278. That’s Not a Cookie — That’s Your Bondage(Spiritual Warfare in Family Bloodlines) - That Bitch is Positive

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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Cancel I'm so Highcasa cancela.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
It's not Sorrylogy.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
This year for Christmas, I wanted just about everything. Oh
and the Epstein Files. It's not too much to ask for.
I mean, really, after all, we are the God particle
in human form. I'm pretty sure we can be do
have anything. What's a positive, bitches? Happy holidays, Merry Christmas
or whatever else you celebrate? Happy Hanukkah, when's kwanza I

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actually don't know.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
Are there other holiday?

Speaker 3 (00:46):
You know she's not cultured, so sorry, not cultured. I
really don't know what else there is.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Anyway, So happy to have you here. What's a positive? Bitches?

Speaker 3 (00:56):
How are you doing today? If you are hearing this episode,
then you're meant to be here. So keep listening on
that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh, other times
we will cry, but we will always walk away feeling
our most empowered positive bitch self, that is babe in
true connection with herself, himself or human self. I don't
really care if you identify as an alien. If you

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want to step into your power, then keep.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Listening on this podcast.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
We unbecome who we are not because ew and we
step into all that we came here to be. I
have to tell you, this is such a different Christmas
for me.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
I'm spending it.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
In Florada, and boy am I happy to do so.
I had a beautiful Ooh, let me turn my phone on,
do not disturb. I had a beautiful morning in the sun.
It feels so good to be grounded on planet Earth,
at my feet in the sand. Oh, my god, it's
so beautiful. If you have ever thought about move, even

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Jesus himself said he could not be a prophet in
his hometown. One of the best decisions I've made for
myself is to move away from where I am from.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
Holy moly, what a difference that can make.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
You don't realize that your environment is triggering a specific
version of yourself. And when I'm in New York, I
literally hold on to more weight there. I feel so fragmented.
I feel un well to put it lightly, to put
it lightly, But you don't realize how unwell you feel until.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
You leave and go somewhere else and you.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
Realize, holy moly, I feel so much better. I feel
so much more in alignment with happiness and peace and joy.
And maybe you're thinking, Cecie, how do I know where
to go? And I just saw two tuoto on my clock.
How do I know where to go? And how do
I know what's in alignment for me? Well, you might
have to test out some places, but how do you
know what's in alignment for you? You feel peace, you

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feel joy, you feel light, Your digestive system is working
a little bit better, less bloated.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Last night on Christmas, I have to.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
Say I got the channel that there is a new
cycle opening in love.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
We went through a.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Nine year Karmix cycle, and now the new cycle has opened,
just yesterday. Expect more offers, Expect miracles when it comes
to love. Expect different types of people to be connecting
with you. I'm not kidding you. I went to the
grocery store. This has never happened to me at the
grocery store. I went to the grocery store and a

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man came up to me, started talking to me, and
we exchanged numbers. I just took a nature walk today
this morning, man.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Came up to me.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
We just exchanged numbers. I'm telling you right now, there
is a new cycle opening when it comes to love.
I heard the channel and then I started to experience it.
You have to start telling yourself wherever I am, and
now I just saw three three three. This is so
destined by the divine. You have to start telling yourself

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wherever I am, so was my counter part, wherever I go,
my counterpart is there. There is this energetic underlying current
that is from this outdated masculine paradigm of I have
to go to the bar, or have to go to
the run club, or have to go here and there
in order to meet someone.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
No no, no, no, no no no no no.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
Stop going places you don't even want to be just
so you can meet someone. It's not the way to go.
You need to start going where you want to go.
You need to start doing what you want to do. Today,
when I met someone on a walk, they asked me
why I pretty much stopped drinking, and I said because
I would go places and I was so bored by

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the humans there that I would have to drink in
order to make them more interesting. And then I had
to come to self moment and said, wait a damn minute,
why am I putting poison in my body? And we
all pick our poisons, okay, but I have already picked mine,
and therefore I'm not going to drink and eat a
bunch of chemicals. So we all pick our poisons. This

