person has trauma dumped on you, you now feel as if you are obligated to kind of take care of them to kind of help them and save them.
(05:55):
And as a spiritualist, even though helping people is your calling as with being a social worker as with being a licensed therapist, you may feel need. You may you may feel like that's your your calling the need to help people.
But as with all things when you're dealing with that type of energy is that you have to understand there's only so much you can do as a spiritualist as a terror reader as a reader in general for these people.
(06:26):
And if you have somebody that is coming to you continuously and they have problems, they have problems, you offer solutions and they don't utilize the solutions or the guidelines that you give them to be successful.
Are you in that mental space enough to establish a boundary and to keep a boundary? Because at this point, yes, you're being paid for a service.
(06:49):
And that is the first thing a client will say a toxic client will say is why pay you so you need to do this.
The problem is with being paid for a service is that it is a service.
And what I mean by that is it is a service like yes, we serve you.
But at the end of the day, you're paying me for a service that you need.
(07:14):
A service is something that I have that you need but are unable to do yourself.
And if somebody is paying you for a service, they're paying you because you have something that they lack.
(07:35):
So with that with that exchange of that type of energy, they feel obligated.
They feel deserving because you are here to help me with my problem.
So I don't have to deal with them and do the work.
That's what I'm paying you for.
I'm paying you to tell me to serve me.
(07:57):
But again, like I said, the people are your clients may think that they are paying you to serve them when in our reality they're paying you for something that they need from you because they don't have it.
And you just kind of have to come to terms with the fact that you are providing a service that they need.
(08:19):
But if they're going to berate you and use you as a tool and not an actual human being, then that service no longer becomes a need.
It becomes a want.
And I want to make that clear.
When someone is paying for your service.
(08:43):
Something that they need, but they're treating you as a tool.
A robot, something that you can pick up and use all the time.
It is no longer a need.
It is a want.
They want that from you.
They no longer need it.
Especially if you have numerously time after time again, gave them the tools themselves.
(09:09):
You gave them the tools to service themselves.
And yet they don't want to.
They need the tools that you can give them.
They need the tools that you give them to service themselves, but they don't want to.
(09:30):
So now their need at that point becomes a want.
Meaning they want, say, want chips.
They want cookies.
They don't need chips.
They don't need cookies.
Especially in excess.
Because then it becomes unhealthy, right?
(09:51):
So as a reader, as a terror reader, there are signs as a practice spiritual practitioner in general.
And I'm not even talking about the spiritual side.
I'm talking about primarily the like the 3d psychological side of this.
At this point, if you're especially a new terror reader, if you don't understand these boundaries and you're worried about,
(10:14):
again, the 3d, the money, here's a little bit of a spiritual part.
If you're worried about the 3d part of this, which is the monetary value instead of your psychological and mental health,
you're going to continue dealing with these people treating you like a tool and treating you like a robot.
So you need to have a mentality that is healed enough and healthy enough to establish these boundaries and say,
(10:40):
no, I'm a human too.
And I want people that are also listening to this that get readings done,
that if you are paying for a service continuously and berating and badgering somebody,
again, a human being for their advice, for their readings, for their clarity,
(11:03):
something that is also mentally taxing and takes time.
Because with a therapist, it takes time to process this with you, to process your situation,
to give you advice that is the best for what you have going on, to make a plan with you, to make a plan of improvement.
(11:24):
That takes a lot of mental work on top of time to create that plan.
Depending on your, again, this is need based, so whatever you need, a lot of this takes time.
And a lot of this takes a lot of empathy and a lot of, I want to explain this,
(11:50):
it does take a lot of mental gymnastics to be able to help people that have different types of problems.
I've had clients stuck in abusive relationships.
I've had clients stuck in the cycle of narcissistic persons and karmics and things of that nature.
(12:11):
Although I can offer, although I can offer the spiritual advice, I still prefer to offer the 3D advice first.
Because as my background, I'm experiencing that on top of being a reader.
As a reader with no, talking to a reader with no like basic psychology background or knowledge of it,
(12:35):
it can be very hard to kind of establish that boundary and really kind of point out certain trigger points out of a client.
Because you know when a client is treating you bad, but there's also a build up to it.
