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Alright guys, what's up, what's up, what's up?
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This is Trinity and this is Talk It Out Sessions with Trinity.
Bear with me guys, I'm gonna try and get my, um, my audio quality fixed a little bit.
I did rearrange my office so I might have to redo it again so that way the noise is
not sounding like I'm in the bathroom or something.
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I kinda don't like it but bear with me.
Anyway, welcome to episode 2 of Talk It Out Sessions with Trinity.
We're actually gonna talk about something that people don't seem to consider when they
are looking for a reader and even readers themselves.
So I'm actually gonna talk about the practitioners or the readers themselves.
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So how many of y'all went to a tarot reader and they told you some papacocky BS that sounded
like they're projecting on the you but they're making it your problem.
Like just by a show of hands, just raise your hand.
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I can't see y'all but high five.
So I've actually had this, like when I first started having other people read my tarot,
and let me tell you something, I only go to one reader, been going to the same reader
for five years now, she hit every single time and I never had any problems with her.
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A lot of y'all don't realize that some of these readers are just out here reading and
reading and reading and they have not experienced even a fraction of what they are telling you,
what they are telling you to do, things of that nature.
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You might even have a reader tap into your energy and they have a whole bunch of bad
shit happen to you.
This person probably puts a mojo on you and things like that.
Now like I said, how many of y'all went to a tarot reader or a psychic and it sounded
like they were projecting some shit that they experienced onto you.
That can be a thing.
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Just like with a therapist or a doctor, you have to vet your tarot reader as well.
You have to vet this person.
I talk about this on my Facebook quite a bit and people don't seem to get with the program.
Now the thing is, going to all these different readers is not just a problem, it's a problem
within yourself because you're searching for validation to answer that you know is inherently
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wrong.
But if you happen across the wrong reader and they predict maybe like one or two things,
but let's say this reader is not healed in the aspect of yes, they understand the cycle
of an abusive relationship.
Yes, they understand the cycle of toxicity and karmic and twin flame and soul mates and
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things like that.
You can tell this person your whole life story and they'll say, yeah, that person's fine
for you.
Y'all supposed to get married and things like that.
Or they say the opposite.
You get into a fight with your caring and loving boyfriend, husband, girlfriend, wife, partner
of so many years and this person tells you, oh, well, that sounds like some blah, blah,
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blah, blah, blah.
You don't see the car.
You're just trusting them to tell you the right thing and give you some genuine kindness.
You're supposed to find out this person is still in an abusive relationship.
They're still in a marriage that is toxic.
They're still like, they're still scamming.
They're still broke.
They're still doing, they're still doing and I hate using a little vibrational because
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it's like, it sounds like a punishment, but they're still doing things that do not align
with what they are doing, which is supposed to be healing and guiding others.
So be careful of that when you start to touch your readers because you do have readers that
are trying to heal and they themselves are unhealed.
Now the thing about an unhealed reader, this is a reader that will tell you whatever they
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want, whatever you want, whatever anybody wants.
There is no connection to the source.
There is no connection to the divine.
It is just a straight shot, either I'm going to ruin your life, curse you so that I can
be better or give you the wrong guidance or do like something is benefiting that reader.
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So whether it's telling you, yes, this person will come back or yes, this is your person.
So that way when something falls out, you come right back to them, you pay them more
money and et cetera, et cetera, scam, right?
So like I said on the other half, you just have people reading, how, reading the cards
however they want.
And I'm not talking about just Google paste.
I'm talking about they hear something similar to what they experience or friend experience.
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They apply it to your situation and they'd be like, well, it got to be this.
All right.
So just be careful with that because how you identify this type of person can vary.
You will know if you have like a reader that's like kind of scammy or just generally reading
unhealed is that this person, number one, first and foremost, they tell you exactly
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what you want to hear.
You will hear that with a scammer.
You will hear that with a bullshit Google reader.
You will hear that with a reader that's trying to get more money about it.
You've got to, that is preying upon you.
So quite often it's easy to identify them, but the trade off is if you are desk, if you
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are in a desperate situation yourself, you're not really going to understand what this person
is doing to you.
So you don't necessarily vet that reader because you're in the state of disorganization and
desperation that you go to any reader that tells you that on YouTube or Facebook that
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seems like they tell you exactly what they, you know, what you want to hear and they tell
you and then when things don't pan out, well shit, what are you going to do?
So to, like I said, to identify that, be careful of readers that are telling you exactly what
they want, exactly what you want to hear, them to verbatim.
Same with Google readers that kind of, you know, they got that shit off like Cafe astrology
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or some shit.
Another way to kind of identify a unhealed reader is that they don't necessarily give
you the advice or tools to better yourself.
Everything is either picture perfect or very, I want to say very negative because the tarot
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is very, very ratchet.
They are horrible.
They will punch you in the face, knock you down just to bill you back to the military,
the tarot cards of the military.
I'm sorry.
If everything is insanely perfect, picture perfect or if it's always bad, like, ah, you're
cursed.
