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Welcome back to Teaching
with Valor, the podcast where we
tackle the real-life questionsthat teachers face daily with
practical advice and actionablestrategies.
I’m your host, Don Fessenden,and today, we’re exploring one
of the most powerful tools forcommunication in education:
email.
Email has become the cornerstoneof how we communicate with
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parents.
It’s fast, efficient, and allowsus to connect with parents
outside of the traditionalschool day.
But while email is convenient,it’s also tricky.
Without the tone of voice orbody language that comes with
face-to-face conversations,messages can sometimes be
misinterpreted.
A poorly written email cancreate misunderstandings, while
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a thoughtful, well-crafted onecan build trust, foster
collaboration, and strengthenthe teacher-parent partnership.
So today, we’re diving into howto write effective emails to
parents.
We’ll explore what to say, howto say it, and how to ensure
your message achieves its goal,whether you’re sharing good
news, addressing a concern, orseeking support for a student.
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Whether you’re an elementary,middle, or high school teacher,
these tips will help youcommunicate with clarity,
professionalism, and empathy.
And for our parent listeners,stay tuned for a bonus segment,
where we’ll answer a commonquestion: What’s the best way to
approach a teacher via email toensure a productive
conversation?
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Let’s get started." In our firstsegment we look at The Purpose
of Your Email.
"Before you even start typing,take a moment to clarify the
purpose of your email.
Understanding why you’re writingand what you want to achieve
will guide everything about howyou write, from the subject line
to the closing.
If you’re sharing good news,such as a student’s improvement
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or a successful project, yourgoal might be to celebrate and
build a positive connection withthe parent.
These emails are often a joy towrite because they focus on the
student’s achievements andstrengths.
For example, an email that says,‘I wanted to share how much I
enjoyed[child’s name]’s creativeapproach to their science
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project,’ can make a parent’sday.
If you’re addressing a concern,such as a behavioral issue or
missing assignments, the goal isto inform the parent while
inviting collaboration tosupport the student.
These emails require carefulwording to ensure the message is
constructive and not accusatory.
For instance, rather thansaying,‘[Child’s name] isn’t
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doing their homework,’ you couldsay,‘I’ve noticed that[child’s
name] has had some difficultycompleting assignments, and I’d
like to discuss how we cansupport them.’ For informational
updates, such as reminders aboutupcoming events or changes in
schedules, clarity is key.
Use short, straightforwardlanguage to ensure parents
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understand the details withoutneeding to read between the
lines.
By defining your purpose fromthe start, you can craft a
message that’s focused,effective, and appropriate for
the situation.""Once you’veidentified your purpose, it’s
time to think about tone andstructure.
Let’s dive into how to strikethe right balance between
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professionalism and warmth inyour emails.""Tone is everything
in email communication,especially when writing to
parents.
You want your message to beprofessional yet approachable,
confident yet empathetic.
Striking this balance helpsbuild trust and sets the stage
for positive interactions.
Start by addressing the parentrespectfully.
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Use their preferred title andlast name unless they’ve
indicated that they’recomfortable with something more
informal.
For example,‘Dear Mr.
and Mrs.
Johnson’ is a safe choice, butif you know them well,‘Hi Sarah
and Mark’ might be moreappropriate.
The opening line sets the tonefor the entire email.
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If you’re sharing good news, awarm and enthusiastic opening
works well.
For example,‘I just wanted totake a moment to share some
great news about[child’s name].’If the topic is more serious, a
compassionate and collaborativetone is best.
You might say,‘I wanted to reachout about a concern I’ve noticed
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regarding[child’s name].
I’d appreciate the opportunityto discuss how we can work
together to support them.’ Avoidusing overly formal or stiff
language that can make the emailfeel impersonal.
Instead, write as if you’rehaving a professional but
friendly conversation.
At the same time, steer clear ofoverly casual language or
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emojis, which can come across asunprofessional.
Remember, parents are morelikely to respond positively to
emails that come across assupportive rather than critical.
Even if you’re addressing achallenging topic, framing your
message as a partnership—‘Let’swork together to help[child’s
name] succeed’—can make all thedifference.""With your tone set,
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let’s focus on the structure ofyour email to ensure it’s clear,
concise, and easy to follow.""Aneffective email is one that
parents can read quickly andunderstand immediately.