That it's a little, it's a preview of seeing that if this client has, it's a matter of seeing if this client,
(13:08):
that gets readings from you about, let's say the same situation, if they are making progress or if they are not making progress.
How they are treating you, if they are rushing you, if they are doing these things.
So again, a lot of that on the reader themselves can be mentally taxing.
(13:30):
And if that, and if that reader does not know how to separate themselves from the 3D of this, I guess, job,
this can break that spiritualist down.
And like I said, this is especially for the ones that find that their favorite reader has taken hiatus for a certain amount of time.
(13:54):
This is what, this is the other side that I'm here to explain the other side of that.
Because a lot of you with, a lot of people that come to readers and spiritualists with certain problems,
these things are out of their scope.
It's out of their scope, they can provide intuitive insight. However, it's up to you to be able to discern whether this is a 5D problem or a 3D problem.
(14:25):
And not all readers or spiritualists are trained or have knowledge of dealing with certain situations and continually coming with certain situations.
Are is mentally taxing, especially if they realize that you are not actively trying to make progress.
(14:48):
So your reader will shut down, establish a boundary like I need a break.
Because a lot of you that are wanting answers are rushing things, you're rushing your reader, you're rushing your life for an answer.
And the ones that do tend to rush are the ones that are not actively making progress.
(15:16):
And I'll say this again so everybody can hear, including even my own clients, if you are rushing me or any other spiritualist,
I feel for a reading, you are not actively making progress in your own situation.
(15:38):
And there's a sense of desperateness behind it because one, it means you're not trusting the process,
you're not trusting yourself, meaning you need somebody to stand behind you and helicopter over you to watch you.
And the other thing is that you are not being patient because I've told plenty of people that are looking for love,
(16:07):
that money needs to be the focus, you need to focus on your business, you need to do this.
And they'd be like, so when am I going to get married?
What?
So I will, I gladly, if they're not like berating me, if they're very polite, I'll be like, hey, you know,
when I send them a room, like, hey, like, don't rush me, you know, this takes time.
(16:32):
If you need answers right away, then you would book a emergency reading, right?
And that's what, again, with any reader, most readers tend to have an emergency option where they get back to you within 24 to 48 hours.
But to get back to the point is that even with those types of readings where you can get the reading back right away,
(16:58):
if you're consistently booking that, your reader is exhausted at this point.
And again, it depends on how bad the situation they are reading for,
especially if it's a situation involved with a lot of negative energy,
it can be very draining spiritually and mentally to process that.
(17:21):
Because if you're saying to your reader, you're getting, you know, you're getting beat up in your relationship.
I'm not saying don't tell them, but I am saying that hearing that, especially maybe if that person is also with the reviews,
it can be, it can be hard because they do want to help you. The only thing is, is that they can only do so much to help you.
(17:46):
They want to help you, but they can only do so much to help you.
So that's why it's so important as clients and as a practitioner that you really need to be in a good mental space to read,
because you have clients that do not understand that you are a human being.
(18:07):
You have clients that straight see you as somebody they are paying for a service, you need to serve them.
You have something that they want and you need to give it to them.
They may not even need it, but they want it. So they want you to give it to them.
As a reader, a spiritualist that does energy exchange,
(18:29):
why do you guys need to make sure you have the mental fortitude to understand one basic psychology and two,
establish boundaries even at the loss of a client.
The money cannot be so important that you are willing to sacrifice your mental health to be abused by a client that needs you,
(18:56):
that says they need you, that they want you.
You know what I'm saying?
Which is why readers that are doing this for money primarily and not for like to help others heal,
it's very hard to kind of like see that because there's so much false hope that they give on top of,
(19:18):
I can only imagine the type of answers they can give when they're under duress.
And the reason I say that is a reader that's doing it for money is getting yelled at and screamed at,
they're going to give that client exactly what they want to hear,
(19:41):
even if that's not what they see because they want the money,
which in itself is very dangerous because the ones that are doing it for money do not have the mental fortitude to establish boundaries.
They only want the money, meaning they will tell you anything.
And when they start telling you anything, giving false advice, false clarity and false insight,
(20:07):
it then becomes dangerous for the client.
And now on the client side, you now have to understand that is this reader right for you
because they just told you the same thing like three different times, exactly not in variations.