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You're going to be cursed if you don't do this or, oh yes, this person is perfect for
you and you're going to get married in X amount of months and they will come in a ring and
blah, blah, blah.
These are the type of reads that I'm talking about.
A normal reading is going to change over time because as you are getting that reading, that
reading itself is influencing your future decisions, whether you realize it or not.
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There have been many times I've read for people and they kind of like don't believe that it's
going to happen and they'd be like, oh, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Yeah.
And they put it in the back of their mind.
Others, if it's kind of more for warning, they'll be, they'll kind of like put it in
that little section of the brain like, okay, this is a sure point, like watch out for this.
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This can very much determine like those type of reading, like real readings will change.
People don't realize that they're still influenced by the reading because you may have done one
thing and you may have completely ignored that reading.
You may have like, this shit ain't going to happen.
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And then when it does happen, it's like, oh shit, she did say that.
Or the alternative, you take this person's advice during the reading and you do a complete
and you have that uplifting positive outcome.
They say you were going to have, but it's because you took like a different direction.
Other people, like I said, if it's a warning, we put in that section of the brain in their
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brain kind of find out they had a trigger point and they leave that situation or they
leave the relationship or whatever.
And then something subsequently happens either with that person or they do something else
to somebody else after they leave.
And your reading changes entirely, but that person on the receiving end of you leaving
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has a completely different outcome.
If you get what I'm saying, and I might be confusing myself, but like, but I say this
to say that you will not get the same reading every single time unless you are doing something
significant enough to not make progress.
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So that is the thing.
And then even then it still won't be the exact same reading.
There will be very little variations, but the ultimate message will be the same.
And that also can depend on how often you get those.
So if you get them every day, not much is going to change.
Every week, a little bit of something might change every month or so something will significantly
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change unless you are dead stop not doing anything.
So I would say over like about a month is a good time to really get something like reread
because that is enough time to see if something has changed.
Now if after let's say two or three months, you keep getting the same, demnere exact same
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reading with no type of little variation, then that says something about the reader
themselves because if you're getting the exact same reading, no matter what time it is a
week, a couple days, a month, a year, that is when you need to realize like there's something
going on with that reader and you need to question them.
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You need to vet them and be like, Hey, like what's really going on?
So like I said, real readers will have some sort of variety or something to them.
There will be something that has changed.
There'll be something that no matter how minute or small it is, there will be an aspect of
change to them.
And the only significant thing that will stop a reading from changing from like a genuine
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healer or a reader is you not doing anything.
And I'll say this, a reader will pick up on that.
They will pull the cards and be like, this is the exact same thing.
I told you the last reading, what did you do?
And they will either give advice or terminate the reading or whatever, like whatever their
policy is.
So that's another way you can kind of identify like a scammer or like even just an unhealed
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reader because again, it'll be very horrible or very perfect and it will be consistently
very horrible or consistently very perfect or you'll have to extremes.
So there's that.
Now to really kind of just drive this home, this is a very short podcast, to just really,
really keep an eye out for these types of readers because when you're reading as an
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unhealed, like as an unhealed reader, when you're reading as like somebody who is unhealed
and I was unhealed at some point, it took me a while to kind of really start tapping
into that healthier collective energy that wants to better themselves.
It took a while because when you are reading unhealed, you attract a certain clientele
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because this is what your energy is exuding.
So if you find yourself attracted to certain readers, it is where your energy is at that
time.
And I made a post about this on my Facebook.
When you are attracted to certain readers, that is where your energy is at that time.
So it is normal to outgrow your reader.
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It is normal to not get a lot of readers for long because if you are taking the advice
of that reader, you are growing.
Now depending on the types of readers you go to after that, if you go to a reader that
is focusing on love readings and things like that and karmic and blah blah, then that means
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that is where your energy is.
But if you are going to a reader that gives you that tough love or they tell you how to
heal, they tell you how to do this, they tell you hey you know like you are fucking up,
that is where you are at right now.
You are looking for that motivation to be better and better and better and once you
hit that point, you look for somebody else or you continue on with your life because
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nothing is really happening.
So there is another way to be able to tell or like vet your reader.
It is normal for you to outgrow or to move on from a reader even if you had the same
reader for years like I have.
I still get readings from her but the crazy part is I don't get the same type.
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I normally get my readings about career and if love pops up fine but it is not really
what I am looking for.
So I do kind of keep it in my mind but like I said, readers will be where you are when
you are attracted to a certain reader, they will be where you are at.
So if you are attracting an unhealed reader or this is kind of like who you are drawn
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to, you need to kind of also look at where you are at in your own journey.
Why am I attracted to this type of person?
What are they talking about?
What are they saying?
What are they saying?
Are they saying things that I like?
Are they saying things that I want to hear?
You don't like something from a reader.
It's not because they want you, it's not because like oh yeah they just want me to fail or
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something like that.
They are being negative all the time.
It's not that.
This is just where their collective is that they report.
It's just where their collective is.