That’s why structure is soimportant.
A well-organized email helpsyour message come across clearly
and reduces the chances ofconfusion or misinterpretation.
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Begin with a clear subject linethat reflects the purpose of
your email.
For example,‘Update on[Child’sName]’s Math Progress’ or
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Parent-Teacher
Conference Schedule.’ A strong
subject line ensures the parentknows what to expect before they
even open the email.
In the opening paragraph, statethe purpose of your email
clearly.
If you’re sharing good news,lead with that.
If you’re addressing a concern,briefly explain what the issue
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is and why it’s important.
The goal is to set the stage forthe rest of the email without
overwhelming the reader with toomuch detail right away.
The body of your email shouldprovide the necessary details in
a logical order.
Use short paragraphs to break upinformation, and consider using
headings or bolded text for keypoints if your email is longer
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than a few sentences.
For example, if you’re invitingparents to a school event, you
might include sections like‘Dateand Time,’‘Location,’ and‘What
to Bring.’ In your closingparagraph, summarize any next
steps or action items.
For example,‘Please let me knowif you’d like to schedule a time
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to discuss this further’ or‘Feelfree to reach out if you have
any questions about the upcomingproject.’ End with a positive
note that reinforces yourcommitment to the student’s
success, such as,‘Thank you foryour continued support.
I’m looking forward to seeing[child’s name]’s progress.’
Finally, sign off with aprofessional closing like‘Best
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regards’ or‘Sincerely,’ followedby your name and contact
information.
Including your title and schoolname is a nice touch, especially
for parents who might not befamiliar with all their child’s
teachers.""Now that we’vecovered tone and structure,
let’s talk about how to handlechallenging situations, such as
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responding to complaints oraddressing sensitive topics in
an email.""Writing emails aboutsensitive or challenging topics
requires extra care.
The key is to remain calm,professional, and focused on
finding a solution.
When responding to a complaint,start by acknowledging the
parent’s concern.
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For example,‘Thank you forbringing this to my attention.
I appreciate the opportunity toaddress your concerns.’ This
shows the parent that you’retaking their feedback seriously
and sets a collaborative tone.
Be factual and specific in yourresponse.
Avoid emotional language ordefensiveness, even if the
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complaint feels unfair.
For example, if a parent isupset about a grade, you might
say,‘I understand your concernsabout[child’s name]’s recent
grade.
I’d be happy to explain how itwas determined and discuss ways
to support their progress movingforward.’ If you’re addressing a
sensitive topic, such asbehavior issues or academic
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struggles, frame theconversation as a partnership.
Highlight your shared goal ofhelping the student succeed.
For example,‘I wanted to discuss[child’s name]’s recent
challenges in[specific area] andexplore how we can support them
together.’ When in doubt, invitethe parent to continue the
conversation in person or overthe phone.
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Some topics are better handledface-to-face, where tone and
context are easier to convey.""Email is a powerful tool, but
it’s just one part of thecommunication puzzle.
Now, let’s turn to our bonussegment, where we’ll answer a
common question from parents:
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a teacher via email to ensure aproductive conversation?" The
key is to be clear, concise, andrespectful.
Start with a polite greeting andintroduce yourself, especially
if it’s your first timeemailing.
For example,‘Hello, I’m[child’sname]’s parent, and I wanted to
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ask about[specific topic].’ Bespecific about your question or
concern, and avoid makingassumptions or accusations.
Instead of saying,‘Why didn’t mychild get a better grade?’ try
asking,‘Could you help meunderstand the grading criteria
for[specific assignment]?’ Endyour email with an open
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invitation for furtherdiscussion.
For instance,‘I’d be happy tomeet or talk by phone if that
would be easier.’ This showsthat you’re open to
collaboration and value theteacher’s time." Now, lets look
at todays episode takeaways.
"Effective email communicationis one of the most important
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skills a teacher can develop.
By writing emails that areclear, professional, and
empathetic, you can buildstronger partnerships with
parents and create a positive,collaborative environment for
your students.
Thank you for joining us onTeaching with Valor.
For more resources on emailcommunication and other teaching
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strategies, check out the linksin our episode description.
Remember, every email is anopportunity to connect, support,
and inspire.
Until next time, keep growing,keep connecting, and as always,
keep teaching with valor."