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 Most men think turning a woman on is all about physical touch—but what if I told you that the right words could make her crave you, fantasize about you, and get wet just from hearing your voice? In this episode, we’re diving into the science of verbal arousal, breaking down exactly what to say, how to say it, and the biggest mistakes men make that kill the mood. If you’ve ever wondered why some guys have women hanging onto their every word while others get ignored, this is the episode you can’t afford to miss. 

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do the sex.
Welcome to Masturbation Mondaywith me, annette Benedetti, your
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Masturbation Monday is a guideto self-pleasure, better sex and
using the power of the pussy toopen new doors to a better life
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Today's podcast episode is howto make her wet with words.
Most men think that turning awoman on is all about touch, but

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what if I told you that youcould make her wet, turned on
and get her to crave you withwords alone?
It sounds like magic, right?
Well, it's not science and bythe end of this episode you are
going to know exactly how to doit.
But before we dive in, I wantto remind you that I'm on
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You can also email me atAnnette at TalkSexWithAnettecom.
All right, let's dive in.
So here's what you're going tolearn in this episode today.
First, you're going to learnthe psychology behind why words
arouse women and why so many menget it wrong.
You're also going to learn afive-step framework to making

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her body respond instinctivelyto your voice.
Then I'm going to go overcommon mistakes that men make
that kill the mood when they'retrying to talk dirty instead of
turning her on, and I'm going togive you word for word scripts
that you can use and also whatabsolutely not to do.
By the time you finishlistening, you're going to have

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the power to turn her on anytime, anywhere, without even
touching her.
Before we dive into techniques,let's break down the why Women's
brains are wired for arousalthrough imagination.
Studies show that women'sarousal is significantly tied to
mental stimulation, not justphysical.

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A 2009 study published by theJournal of Sexual Medicine found
that women's brains light up inresponse to anticipation and
narrative-driven fantasies,meaning words have a direct
impact on their sexual response.
In addition, dopamine andoxytocin are the arousal

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chemicals, and when you say theright thing, you trigger the
release of both oxytocin anddopamine.
Now, dopamine is the pleasurechemical and oxytocin is the
bonding chemical.
This release creates bothsexual arousal and deeper
emotional connection, making hercrave more.

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Finally, words activate theprefrontal cortex.
This is the part of the brainthat processes imagination and
emotions.
A woman's prefrontal cortexplays a key role in her sexual
arousal.
When you use vivid,sensory-driven language, you
activate this part of her brain,turning her on before you've

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even touched her.
The takeaway here is, if youmaster verbal seduction, you are
going to control her arousal ata deeper level than physical
touch alone.
Now let's go over the biggestmistakes that men make when they
are trying to talk dirty.
The biggest mistake that menmake is thinking that dirty talk

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is all about being justexplicit.
A bad approach that is oftenused is jumping straight into
graphic, porn style languagebefore she's even aroused.
This can make her shut downright away.
An example of this is sayingsomething like I want to fuck
you right now.
It's aggressive and there isabsolutely no buildup.

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Another approach to avoid isoverusing the same generic
compliments.
For example, you're so sexy,you're so hot.
Yes, they're flattering, butthey're boring, forgettable and
overused.
It sounds like something youcould just say to any girl.
So what's the right approach?
Build arousal throughanticipation, emotional

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engagement and sensory richdetail.
An example of something likethis is I can't stop thinking
about the way your body feelsunder my hands or the way your
breath hitches when I kiss you.
Why does this work?
It's specific and it paints apicture that activates her
imagination.
All right, let's jump into thefive-step framework that's going

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to make her wet with words.
Step one set the tone with yourvoice.
A deep, slow, confident voiceis 10 times more effective than
just words alone.
Research from the University ofAberdeen found that women are
naturally more attracted tolower pitched, slow, paced
voices.
They associate it withdominance and sensuality.

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Finally, use pauses.
So an example is, instead ofsaying you're so sexy in a low,
slow voice, say do you have anyidea how hard it is to not touch
you right now?
That's going to work far better, I promise.

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Step two is paint a picture inher mind.
Women are turned on by mentalimagery Instead of just saying
what you want.
Imagery Instead of just sayingwhat you want.
Describe how it feels.
Use sensory details.
Touch sight, sound, breath andspeak in fragments.
Let her mind fill in the gaps.
An example is something like Ican already picture the way your

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lips part when I lean in tokiss you, the way your breath
hitches when I trace my fingersdown your stomach inch by inch.
Why does this work?
The mind can't tell thedifference between imagination
and reality.
So when you describe sensations, she feels them.
Step three make it about her,not just about what you want.

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Women love feeling desired.
Instead of saying what you want, tell her what it is about her
that drives you crazy.
Be specific.
Mention something that's uniqueto her.
An example of this is somethinglike the way you bite your lip
when you're turned on.
That kills me.
Or something like that soundyou make when I tease you.

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I've just got to hear it rightnow.
What not to do?
We've already gone over it.
Avoid the generic, surfacelevel compliments like you're so
hot, it's just too vague.
And don't just talk about whatyou want to do.
Talk about how she makes youfeel and why.
Step four tease withanticipation.

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Anticipation builds desire,make her wait for it.
So how do you do this?
Use unfinished sentences thatleave her hanging, or ask
questions that make her mindrace.
An example of this is somethingas simple as if I were there
right now, do you know what I'ddo to you?
Why does it work?

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Delayed gratificationintensifies arousal.
And finally, step five, get herto verbalize her arousal.
When a woman says how turned onshe is, it heightens her desire
.
So how do we get her to do this?
Ask her open-ended, suggestivequestions and encourage her to
describe what she's feeling.

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Some examples of this are tellme how wet you are right now.
Or if I told you not to touchyourself while we were talking,
would you listen?
So why does this work?
Speaking her arousal out loudreinforces it in her mind,

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amplifying the desire.
Okay, so there's the five-stepframework, but here's the hot
tip that's really going to sealthe deal the aftershock.
Most men stop after the moment,but the best seducers keep the
desire alive.
So send a follow-up text,something like I can still hear

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the way you gasped when I saidthat to you or when I did that
to you.
Another suggestion use voicememos instead of text for that
extra intimate touch.
So now you know the power ofwords and the science behind it.
You've got a five-stepframework, so use words wisely,
make her ache for you, make hercrave you.

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People who master this don'tjust make women crave them, they
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