In this episode, Lois & Will invite listeners into a conversation around the uncomfortable topic of Radical Accountability and why it is a REQUIREMENT for healing. They break down the distinction between responsible and accountable and then dive into the concept of overcoming victim mentality. Lois shares a story about a time when she was in college and violently attacked while running and how that incident combined with a plethora of traumatic life experiences led to her becoming deeply steeped in victim consciousness, chronically ill, and suicidal. She details how tools like psychedelic plant medicines, Gene Keys, and Gratitude Training allowed her to see how she was playing victim and ultimately led to her transformation and profound healing by taking Radical Accountability for her life.
Radical accountability requires intellectual honesty - meaning you must be completely honest with yourself - even if it is uncomfortable. You must take a hard look at your life and how you are showing up. Who are you being? Where are you giving your power away? Are you constantly seeking meaning and answers outside yourself? Do you take accountability for your role in your relationships - especially those relationships that don't feel so warm and fuzzy? Do you blame others for your feelings -saying (person) makes me happy/sad/angry/frustrated, etc? Do you blame God, the Universe, fate, or destiny for the circumstances of your life? Do you blame the weather, astrology, the government, or your genetics for your plight in life? Can you answer these questions truthfully through the eyes of the observer - not bad and wrong - and a desire to understand where in your life you are playing victim?
Lois states, "Here's the thing, anytime we place blame on outside circumstances or give our authority and power away to people or situations we make ourselves a victim. Victim mindset is what keeps us miserable, unhealthy, unhappy, unfulfilled, unhealed, and suffering. I believe it is the greatest evolutionary challenge facing humanity today.
The antidote is radical accountability."
Radical Accountability begins with awareness it leads to conscious choice and ends in freedom. It is a requirement for healing. Listen in for ways YOU can take Radical Accountability for your life and take your power back. There is freedom from your trauma if you choose it.
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