Dominatrix Audrey Fatale invites Eva Oh into her playspace for a conversation spanning 15 years of professional domination. They cover burnout, returning with purpose, and what changes as you age in the sex industry. From Audrey’s gear obsession and heavy bondage practice to navigating perimenopause and the politics of cis-het male doms, this episode is a candid look at the shifting seasons of dominance—and the power in pacing yourself.
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HIGHLIGHTS:
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(01:09) - Meeting Audrey Fatale in her Playspace
(02:42) - 15 Years of Domination, a Burnout and We're Back!
(04:00) - The BDSM House Environment vs Indie
(07:50) - Pacing for Job Satisfaction
(10:00) - Eva and Audrey's Different Focuses
(11:50) - Audrey, the Gear Head
(13:10) - Time, Experience and Stepping into 'Natural' Dominance
(18:00) - The Financial Aspect of Femdom
(19:40) - Different Domination 'Seasons', from Baby Domme to Now
(27:30) - Claustrophobia meets Heavy Bondage Practice
(30:00) - When Eva Bottoms
(33:40) - The Politics of Cis-het Male Doms
(37:50) - Audrey's Europe Plans
(39:10) - Perimenopause, HRT and Self-Advocacy
(49:00) - Aging in the Sex Industry
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