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is not I'm better than you know. I have botops
in my face, so I'm not going to drink alcohol.
I have filler in my lip, so I'm not going
to drink alcohol. We all pick our poisons anyway. My
point is, why would I go to a place and
then have to drink in order for me to actually
want to stay there. There's something wrong with that. Alcohol

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does nothing for me. It doesn't make me happy, It
doesn't put me in a better mood. In fact, it
takes away from me the next morning when I want
to go work out. My point is, we are moving
out of this cycle where we're doing going places just
so that we can make a connection.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Because we want love. You need to start doing what makes.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
You happy because it just makes you happy. You need
to start going where it makes you happy just because
it makes you happy, and you need to encode that
wherever I am, my divine counterpart is also there. I
also heard on my walk today that God is such
a specific god. God is a specific God. Okay. This
means that God is working with ultimate precision to make

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sure that the sun rises on a cycle and goes
down on the cycle. The moon, the stars, the seasons,
everything is so precise. The way God is going to
align the love of your life is going to be
so precise you're not gonna have to think about it.
That's what makes it so miraculous. The way God is
going to align that perfect promotion or your new best friend,
or whatever it is that you're looking for where to move,

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it's going to be so in alignment. Your jaw's going
to drop. Because our God is a specific one and
our God is very precise.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
You don't need to.

Speaker 3 (06:32):
Micro manage the divine. You don't need to micromanage the divine.
Take a seat, take a breath. You can trust. It's
safe for you to trust. And I have to be honest.
They are really not teaching the good News at church
every Sunday. They ain't teaching the gospel. I don't know
what they're teaching. Fear and to donate money. Okay, great.

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The living gospel is you. You are the living Gospel.
So you have to start to encode your reality to
reflect a gods that you want to actually read and
exist within. The Thing is there are energetic laws in
this universe and just like gravity. You don't have to
believe in gravity. It's at play in your life. If
you walk off that cliff, goodbye, Betsy, see you in

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the next one. Yeah, yeah, it doesn't matter if you
believe in gravity or not. You're going down, Babe, You're
going down. It's the same thing with energetic laws. Whether
or not you believe in energetic law, it doesn't matter.
They're at play in your life. So here are the options.
Learn energetic law and how to live in accordance with it,
or live outside of energetic law and be unconsciously manifesting

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a reality you don't even like. You can live within
universal law. You can live outside of universal law, but
you cannot change universal energetic law. And if you want
to understand more about energetic law, get my books Show
Up as Her as a gift to yourself. Give yourself
the gift of a new living gospel. Give yourself the

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gift of new reality. Give yourself the gift of new partnerships,
new connections, a new career, a new identity. I help
you identity map a complete new identity in my book
Show Up as Her. This is what you need. You
can get there from here, but you need the right tools.
This is the right tool for you. The link is
always in the show notes. Now it becomes harder to

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live within energetic law when we are surrounded by people
who remind us of our past self rather than who
we are today, rather than who it is we actually are,
rather than who we are when we are in alignment
with our joy, with our peace, with our happiness. People
are triggers and sometimes they can trigger that old identity

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to come on out. If you are experiencing difficult conversations,
difficult dinners, difficult holiday parties, you need to start encoding
your reality. That's one of the energetic laws, as above
so below. Whatever is going on in here is going
to be going on out there. What you speak to yourself,
what you think about as within so without, you will

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see it in your external reality. If you have a brother,
a mother, or a sister, I don't really care an
uncle that is causing you havoc within your system, what
you're going to do internally is say Christ, let there
be light. I unsubscribe from this narrative. Yesterday at my
family party, someone was talking about how when you get

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older you have to rush and have these babies. And
if you're thirty, you better start getting it together. And
I was like, no, no, no, no, no, no no no.
I unsubscribe from that narrative. That's old, faulty matrix programming.
And by the way, both of my grandma's had babies
well into their forties. What are you talking about? What
are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (09:45):
I say, I.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
Unsubscribe from that narrative. Christ, let there be light, I
will say, I cast the burden upon the Christ within,
and I walk freely into my present moment. I don't
give my power away because sometimes people have moderating spirits.
Sometimes they have demons, times they have entities. And how
does that demon grow? How does that entity.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Grow through annoying you?

