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July 24, 2024 40 mins

When Pam’s dad was diagnosed with tongue cancer 13 years ago, she made it her mission to find him the best possible care.

So, after a consult with a local surgeon, Pam made appointments for a second and third opinion with university-level providers within driving distance.

What was their experience navigating big-name surgeons and oncologists at well-known university hospitals? Did such accomplished doctors come with outsized egos?

On this episode of Tell Me More, Pam describes the mistake a top surgeon made in speaking to statistics without addressing her dad’s particular case and explains why her dad ultimately chose the team at Johns Hopkins to treat his tongue cancer.

Pam also shares her experience advocating for her mom when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2021, challenging doctors to offer clear guidance and explain the WHY behind a patient’s treatment options.

Listen in for Pam’s practical advice on dealing with university-level egos and learn how to act from a place of confidence, remembering that even prestigious doctors work for you! 

Key Takeaways  Why Pam sought a second and third opinion with university-level providers when her dad was diagnosed with tongue cancer

The mistake an accomplished surgeon made in speaking to statistics without addressing Pam’s dad’s particular case

How the third opinion Pam and her dad got differed from the two previous consultations

Why the accomplished surgeon at Johns Hopkins suggested treating Pam’s dad with radiation vs. surgery

How the radiation oncologist that treated Pam’s dad was both outstanding in his field and an outstanding person

The lack of guidance a local surgeon offered when Pam’s mom was diagnosed with breast cancer

How Pam connected with the Chief of Breast Surgery at Johns Hopkins for a consult with her mom

The benefit of having a doctor who explains the WHY behind your treatment options

Why Pam and her mom ultimately chose clustered over weekly radiation treatments

Pam’s advice on navigating university-level egos by remembering that even prestigious doctors work for you

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