Now this can depend on how often you get the readings like let's say you get them,
like Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and nothing's changed, of course nothing major is going to change.
(20:32):
There are going to be some differences, but overall it's not going to be very different versus if you got them week by week.
So as a client and a spiritualist, it is important to have, especially as the one doing the readings,
(20:54):
it's very important to have that mental fortitude and also to, if you can, have a basic understanding of psychology
because some of these clients do need a therapist.
Some of them do need a therapist.
You can go on my Facebook page and go through my reviews and even message these people if you want.
(21:17):
I've recommended my clients to go to therapy to help with shadow work, to help with unpacking trauma that I have seen within their reading
or in their birth chart because again, I've revealed things that are there, but it's up to you to really unpack them,
which is why I always recommend if I see something very triggering within a reading or within a birth chart,
(21:42):
I recommend my clients to go to therapy or even see a psychologist.
So that's pretty much it.
I hope this kind of helps.
I did want to talk about this because people don't seem to understand that mental health wellness
(22:05):
as a reader is very, very important because of the basis of what we do.
It does take a different type of mental fortitude and it does take you to be healed enough to really, really be able to establish boundaries
and not let people violate them, even if they are a client, because money is not that important to the ones that really, truly want to do this and help you.
(22:32):
But they are not so going to, they're not going to let you run over them, you know, they're not going to let you just treat them however they want.
They're not going to let you treat them like a tool, the ones that are mentally well enough to be doing this.
They're not going to argue with you.
They're going to explain in a very nice way, unless you essentially got them fucked up and you're cursing at them and doing like this.
(23:00):
And honestly, there are readers that just do not take being yelled at or berated.
They refund your money and they block you and that is it.
Because why are you violating a boundary for a service that you want?
If you're berating or yelling at somebody, you clearly do not want, you really don't need the reading at that point.
(23:21):
You want it.
And that person is clearly not even right for you.
So, and I mean unbarranted, I'm not talking about that the reader is being not communicating or whatever.
I'm not saying that.
I'm definitely saying like, these are the ones that are just kind of like, you, you, you, they think you view them as a view your reader as a tool.
(23:50):
Take a sip.
So, my voice is getting like really scratchy. I need to drink. I haven't drank like anything.
So, I hope this is kind of insightful. I did like talking about this. Y'all know I love talking about this stuff.
So, I hope to see you in the next episode.
(24:14):
And I love you guys so, so much.
And I will see you on the next episode of talking about sessions with Trinity. Be sure to follow me on Facebook, Instagram and YouTube at Trinity's and to the flight and tarot all one word.
Send any emails or suggestions to trinity at trinities tarot.com. All right. See you guys later.
(24:59):
Bye.
problemas.
(00:14):
Okay.
Hey everybody and welcome to Talk It Out sessions.
(00:37):
Hi.
Welcome to today's talk about something geared towards my spiritualist, my psychics, my terror readers, things like that.
(01:09):
I got a Starbucks Frappuccino here, Mocha, the one in the glass.
Let's talk about it.
Let's talk about mental health as a practicing psychic, terror reader spiritualist.
If you do an energy exchange with other people, we are going to talk about your mental health.
(01:33):
A lot of people, if you listen to my podcast, you know that my podcast is about mental health psychology in conjunction with being a spiritualist.
And I feel like this is not talked about enough, honestly.
A lot of people do not understand that it's not just a spiritual aspect of being a reader that is taxing on one, like on a person that you get readings done with.
(02:06):
So again, you don't have to be a terror reader specifically, but just for the sake of like, just for like the ease of what I'm talking about, I'm just going to say reader, but this can be any spiritualist.
But this is not talked about enough. And the reason why I say this is not talked about enough amongst the spiritual community is that, yes, I understand that people spiritually attack us and things of that nature.
(02:33):
Yes, but what about your mental health?
