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September 8, 2025 70 mins

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GUEST PROFILE: Nancy Burger is a leading workplace communication strategist, executive coach, and founder of the Fear Finding Project who helps leaders overcome fear-based thinking after leaving her own Wall Street career to transform her expertise in human psychology into practical strategies for building emotionally healthy, high-performing cultures.

EPISODE NOTES:

3:00 - Nancy shares her stable suburban upbringing but reveals the hidden family dynamics that shaped her fear-based thinking patterns and career trajectory

6:00 - The courage to leave Wall Street: Nancy discusses conquering multi-layered fears to end a 27-year marriage and completely rebuild her life in her 50s

9:00 - Key insight: Fear as information tool - "Fear can become a tool. Notice this without judging it...use it as information instead of recoiling and avoiding the thing because it's scary"

12:00 - Brain science of fear: Understanding limbic system vs prefrontal cortex responses and why we need both pathways for survival and growth

15:00 - Imposter syndrome focus: Nancy's passion project - helping leaders understand "that is something they're making a choice about and they can change it"

18:00 - The power of words in building confidence: How feedback can either destroy or empower, drawing parallels to pilot training methodologies

24:00 - Difficult conversations strategy: Using "I statements" to avoid defensiveness - "I'm noticing" vs "You did this"

35:00 - Career evolution: From finance to writing to music to keynote speaking - "an iterative process...like the inner workings of a massive clock"

42:00 - Communication failure story: Learning to consider your audience's experience rather than just your own emotional state

55:00 - AI as tool, not threat: "Learn about it and understand that it is a tool...don't let machines help you interact with loved ones"

60:00 - Success definition: Impact over achievement - "Did I touch the people in my sphere of influence in a way that left an impact that's positive?"Podcast Program – Disclosure Statement

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