If you just so happen to cross this reader, then they have specific messages for you but
you might not be ready to receive those.
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That's another thing.
So people will also be quick to call them unhealed but there's a flip to that.
You may be quick to call a reader unhealed because it's all negative and things like
that but yeah, remember why did you come across this reader?
Why did spirit kind of put this person on your radar?
What is the message that you need to hear from them to make you realize oh my god this
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is negative?
Negative, negative, negative.
It's not really that I like that but I mean like if they're saying well you need to do
the work, you need to get your shit together before you do anything else, well that's not
necessarily negative.
That's kind of a call out.
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So this is kind of like a collective of finding and vetting your readers and things like that.
It is a very dangerous thing to be reading for a certain collective if you're not in
that space.
Like I said, I was an unhealed reader at one point, meaning I attracted a certain collective.
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So when I was in that desperate reading every day, my wake up call was I joined this terror
reading group.
My wake up call was that I joined this terror reading group and this girl got a reading
from me and it was very accurate.
Cool, cool, cool.
She was chasing after her boss or something.
Her boss was making googly eyes or whatever.
She was very attracted to getting a lady as well.
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I realized that's what I was doing with my twin flame that didn't want me.
Because what I mean to tell you, she asked me for a reading every single day.
Every single day, no matter what time it was, she would blow my phone up back to back to
back.
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I had to put my stuff on do not disturb and I had to block her.
But it came to the point where I had to block her because she didn't respect my abilities.
So what I mean to say, like she kept asking for readings from the same person, from the
same this, what does he like me?
Does he love me?
What does this mean?
What does that mean?
What is this featured for toe?
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And that situation kind of made me sit back and like think like, and I was very desperate
to become famous as a reader, a reader on top of that.
So I also had to reevaluate like the type of clientele was attracting and did I want
this type of clientele?
Did I want to attract this type?
Where was I yet in my healing journey where I was still acting like my clients and you
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still get a few like you still get a few like desperate or annoying ones.
And I'm not saying like, oh, like all my clients are like, no, I'm not saying that, but you
get a few that's stuck in the cracks that are just kind of like not where you're at.
So it's so it was like I had to really reconsider where I was at in my journey.
Like, is this how I was acting?
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Like for real?
Oh, no, baby, I had to get my shit together.
You know, I was dating somebody at the time that was showing me and love and affection
and mirroring mirroring my client situation.
I didn't even realize why I was mirroring my client situation.
I didn't even realize until she started blowing me up because that's what I did with other
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readers.
I'm like, oh, that's something I need to.
So I took a break.
I really took those like a break from reading for like one or two weeks.
And I really sat with myself.
These are top of clientele I'm attracting.
And it's the same.
It's like I said, it's opposite.
You know how they say hurt people hurt people and shit like that.
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It's kind of like that for the for the readers.
You you are attracted and you attract where you're at in your vibration or your level
of consciousness.
I'll say so because I was in a desperate energy.
I was attracting those type of people to get their readings done.
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So as I grew and healed, I started changing the collective I attracted.
So now in let's in 2023, I attract a completely different collective.
I attract the collective that is interested in astrology, that's interested in trauma
healing, that is interested in those little nuances that I tie into psychology and astrology
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with.
So like I said, I say all this to say that on here, like readers reading unhealed is
a very dangerous thing because those are for you and that person's because if you don't
realize you're attracting that type of narcissistic, abusive behavior into your any that really
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has an effect on your energy and your level of consciousness for the reader and for you
as a client.
It's very important for your reader to be at that point in their journey to be, I guess,
good enough or healed enough to understand number one, their own bias, number two, their
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own healing journey.
And number three, not everybody's going to be ready to be healed just yet.
So I guess the bonus number four is like not everybody's feeling journey is the same, right?
The pace is not the same.
But like I said, it's like an aspect of like it's psychology.
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So it's something to really, really think about when you are trying to vet your reader.
I am not for everybody, but I am for the general, I am for the collective that are kind of stuck
but they don't know where to go.
They want to learn more, but they just don't know how I can provide that for them.
But if you're asking me to kind of hold your hand, I'm not, I'm not with that because I
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have to learn the hard way.
Now I can mold myself to, you know, be a little bit more sensitive.
I'm kind of, I am like a little, I'm like a four or five on a harsh scale.
I know readers are complete savages, complete savages.
Okay.
And the reader I go to complete savage.
If you're not ready to hear that, she is not for you.
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So I hope you guys enjoyed this, like this episode.
I did kind of jump all over the place, but I just really want to kind of touch on this
because it's so important.
No one really thinks about vetting a terror reader or a psychic.
Like, and it's not vetting them in a way that you think it's not confirming or denying if
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they're just so real.
No, it's confirming, it's confirming that this person has your best interest in mind
in guiding you into the right direction to see better yourself.
And if you are, if you're going to an unhealed reader and you're unhealed, there's a recipe
for disaster.
So I hope this helps you guys.
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I will see you guys in the next episode.
I will see you next week.
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