Talking Phase

Ever wondered how much of your dating history you should reveal on a first date? What happens when your past feels too heavy to share, but hiding it seems dishonest? This week's episode of The Talking Phase tackles the delicate balance between authenticity and oversharing in modern dating.

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into two compelling relationship dilemmas. First, they address a listener's struggle with sharing past r...

Should you ever rekindle an old flame? What if your high school sweetheart suddenly reappeared in your life - would you give them another chance? In this Valentine's Day special, we dive deep into the complex world of rekindling past relationships and whether opposites truly attract.

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they share fascinating real-life stories about second chances in love, including an incredible tale of high school ...

Are you terrified of being alone? Does the thought of living by yourself make you want to jump into a relationship - any relationship - just to avoid it? In this raw and revealing episode of The Talking Phase, hosts Tom and Pam dive deep into the psychology of why we fear solitude and how it impacts our dating choices.

When Pam's daughter recently moved out, she faced her ultimate fear: living alone for the first time. She candidl...

Is the "spark" in dating real, or are we sabotaging potential relationships by expecting instant chemistry? In this explosive episode of The Talking Phase, hosts Tom and Pam go head-to-head on whether that magical connection should make or break a first date. Plus, a riveting discussion about intimacy vs. sex that will change how you view relationships forever!

Dive deep into the age-old dating dilemma as our hosts t...

What happens when boundaries cross into control? When does a marriage become just two people sharing a house? In this gripping episode of The Talking Phase, we dive deep into two heart-wrenching stories that challenge our understanding of modern relationships. Can a marriage survive separate bedrooms and dating apps? Should you trust your partner's friendships with their exes?

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they tackle a devastating em...

Are men really forced to choose between being "alpha" or "nice"? What if there's a third option that women actually prefer? In this compelling episode of The Talking Phase, hosts Tom and Pam dive deep into the controversial debate about what women truly want in relationships, challenging popular TikTok dating advice and exposing the real truth about the "nice guy" stereotype.

Discover why the traditional "alpha male" approach migh...

Are your dating standards too high, or is the 'single forever' movement onto something? When a friend told Pam she'd end up alone if she didn't lower her standards, it sparked a fascinating debate about modern dating expectations. Should we compromise on our "must-haves" or stay true to our dealbreakers?

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into the complexities of dating standards in your 40s and 50s. From height requirements...

Are you too independent for love? At what point does being comfortable with your single life actually start sabotaging your chances at finding a meaningful relationship? When you've built a life you absolutely love, is it even worth risking it all for romance?

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into the complex world of dating after divorce in 2025. They explore the delicate balance between maintaining independence and allow...

Is modern dating truly harder for men or women? While men struggle to get matches and responses, women face an overwhelming flood of inappropriate messages and time-wasters. This heated debate explores the raw reality of dating apps, ghosting culture, and why finding love seems harder than ever before in 2024.

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into the controversial world of dating apps, sharing personal experiences and sho...

When does a relationship become "official" in 2024? Should you assume exclusivity, or do you need "the talk"? In this episode, we dive deep into the modern dating dilemma that's leaving many singles confused and frustrated. If you've ever wondered whether you're on the same page as the person you're dating, this episode is a must-watch.

Tom shares a perfectly-timed personal story about defining his new relationship, leading to an ...

What happens when you meet someone who seems perfect, but then they vanish without a trace? This week's episode of The Talking Phase dives into the complexities of modern dating and the mysterious phenomenon of ghosting. Join hosts Tom Milligan and Pam O'Leary as they unravel the emotional rollercoaster of connecting with someone new, only to be left wondering what went wrong. Are we doomed to repeat our dating patterns, or is ther...

Ever been stuck in the friend zone, wondering if you should make that leap to something more? What if your closest friend could be your perfect match - but making a move could destroy years of friendship? This episode of The Talking Phase dives deep into the complex world of dating friends, featuring a real-life situation as host Tom grapples with his growing feelings for his long-time friend "Laura". Join hosts Tom and Pam as the...

Ever wondered why a 6-hour first date with amazing chemistry could end in complete disaster? What if your perfect date turns into a $150 nightmare, and your date doesn't offer to pay a single penny? This episode of The Talking Phase dives deep into the modern dating dilemma that's leaving everyone exhausted, frustrated, and questioning if it's even worth trying anymore.

Host Pam shares a shocking story about a recent first date th...

Is the dating divide in America becoming unbridgeable? In a world where politics and religion increasingly define our relationships, can love still conquer all? This episode of The Talking Phase dives deep into the controversial reality of modern dating, where finding love isn't just about chemistry anymore - it's about checking political boxes and religious affiliations. How did we get here, and is there any way back?

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Are younger men increasingly attracted to older women? With Hollywood churning out films like "The Idea of You" and "Lonely Planet," featuring significant age gaps between partners, we're diving deep into this fascinating cultural shift. What's driving this trend, and more importantly - does age really matter anymore in modern dating?

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they explore the complexities of age-gap relationships, drawing from pe...

Would you stay in a relationship where you never had to share a bathroom, fight over decorations, or compromise on the thermostat? A growing trend called "Living Apart Together" is challenging traditional relationship norms, especially for divorced couples over 40. But can you truly be partners if you maintain separate homes?

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into this fascinating relationship phenomenon, sharing real examp...

Is it actually possible to just "fall out of love" with someone who hasn't done anything wrong? And why do we ignore relationship red flags even when they're staring us right in the face? In this gripping episode of The Talking Phase, we dive deep into the psychology of love, loss, and those rose-colored glasses we all seem to wear when we're attracted to someone new.Hosts Tom and Pam unpack a viral TikTok analysis of the Netflix ...

Ready to challenge everything you thought about being single? What if the rising trend of staying single isn't just a phase, but a conscious choice that's making people happier? In this eye-opening episode, Tom and Pam dive deep into a viral BuzzFeed article that's got everyone talking about why more people are choosing the single life. From shocking confessions to surprising statistics, we uncover the real reasons behind this cul...

Is your relationship missing those three little words? This week on The Talking Phase, Pam opens up about her recent breakup and the lessons she's learned from past relationships. Are we doomed to repeat our dating mistakes, or is there hope for growth and wisdom as we age? Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into the complexities of modern love and self-reflection.

Discover why Pam believes in staying open to possibilities ...