Speaker 3 (10:05):
If someone has some sort of entity, the way it
grows because all energy wants to expand is to latch
onto you and say, I'm gonna frustrate you so much
that you drop down into states of powerlessness and grief,
and so then you take on the entity. That's the
open door to the entity. I'm gonna drop down in
a lower vibration and a lower emotion. I'm gonna allow
this entity in and then you start to get anxious

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and insecure. No, we're not doing that we're not doing
that instead of allowing people to trigger us into.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
Who we used to be.

Speaker 3 (10:35):
Because let me tell you, my mom has always said,
I am battle trained. My tongue is my sword and
my shield. I can use my tongue to either build
up my life or to tear other people down. I
can tear myself down to if I really wanted to,
I use my tongue so specifically, so specifically. I recently

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have been going through something and there are so many
things I could say that would destroy someone's ego like this,
like this, I could destroy it in a one second,
so easy. So mmm, I'm not doing that. I am
not doing that because that doesn't serve me. And even
when there's little breadcrumbs for me to bite back at
a sibling, to bite back at a family member, I

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don't do it.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
I don't do it, and not because I'm so great
and gracious let it.

Speaker 3 (11:28):
No, it's not what I want to create. I want
to create love. I want to create life. When I
take a nature walk, I am.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
Blessing Mother Earth. I'm not going to use my tongue
to destroy No. Thanks.

Speaker 3 (11:40):
Now, maybe sometimes there's a time and a place, and
if there is a let you know, and then maybe
we do need a little sword action hello in a warrior.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
But I'm not going to allow other.

Speaker 3 (11:51):
People to dictate if I go into that fierceness or not.
If I do, it's gonna be my decision because I
want to, not because my brother wants to insult me,
not because someone wants to tear me down, not because
someone wants to make me be who I used to be.
I even have some people in my life who will say,
just have a drink, Just have a drink, like, no, no,

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put a cork in it. You want to talk about
drinks so much, get a cork and put it in it.
I Am not going to allow other people to dictate
if I go into a past identity, how I'm gonna
show up what I'm gonna do, because if I do that,
I'm not living for me anymore. In fact, I don't
have conscious control. I'm letting someone else dictate it. People

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are triggers and they can trigger us into this older
identity where we go back into how we used to be,
and for me, I guess that would be binge eating,
really anxious and in a grumpy mood. No I am healthy.
Why because I've decided that is who I am. If
I want to exist within a healthy identity, I need

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healthy habits.

Speaker 2 (12:58):
That's it. Period.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
This is not as hard as we think it is.
And I'll see even in my family there's some binging behaviors,
but it's just habits. They'll eat dessert at night, and
then breakfast is also dessert, and then lunch is dessert,
and then dinner.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
And I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
I'm there, I'll have a tea, I'll exist, but I
don't have to feed into the habits of an older
identity just because I'm around it.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
And I make sure that when I get.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
Back into my room, back into my space, even if
I have to go to the bathroom or outside, I
light a little Palo Santo. I'll spray a little essential oils,
and I'll get back into my body, back into my space.
There is going to be in urge when you're going
back around past people. There will be in urge to

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go back into your past identity, to go to the
binge eating.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
I told my.

Speaker 3 (13:54):
Mom the other day, I go, look, Mom, for you,
A cookie isn't a cookie, it's your bondage when you
eat a cookie. You don't eat just one, you have
to have fifty of them, and then you hate yourself
and you feel sick and your stomach hurts, and your
neck hurts and your body hurts.

Speaker 2 (14:10):
That's not a cookie. That's your bondage.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
If you have any sort of addictive behavior, whether it's
the bottle or the cookies, or any sort of behavior
where you're doing something even though you don't want to
do it and you know it's not serving you, that's
because another entity is living through you and feeding on you.
That's not a cookie. That's not a bottle. That's your bondage.