Because if you think about it, if you're a terror reader or somebody that's like a psychic and you do not have any type of basic psychology or like basic like psychological practice and understanding behind you doing these readings,
(02:55):
you, you do not understand that the trauma dumping and it's not just about the energy exchange, but it's about the position that you put yourself in as a counselor, as a life coach, you become whatever that person wants you to be for them, a friend, a mother,
(03:19):
like a father, a brother, a sister. And if you have a basic understanding of psychology, if you take a Psych 101 class, you can understand that your mental health as a spiritual practitioner is very important to not only deliver as unbiased readings
(03:43):
and advice as you can, but it also gives you the tools to be able to kind of separate yourself and establish healthier boundaries between not only like yourself and your clients, but with overall how you respond to these people,
because you will find that when she'd been reading long enough, you do have people that use that use you as a therapist, instead of seeking one out. Like as for me, I have a degree in psychology, but I am not practicing as like a licensed therapist or social worker.
(04:23):
I'm not doing that. I'm more so on the side of like a motivational coach or a life coach. And I am not yet trained to diagnose and prescribe. But with my training, I am able to kind of really unpack that stuff and give you essentially a list of things to send you to a therapist
(04:49):
and be like, Hey, check out these people in your area and see if they work for you. Ask them about things that we touch on during our sessions. This is what I do during our spiritual guidance sessions.
And what I've come across with having my own set of clients is that you will find that your clients trauma dump on you. They they like to trauma bond with you. They like to establish such a deep and personal connection with you at a desperation that is unhealthy.
(05:24):
You know, they they use you as the scapegoat to not deal with their problems at hand. Despite the fact that you gave them the advice and things like that.
These people still come and attach themselves to you spiritually and now mentally. So now that this person has trauma dumped on you, you now feel as if you are obligated to kind of take care of them to kind of help them and save them.
(05:55):
And as a spiritualist, even though helping people is your calling as with being a social worker as with being a licensed therapist, you may feel need. You may you may feel like that's your your calling the need to help people.
But as with all things when you're dealing with that type of energy is that you have to understand there's only so much you can do as a spiritualist as a terror reader as a reader in general for these people.
(06:26):
And if you have somebody that is coming to you continuously and they have problems, they have problems, you offer solutions and they don't utilize the solutions or the guidelines that you give them to be successful.
Are you in that mental space enough to establish a boundary and to keep a boundary? Because at this point, yes, you're being paid for a service.
(06:49):
And that is the first thing a client will say a toxic client will say is why pay you so you need to do this.
The problem is with being paid for a service is that it is a service.
And what I mean by that is it is a service like yes, we serve you.
But at the end of the day, you're paying me for a service that you need.
(07:14):
A service is something that I have that you need but are unable to do yourself.
And if somebody is paying you for a service, they're paying you because you have something that they lack.
(07:35):
So with that with that exchange of that type of energy, they feel obligated.
They feel deserving because you are here to help me with my problem.
So I don't have to deal with them and do the work.
That's what I'm paying you for.
I'm paying you to tell me to serve me.
(07:57):
But again, like I said, the people are your clients may think that they are paying you to serve them when in our reality they're paying you for something that they need from you because they don't have it.
And you just kind of have to come to terms with the fact that you are providing a service that they need.
(08:19):
But if they're going to berate you and use you as a tool and not an actual human being, then that service no longer becomes a need.
It becomes a want.
And I want to make that clear.
When someone is paying for your service.
(08:43):
Something that they need, but they're treating you as a tool.
A robot, something that you can pick up and use all the time.
It is no longer a need.
It is a want.
They want that from you.
They no longer need it.
Especially if you have numerously time after time again, gave them the tools themselves.
(09:09):
You gave them the tools to service themselves.
And yet they don't want to.
They need the tools that you can give them.
They need the tools that you give them to service themselves, but they don't want to.
(09:30):
So now their need at that point becomes a want.
Meaning they want, say, want chips.
They want cookies.
They don't need chips.
They don't need cookies.
Especially in excess.
Because then it becomes unhealthy, right?
(09:51):
So as a reader, as a terror reader, there are signs as a practice spiritual practitioner in general.
And I'm not even talking about the spiritual side.
I'm talking about primarily the like the 3d psychological side of this.
At this point, if you're especially a new terror reader, if you don't understand these boundaries and you're worried about,
(10:14):
again, the 3d, the money, here's a little bit of a spiritual part.
If you're worried about the 3d part of this, which is the monetary value instead of your psychological and mental health,
you're going to continue dealing with these people treating you like a tool and treating you like a robot.
