In this episode of That Twin Mama Podcast, Lauren and her husband, Ryan, dive into the raw realities of parenting twins, the evolving dynamics of their relationship, and how they’ve managed stress, resentment, and personal growth along the way. They discuss the challenges of navigating life as the default parent while balancing a partner's demanding career, offering relatable insights for moms and dads alike. Inspired by the thought-provoking movie Nightbitch, Lauren shares how the film perfectly captures the internal struggles of motherhood—how it feels to lose yourself in parenting while keeping up appearances for the outside world.
Lauren and Ryan also break down their experience with love languages in their marriage and how they’ve learned to communicate effectively despite their differences. Lauren thrives on words of affirmation, while Ryan expresses love through acts of service—leading to moments of misunderstanding and growth. They explore how identifying and respecting each other's love languages can make or break a relationship, especially in the chaotic world of parenting twins.
Plus, they discuss why they aren’t big fans of Valentine's Day and how they choose to celebrate their love in more meaningful, everyday ways without the pressure of the holiday hype.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- How Nightbitch shines a light on the unspoken struggles of motherhood.
- The reality of parenting twins when one parent is the default caregiver.
- Practical strategies for recalibrating parenting roles as children grow.
- How love languages impact relationships and parenting partnerships.
- Why Valentine's Day isn't for everyone and how to redefine relationship expectations.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Watch Nightbitch
Take the Love Languages Quiz
Podcast Season 1 Episode: Tackling Resentment in Marriage and Parenting with Ryan Berty
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Credits
Production: Berty Enterprises
Editing: Nomadic Orca
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
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