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This is spiritual warfare. And when I realized it wasn't
about a cookie or a calorie, it was about spiritual
warfare and reclaiming my life. I no longer was attracted
to sugar or cookies. It does nothing for me. So
I can have all of this fake chemicals in my body,
not being able to digest it, so I can be

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in bondage to hating myself, feeling sick, loaded, and making
myself feel absolutely terrible.

Speaker 2 (15:03):
No.

Speaker 3 (15:04):
No, I'm not going to allow past people to stress
me out to the point that I become someone who
I'm actually not. The urge will be there. The urge
will be there until you train yourself. You have to
train your animalistic self because yes, we are divine, but
we're also this animal. You have to train yourself like
you would a dog. You have to go beyond the
animal brain and choose consciously. So instead of reacting to

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the urge and just piling down oreos, you're gonna say, no, no,
I know why this urge is here. I'm a little
bit more stressed, I'm a little bit more on edge.
I'm around people I'm not usually around so much, and
I just want to go back into my old way
of being, and I just want to shove down all
of these no no, no, no, no, no, no, no no,
because that's not me living in alignment with who I
actually am. You have freedom to choose, but you are

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not free of the consequences of your actions. You have
freedom to choose, but you are not free of the
consequences of your actions. There are unseen and seen consequences
for every thing you do. The scene and unseen consequence
for you going back to that urge and allowing an urge.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
To dictate what you do next, you feel sick.

Speaker 3 (16:09):
You get mad at yourself, You learn to not trust yourself,
and you get sucked into your past. The seen and
unseen consequence of you freely choosing in the present moment
to be in alignment with your highest self, you feel better,
You feel healthier, You feel like you finally got the
reins in your hands again.

Speaker 2 (16:26):
You feel so empowered. It gives you confidence.

Speaker 3 (16:29):
You learn you can trust yourself. You learn you can
trust yourself because instead of you going against yourself and
trying to feel safe with something external, you are learning no,
my choice is what makes me safe because I choose
an alignment with what I truly want. My choice is
what makes me safe because I choose what really makes
me happy. My choice is what makes me safe because

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I choose what I actually want. I'm not letting the
energy around me dictate what I do. Moving forward, you
need to start saying to yourself, I'm not my father's limitations.
I'm not my mother's limitations. I'm not my lineages limitations.
I am not what I have learned. I'm so much
more than that. I'm more than this body, I'm more

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than this program. I'm more than who I have thought
myself to be. And if even Jesus could not be
seen as who he truly was, a prophet in his hometown.
Maybe these people just can't see me right, and maybe
their reactions to me is what caused me to not
be able to see myself write either.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
So what am I gonna do?

Speaker 3 (17:29):
I'm gonna alchemize, get my art of alchemy course, learn
how to turn your pain into your power. Learn how
to take back all of your power from these behaviors,
from these urges that are not even you.

Speaker 2 (17:40):
These urges are your crutch.

Speaker 3 (17:42):
They give you something to do, but they literally keep
you in the same space injured.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
You can also say these urges are your rocking chair.

Speaker 3 (17:51):
They give you something to do, they give you something
to lean on, but it gets you nowhere.

Speaker 2 (17:56):
Who are you serving? Who are you serving?

Speaker 3 (17:58):
When you go back into an urge that you don't
even want to take parton?

Speaker 2 (18:02):
Listen? Listen.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
At the end of the day, you're either working with
the devil or the divine, The devil or the divine.
There is polarity on this planet. And I hate to say,
but you know what, when it comes to this, it
is that black and white. It is that black and white.
You are either creating with the devil or the divine?
So maybe you have to ask yourself and say, am
I creating from fear? That's the devil from lack, that's

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the devil from past programming, That's the devil from egoic
scarcity and fear. That's the devil from past programming, from
who I used to be, from people outside of myself?
That's the devil? Or Or am I creating consciously? That's
that's with God? Am I choosing in alignment with my

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highest self?

Speaker 2 (18:49):
Ooh, okay, there we go. That's with God.

Speaker 3 (18:51):
Am I creating from my future self? That's my cue
that I am aligned with the divine? The most high?
Am I creating from love? Peace, happiness, joy? Amazing things
happen when you remind yourself you are not what you
have learned, and you're not your parents' limitations. You're not

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your family's limitations. You have an invitation every single second
of the day to be and embody and do exactly
what it is that you want that you want. It's
time to say no to what's not serving us. We're
going into a new year and whatever we made the
calendar YadA you who whatever?