So you need to have a mentality that is healed enough and healthy enough to establish these boundaries and say,
(10:40):
no, I'm a human too.
And I want people that are also listening to this that get readings done,
that if you are paying for a service continuously and berating and badgering somebody,
again, a human being for their advice, for their readings, for their clarity,
(11:03):
something that is also mentally taxing and takes time.
Because with a therapist, it takes time to process this with you, to process your situation,
to give you advice that is the best for what you have going on, to make a plan with you, to make a plan of improvement.
(11:24):
That takes a lot of mental work on top of time to create that plan.
Depending on your, again, this is need based, so whatever you need, a lot of this takes time.
And a lot of this takes a lot of empathy and a lot of, I want to explain this,
(11:50):
it does take a lot of mental gymnastics to be able to help people that have different types of problems.
I've had clients stuck in abusive relationships.
I've had clients stuck in the cycle of narcissistic persons and karmics and things of that nature.
(12:11):
Although I can offer, although I can offer the spiritual advice, I still prefer to offer the 3D advice first.
Because as my background, I'm experiencing that on top of being a reader.
As a reader with no, talking to a reader with no like basic psychology background or knowledge of it,
(12:35):
it can be very hard to kind of establish that boundary and really kind of point out certain trigger points out of a client.
Because you know when a client is treating you bad, but there's also a build up to it.
That it's a little, it's a preview of seeing that if this client has, it's a matter of seeing if this client,
(13:08):
that gets readings from you about, let's say the same situation, if they are making progress or if they are not making progress.
How they are treating you, if they are rushing you, if they are doing these things.
So again, a lot of that on the reader themselves can be mentally taxing.
(13:30):
And if that, and if that reader does not know how to separate themselves from the 3D of this, I guess, job,
this can break that spiritualist down.
And like I said, this is especially for the ones that find that their favorite reader has taken hiatus for a certain amount of time.
(13:54):
This is what, this is the other side that I'm here to explain the other side of that.
Because a lot of you with, a lot of people that come to readers and spiritualists with certain problems,
these things are out of their scope.
It's out of their scope, they can provide intuitive insight. However, it's up to you to be able to discern whether this is a 5D problem or a 3D problem.
(14:25):
And not all readers or spiritualists are trained or have knowledge of dealing with certain situations and continually coming with certain situations.
Are is mentally taxing, especially if they realize that you are not actively trying to make progress.
(14:48):
So your reader will shut down, establish a boundary like I need a break.
Because a lot of you that are wanting answers are rushing things, you're rushing your reader, you're rushing your life for an answer.
And the ones that do tend to rush are the ones that are not actively making progress.
(15:16):
And I'll say this again so everybody can hear, including even my own clients, if you are rushing me or any other spiritualist,
I feel for a reading, you are not actively making progress in your own situation.
(15:38):
And there's a sense of desperateness behind it because one, it means you're not trusting the process,
you're not trusting yourself, meaning you need somebody to stand behind you and helicopter over you to watch you.
And the other thing is that you are not being patient because I've told plenty of people that are looking for love,
(16:07):
that money needs to be the focus, you need to focus on your business, you need to do this.
And they'd be like, so when am I going to get married?
What?
So I will, I gladly, if they're not like berating me, if they're very polite, I'll be like, hey, you know,
when I send them a room, like, hey, like, don't rush me, you know, this takes time.
(16:32):
If you need answers right away, then you would book a emergency reading, right?
And that's what, again, with any reader, most readers tend to have an emergency option where they get back to you within 24 to 48 hours.
But to get back to the point is that even with those types of readings where you can get the reading back right away,
(16:58):
if you're consistently booking that, your reader is exhausted at this point.
And again, it depends on how bad the situation they are reading for,
especially if it's a situation involved with a lot of negative energy,
it can be very draining spiritually and mentally to process that.
(17:21):
Because if you're saying to your reader, you're getting, you know, you're getting beat up in your relationship.
I'm not saying don't tell them, but I am saying that hearing that, especially maybe if that person is also with the reviews,
it can be, it can be hard because they do want to help you. The only thing is, is that they can only do so much to help you.
(17:46):
They want to help you, but they can only do so much to help you.
