If you’ve ever stood in a dressing room, staring at your reflection with that sinking feeling in your chest—this episode is for you.
Today, we’re talking about why dressing rooms can feel like emotional landmines for midlife women—and more importantly, what to do about it. I’ll walk you through a practical, compassionate framework that helps you stop spiraling and start shopping with more self-respect. You’ll learn why your reaction is completely normal (spoiler: the problem isn’t your body), and how to prepare both mentally and emotionally before you even head out the door. Plus, I’ll share one of my go-to tools for those intense dressing room moments that helps you take the pressure off your reflection.
⏱️ Timeline Summary
[1:40] - Why midlife dressing rooms hit differently—and why it’s not your fault
[5:12] - The cultural baggage we carry into the mirror
[9:30] - How to prepare yourself emotionally before you shop
[13:44] - Mantras and mindset shifts that actually work
[17:01] - The Comfort-First Method: A 5-step process for the dressing room
[24:20] - Interrupting the spiral with compassion instead of judgment
[28:55] - What’s possible when you start dressing with self-respect
Links & Resources:
🎧 Download the Midlife Body Image Assessment + audio guide. It helps you see what’s really driving your food and body noise — and what to do to get relief.
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