Speaker 2 (19:33):
Okay, it's not that big of a deal.

Speaker 3 (19:35):
We made this frickin thing and enough people believe in
the calendar for it to mean something. So listen, we're
going into a new year.

Speaker 2 (19:42):
You got to decide.

Speaker 3 (19:43):
What's serving me. What's not cut out anything that isn't
serving you, the people, the behavior is the connection. It's
just not worth it. It's not worth it. And I
really have been thinking a lot about well, damn, I
did not get this far just to get this far.
I did not go through all those nights crying, sleepless, restless.

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I did not go through all those different experiences, and
I was not forged in fire.

Speaker 2 (20:09):
So I can sit around and be like t lely DM.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
No, I'm not doing that now. At this point, I'm
going to go so far. I'm going to get everything
I want.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Period. I've already decided.

Speaker 3 (20:18):
And once you make a decision, well that's really it.
Sometimes it is as simple as making a decision, a
different decision, a new decision. I have so much faith
in my vision, in my heart because the Divine gifted
me those things. And I'm not going to doubt the divine,
because that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (20:36):
If I have trusted.

Speaker 3 (20:38):
Narcissistic personalities, victim personalities.

Speaker 2 (20:43):
Men who couldn't show up for me.

Speaker 3 (20:45):
I'm pretty sure I can learn to trust the divine
and that is what I'm going to do. It's also
what I'm going to invite you to do as well. Now,
positive bitches, Today is Christmas, but I wanted to film
anyway because I wanted you to have something to hold
launch you, something to listen to, and I wanted to
spend time with you. I just want to say thank
you so much for yet another year together. I love you,

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I love you, I love you. The Christ's light in me,
the sparkle in me sees the christ Light and the
sparkle in you. Do not let these dummies bring you down. Okay,
do not let these dummies bring you down. I will say,
give people a chance to show up differently. You have
to use your discernment with who you can do that with.

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But I do recommend if you have a sibling that's
kind of annoying, you have someone that's you're not a
huge fan of, give them a chance to show up
differently because a lot of times we bring our past
experiences with that person into the present moment and we're
already projecting that they're going to annoy us, and then
they do. Be sure that you're not doing that, because

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if you are, you're collaborating with the devil, because you're
caging that person to their past limitations.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
And if you can change, so can they. You're caging
that person to who they used to be.

Speaker 3 (21:58):
And if you so badly want people to give you
space to show up differently, if you so badly want
people to see you for who you are, you got
to give other people the same chance. And I'll tell
you I do that, and I feel so good. I
give people a clean slate again. Use the sermon with
who you can do this with can't be done with everyone,

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but for someone who's kind of annoying, I'll give them
a clean slate. And you know what, I had great conversations.
I had so much fun. I enjoyed my time because
I wasn't already projecting. This person's gonna annoy me. Then
I'm gonna have to walk away, and then I'm gonna
have to do this. No, no, I said. If I
have the ability to show up differently, so can they.
And because I'm not already broadcasting, I'm gonna reject you.
I don't like you. They're able to rest, to be themselves.

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When you are in fight and fight, you cannot access
social engagement mode, and then everyone is about to fight
or fight. You have to be in alignment with yourself,
be at peace with yourself, and it allows other people
to be at peace too, and then instead of both
of you looking for a threat, but it allows for
peace to be felt so clean. All the mental sticky

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notes you have about people who are kind of annoying,
and give them a chance to show up differently, just
like you want the chance to be seen differently. Give
them a chance to embody who they actually are rather
than how you have known them. It truly does take
two to tango. And yes, this is not a perfect science,
and yes maybe sometimes we'll be annoying, but but you
might cut down the annoyance from one hundred percent of

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the time to fifty And you know what, this is
your reality. It's kind of worth it to have some
more piece. I love you so much and I will
see you in the next one.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
Not can.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
T kinds asked me? Kinds as me

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