So that's why it's so important as clients and as a practitioner that you really need to be in a good mental space to read,
because you have clients that do not understand that you are a human being.
(18:07):
You have clients that straight see you as somebody they are paying for a service, you need to serve them.
You have something that they want and you need to give it to them.
They may not even need it, but they want it. So they want you to give it to them.
As a reader, a spiritualist that does energy exchange,
(18:29):
why do you guys need to make sure you have the mental fortitude to understand one basic psychology and two,
establish boundaries even at the loss of a client.
The money cannot be so important that you are willing to sacrifice your mental health to be abused by a client that needs you,
(18:56):
that says they need you, that they want you.
You know what I'm saying?
Which is why readers that are doing this for money primarily and not for like to help others heal,
it's very hard to kind of like see that because there's so much false hope that they give on top of,
(19:18):
I can only imagine the type of answers they can give when they're under duress.
And the reason I say that is a reader that's doing it for money is getting yelled at and screamed at,
they're going to give that client exactly what they want to hear,
(19:41):
even if that's not what they see because they want the money,
which in itself is very dangerous because the ones that are doing it for money do not have the mental fortitude to establish boundaries.
They only want the money, meaning they will tell you anything.
And when they start telling you anything, giving false advice, false clarity and false insight,
(20:07):
it then becomes dangerous for the client.
And now on the client side, you now have to understand that is this reader right for you
because they just told you the same thing like three different times, exactly not in variations.
Now this can depend on how often you get the readings like let's say you get them,
like Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and nothing's changed, of course nothing major is going to change.
(20:32):
There are going to be some differences, but overall it's not going to be very different versus if you got them week by week.
So as a client and a spiritualist, it is important to have, especially as the one doing the readings,
(20:54):
it's very important to have that mental fortitude and also to, if you can, have a basic understanding of psychology
because some of these clients do need a therapist.
Some of them do need a therapist.
You can go on my Facebook page and go through my reviews and even message these people if you want.
(21:17):
I've recommended my clients to go to therapy to help with shadow work, to help with unpacking trauma that I have seen within their reading
or in their birth chart because again, I've revealed things that are there, but it's up to you to really unpack them,
which is why I always recommend if I see something very triggering within a reading or within a birth chart,
(21:42):
I recommend my clients to go to therapy or even see a psychologist.
So that's pretty much it.
I hope this kind of helps.
I did want to talk about this because people don't seem to understand that mental health wellness
(22:05):
as a reader is very, very important because of the basis of what we do.
It does take a different type of mental fortitude and it does take you to be healed enough to really, really be able to establish boundaries
and not let people violate them, even if they are a client, because money is not that important to the ones that really, truly want to do this and help you.
(22:32):
But they are not so going to, they're not going to let you run over them, you know, they're not going to let you just treat them however they want.
They're not going to let you treat them like a tool, the ones that are mentally well enough to be doing this.
They're not going to argue with you.
They're going to explain in a very nice way, unless you essentially got them fucked up and you're cursing at them and doing like this.
(23:00):
And honestly, there are readers that just do not take being yelled at or berated.
They refund your money and they block you and that is it.
Because why are you violating a boundary for a service that you want?
If you're berating or yelling at somebody, you clearly do not want, you really don't need the reading at that point.
(23:21):
You want it.
And that person is clearly not even right for you.
So, and I mean unbarranted, I'm not talking about that the reader is being not communicating or whatever.
I'm not saying that.
I'm definitely saying like, these are the ones that are just kind of like, you, you, you, they think you view them as a view your reader as a tool.
(23:50):
Take a sip.
So, my voice is getting like really scratchy. I need to drink. I haven't drank like anything.
So, I hope this is kind of insightful. I did like talking about this. Y'all know I love talking about this stuff.
So, I hope to see you in the next episode.
(24:14):
And I love you guys so, so much.
And I will see you on the next episode of talking about sessions with Trinity. Be sure to follow me on Facebook, Instagram and YouTube at Trinity's and to the flight and tarot all one word.
Send any emails or suggestions to trinity at trinities tarot.com. All right. See you guys later.
(24:59):
Bye.
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com
The Herd with Colin Cowherd
The Herd with Colin Cowherd is a thought-provoking, opinionated, and topic-driven journey through the top sports stories of the day.